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ORIGINAL: gypsylee

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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond

...I have one piercing, my hood, I had that done to try and prove to myself that i could, was very ill beforehand and a bundle of nerves afterwards.
Now I have always wanted inner labia piercings, 3 rings, I think it looks beautiful and i like the idea from the chastity perspective even the illusion and sensation off. The only reason I have never had it done is fear, I think about it and want it but don't know if i am brave enough to do it. Now i am with the most wonderful Dom and he loves the idea, he likes the idea of me having it done although not exactly for him as it was a prior desire, it would be for me despite me being with him if that makes any sense, but he loves the idea and would really like it if I could have it done.
He loves the idea, I love the idea and I want it badly I'm just not sure how i can ever be brave enough, i don't want to be afraid, i want it to be easy as one two three, in all honestly though I would be getting it for me it would have never moved from the area of my thoughts titled "someday"  if there wasnt that extra incentive.
So I guess the question is, how do I not be afraid...

gawd. can people stop posting about piercings? i'm one to go and get 'em done on the spur of the moment but i can't afford it atm!

the next piercing on my list is actually the clit hood, so i'm wondering why you're fearful of labia piercings if you've already had that done? from what i've read it's one of the trickiest piercings ie. the piercer needs to be very precise... but i don't know how it rates in terms of pain. personally i don't really care but i would appreciate your feedback on the experience.

i used to be a total needle-phobe. i fainted at school after having the german measles vaccine.

then i had a baby. the amount of injections involved during pregnancy and labour totally desensitised me to needles. the grand finale was an epidural. i reckon if you can take a huge needle in the spine during contractions you can handle anything.

i still get a huge adrenaline rush from piercings... i'm what they call a 'fainter'. after speaking to various piercers, it's not a case of being a scaredy cat or whatever, it's just a physical pre-disposition. several piercers have told me that fainters are often big, tough, bikie types.

the point being that you shouldn't let fear put you off getting your piercings. anyone trained in piercing or tattooing knows allll about the range of reactions people have and they tend to be more understanding than medical professionals in my experience.

just do it :)

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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond

I have been thinknig about this an awful lot, I want it done....remembering my hood piercing it was not all that bad and I will feel so proud when I have it done it is worth it, i think I will take the decision on myself, tell him it is something i want and ask for his help, ask him to help me if the fear gets too much and I feel like backing out if that makes sense...

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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond

I guess this post is about if it is possible to overcome fear for a bigger incentive.... I have a needle phobia, have had it for many years, needles and dentists two things I have real issues, it used to be at the point where even the sight of a needle would make me want to be physically ill, then I started having shots, looking at pictures, trying to get used to them and I got so that I could look at them as long as i didn't think about them too much, I have one piercing, my hood, I had that done to try and prove to myself that i could, was very ill beforehand and a bundle of nerves afterwards.
Now I have always wanted inner labia piercings, 3 rings, I think it looks beautiful and i like the idea from the chastity perspective even the illusion and sensation off. The only reason I have never had it done is fear, I think about it and want it but don't know if i am brave enough to do it. Now i am with the most wonderful Dom and he loves the idea, he likes the idea of me having it done although not exactly for him as it was a prior desire, it would be for me despite me being with him if that makes any sense, but he loves the idea and would really like it if I could have it done.
He loves the idea, I love the idea and I want it badly I'm just not sure how i can ever be brave enough, i don't want to be afraid, i want it to be easy as one two three, in all honestly though I would be getting it for me it would have never moved from the area of my thoughts titled "someday"  if there wasnt that extra incentive.
So I guess the question is, how do I not be afraid...