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What ARE you thinking?? - 10/16/2006 4:33:47 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		There seems to be this desire for a dom to "get a lesbian".  The last time I checked.. a lesbian does not prefer men.  This is verified by my lesbian sister.
 
I would think the lesbians find this type of solicitation as intrusive.
 
If you are a lesbian.. is there an instance you would be interested in a Het male master, other than he wants you for his "girl who is exploring her bi side and he wants to watch" scenario?

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/16/2006 4:51:45 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		I know of lesbians who serve in a het Male households in service positions only. I personally know two lesbian slave/gay Master households, too. I have a lesbian boi (just offered the collar this weekend) and I have a het girl. I don't expect them to have sex with each other or did I expect sex from either one of them as part of their collar...there's plenty of resources for sex. It just so happens that I'm attracted to my boi and she feels the same, so we DO have that...but again, it wasn't expected.

My opinion about Male Doms wanting two women, one being lesbian or not, is so they can have free porn. Voyeurism is a huge fetish. I would even consider watching if I had two that were sexually compatible.

Master Fire

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/16/2006 5:18:01 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

There seems to be this desire for a dom to "get a lesbian".  The last time I checked.. a lesbian does not prefer men.  This is verified by my lesbian sister.
 
I would think the lesbians find this type of solicitation as intrusive.
 
If you are a lesbian.. is there an instance you would be interested in a Het male master, other than he wants you for his "girl who is exploring her bi side and he wants to watch" scenario?


I just consider the source. The vanilla guys are the same way so I wouldn't expect any different just because they are not vanilla.


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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/16/2006 7:12:49 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Thanks for your comments on the other side. Yes, I totally think it's rude to assume that because a woman is a lesbian, she'll do any female. I would bet that the Male Dom in question also feels that just becasue a man is gay, it must mean the gay guy is after HIS ass. As if the gay guy is automatically attracted to him JUST because he's male. *rolls eyes* I can't tell you how many times I get contacted on myspace by guys who assume that, because I'm bi, it means a threesome for them. As if me being bi and them having a girlfriend/wife all of a sudden makes them SO much more attractive. *rolls eyes again*

I think the attitude stems from a lack of education about people who are different. But, my comments in the last post do still stand...voyeurism is a huge fetish. It might be a legit request if the Male Dom really doesn't want to interact with the lesbain female at all and just wants to watch the two women together. If everyone is comfortable, go for it...but to ASSUME that a lesbain would be interested JUST because she a lesbian shows a lack of understanding at best, a lack of respect at worst.

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/16/2006 7:16:31 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		I wonder if  a Gay master would take a Het fem as a submissive?  If there are any out there.. let's hear form you and how it's working for you.
 
(actually, I think that would be neat :)  I dont'know what they would do with one.. but then,  I don't know everything :) 

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/16/2006 7:32:01 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		I know at least two gay male Masters who have het females as slaves.

For every combination of sexual preference in a couple, I can site an example of such a couple. For some, it really ISN'T about sex.

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/16/2006 7:33:55 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

For every combination of sexual preference in a couple, I can site an example of such a couple. For some, it really ISN'T about sex.

Master Fire



It's NOT??  I think my universe is imploding......  

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/16/2006 7:38:55 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

For every combination of sexual preference in a couple, I can site an example of such a couple. For some, it really ISN'T about sex.

Master Fire



It's NOT??  I think my universe is imploding......  


Don't worry, Lotus. If your universe implodes enough to stuff everything into one place, there's this thing called a Big Bang...I've heard it's like a cosmic orgasm...

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/16/2006 8:44:17 PM   
Archer


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Status: offline 		It damned near gave me a brain implossion when I was petitioned to be Leather Daddy by a lesbian boi. I was like WTF? WHY? WHO HOW did this come to be? When the interview came up and the reasoning behind the petition came to light it made perfect sense. But it sure was and still is a bit odd at times. Romance was getting in her way as far as development so a mutual freind suggested the possibility of a Daddy with whom romance would not be an issue. My name cam eup as a possible Daddy and first thing I know about the whole thing, I'm getting asked what a petiton to be my boi would need to include.

While the first glance might tickle the fancy of some het male dominants, I can tell you from experience it's completely different than what most people have as a fantasy.

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/16/2006 11:59:11 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Wow! What a confusing thread.
I don't want to "get" a lesbian.
I have seen lesbians who, I wished wearn't lesbians though!

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/17/2006 12:08:31 AM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

I know of lesbians who serve in a het Male households in service positions only. I personally know two lesbian slave/gay Master households, too. I have a lesbian boi (just offered the collar this weekend) and I have a het girl. I don't expect them to have sex with each other or did I expect sex from either one of them as part of their collar...there's plenty of resources for sex. It just so happens that I'm attracted to my boi and she feels the same, so we DO have that...but again, it wasn't expected.

My opinion about Male Doms wanting two women, one being lesbian or not, is so they can have free porn. Voyeurism is a huge fetish. I would even consider watching if I had two that were sexually compatible.

Master Fire


I have had a few fMf experiences.

I am still trying to understand what the attraction is.  All I am left with is the ability to say "been there, done that."

But that is just me and I could be wrong.

Sinergy

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/17/2006 12:56:33 AM   
Iskander


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Status: offline 		I have no desire to 'get a lesbian', although I have been in a couple of 3somes with one who was male curious many years back, and it was a very special and tender thing for all, she ended up in tears from the intensity both times, tears of joy and release, not anguish mind you.. In a large way it removed from her some fears she had in her mind.. She had always been concerned that her preference was due to bad experiences with males, she was finally able to set this aside and realise it was simply what she was... I was honoured to play a part in this and it also opened my eyes to the fact that touching someone on an emotional level is way more important than touching them on a physical level...

I tend to treat people the same without even thinking about wether they are gay, bi or straight, because to me this would imply I see everyone as a potential bedmate, and doing that you can miss out on knowing some truely wonderful people...
Although this did get my face slapped once when I asked 2 girls who seemed to be bored simply if they wanted to dance at the Exchange in Sydney.. *chuckle* Though amusing in hindsight, it does shit me when a lesbian gets agro assuming all you want is to get in her pants...

So yeah, thats what I think, that people are people and how they relate to my life depends on their actions, not preconceptions due to labels...

Iskander...


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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/17/2006 1:22:33 AM   
gypsylee


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

There seems to be this desire for a dom to "get a lesbian"...


lol! what the?! i do know what you mean, but it makes me think of Doms looking at lesbians profiles and going, "i'll get you, you bitch!"

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/17/2006 3:20:13 AM   
HalloweenWhite


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

There seems to be this desire for a dom to "get a lesbian".  The last time I checked.. a lesbian does not prefer men.  This is verified by my lesbian sister.
 
I would think the lesbians find this type of solicitation as intrusive.
 
If you are a lesbian.. is there an instance you would be interested in a Het male master, other than he wants you for his "girl who is exploring her bi side and he wants to watch" scenario?


I just consider the source. The vanilla guys are the same way so I wouldn't expect any different just because they are not vanilla.




Lol. Love how you put that, but it's true I'm sorry to say, blokes are blokes are blokes and most, not all would find some girl-on-girl action most enjoyable lol. What ever their justification for wanting it.


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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/17/2006 3:32:56 AM   
SirLordTrainer


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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Wow! What a confusing thread.
I don't want to "get" a lesbian.
I have seen lesbians who, I wished wearn't lesbians though!


Ditto

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RE: What ARE you thinking?? - 10/17/2006 5:16:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		WOO HOO, I'M GOING TO GET TO WATCH?

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