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lovingmaster45 -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/26/2005 4:09:31 AM)

Oh Shit...politically correct BDSM; what the fuck is next?
Oh yeah...I remember; I used to go to "munches" and "meetings" where "by-laws", "charters" and all kinds of crap were discussed; never saw anyone get tied up or spanked all night...what a bore.

Anyone else into the lifestyle because they get a rush? Have fun? Meet interesting people? Love kinky sex? Bring on the orientals, nigger sluts, WOP whores and assorted human detritus. I welcome them and promise not to waste any of their time discussing what they want to be called, unless it is necessary to the scene.




dale236 -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/26/2005 7:55:24 PM)

thanks. much appreciated.




dale236 -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/26/2005 7:56:37 PM)

very helpful. thank you.




ProtagonistLily -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/26/2005 7:59:48 PM)

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Oh Shit...politically correct BDSM; what the fuck is next?
Oh yeah...I remember; I used to go to "munches" and "meetings" where "by-laws", "charters" and all kinds of crap were discussed; never saw anyone get tied up or spanked all night...what a bore


Yeah well I don't know what organization YOU belonged to, but I certainly am not bored in mine, and I have the delicious memories to prove it.

I wonder what this 'crap' was that you found so boring. Perhaps it just wasn't what you wanted to hear? One person's crap is another person's educational material.

It's easy to bitch and moan....it's harder to invest and contribute and make something better.

And just for the record, this "Cuckold" scenerio sounds like a load of crap to me. It sounds like every other kink story about 'Slut Wives' out there on the net.

Lily




MaitresseEden -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/26/2005 8:15:32 PM)

Instead of viewing it as something that is PC or not PC.. try viewing it as enlightenment: Read the following summary of what "orientalism" is.

Ms. Eden

http://www.english.emory.edu/Bahri/Orientalism.html

The Terms
The Orient signifies a system of representations framed by political forces that brought the Orient into Western learning, Western consciousness, and Western empire. The Orient exists for the West, and is constructed by and in relation to the West. It is a mirror image of what is inferior and alien ("Other") to the West.

Orientalism is "a manner of regularized (or Orientalized) writing, vision, and study, dominated by imperatives, perspectives, and ideological biases ostensibly suited to the Orient." It is the image of the 'Orient' expressed as an entire system of thought and scholarship.

The Oriental is the person represented by such thinking. The man is depicted as feminine, weak, yet strangely dangerous because poses a threat to white, Western women. The woman is both eager to be dominated and strikingly exotic. The Oriental is a single image, a sweeping generalization, a stereotype that crosses countless cultural and national boundaries.

Latent Orientalism is the unconscious, untouchable certainty about what the Orient is. Its basic content is static and unanimous. The Orient is seen as separate, eccentric, backward, silently different, sensual, and passive. It has a tendency towards despotism and away from progress. It displays feminine penetrability and supine malleability. Its progress and value are judged in terms of, and in comparison to, the West, so it is always the Other, the conquerable, and the inferior.

Manifest Orientalism is what is spoken and acted upon. It includes information and changes in knowledge about the Orient as well as policy decisions founded in Orientalist thinking. It is the expression in words and actions of Latent Orientalism.

Contemporary Orientalism
...Orientalism can be found in current Western depictions of "Arab" cultures. The depictions of "the Arab" as irrational, menacing, untrustworthy, anti-Western, dishonest, and--perhaps most importantly--prototypical, are ideas into which Orientalist scholarship has evolved. These notions are trusted as foundations for both ideologies and policies developed by the Occident. Said writes: "The hold these instruments have on the mind is increased by the institutions built around them. For every Orientalist, quite literally, there is a support system of staggering power, considering the ephemerality of the myths that Orientalism propagates. The system now culminates into the very institutions of the state. To write about the Arab Oriental world, therefore, is to write with the authority of a nation, and not with the affirmation of a strident ideology but with the unquestioning certainty of absolute truth backed by absolute force." He continues, "One would find this kind of procedure less objectionable as political propaganda--which is what it is, of course--were it not accompanied by sermons on the objectivity, the fairness, the impartiality of a real historian, the implication always being that Muslims and Arabs cannot be objective but that Orientalists. . .writing about Muslims are, by definition, by training, by the mere fact of their Westernness. This is the culmination of Orientalism as a dogma that not only degrades its subject matter but also blinds its practitioners."




Darthbetta -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/26/2005 8:20:55 PM)

fuck the PC crap... I WANT TO SEE PICS !!!!!


come on dale, post a few pics of said chick, and make us worship the ground she walks on for her to cheat and get away with it... !

if you don't , I'm calling you "YELLER".




Paulnz -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/27/2005 3:10:58 AM)

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The Orient is seen as separate, eccentric, backward, silently different, sensual, and passive. It has a tendency towards despotism and away from progress. It displays feminine penetrability and supine malleability. Its progress and value are judged in terms of, and in comparison to, the West, so it is always the Other, the conquerable, and the inferior.


I asked an Asian woman what she thought about being called Oriental and she said it sounded more exotic. Asian is so bland. So there.





LadyAngelika -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/27/2005 5:02:53 AM)


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ORIGINAL: dale236

i'm a 41 year old professional man who's been happily married for over ten years. i've recently learned that my wife has been unfaithful to me with a variety of men for as long as we've been married and perhaps even while we were engaged. i'm surprised to find that i am completely turned on by the idea, as pathetic as it sounds.


I'm actually not surprised at all. Most men still see women under 2 lenses: Madonna or Whore (or other variations on the theme in other belief systems). In fact, most women have both sides within them and a great deal of us have them well balanced. You have just discovered your wife's whore side and it has turned you on. All this means is that you are a heterosexual man ;)

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ORIGINAL: dale236
is there a particular place at this site or elsewhere where i might explore my interest in being cuckholded by my pretty little wife? i've never felt particularly submissive before, but since discovering my plight i've gone completely weak.


Cuckolding can be a wonderful way to express D/s dynamics. But it isn't for everyone. I know it works on certain of my boys and not on others. In anycase, I recommend the following readings:
- The Cuckold Husband / Hotwife Phenomena
- Liberated Wife: Female Domination through Cuckolding

There is also a site devoted to Cuckolding. To date, I have only browsed it briefly but it seems pretty decent.

Have fun!

- LA




match2u -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/27/2005 5:36:53 AM)

.. i really do not have a lot to say about cuckolding – no experience about that at all.

the thread coming up about “Orient” – honestly it do not bother me. therfor I have to much lessons in the past as a “german” raising up a mixed child. Yes – yes – yes, we still deal with the word Nazi” – smile.
and sorry for my curse here – but I give a shit about that.

paint me like You want – Yellow, black, red… or whatever.
i am woman – i am human…. that’s it!


yes – i admitt i prefer black Dom/ Master – like my profile is mentioned and so may I should ask my prospective Master if He is willing to paint His d**** - [:)] –

in reply to Darthbetta – just a pic – smile – seems really like i need a spanking lol

petra
- white snowflake in the ghetto -


[image]local://upfiles/63786/E190A48CC0F2456BBF4A90CB964231EA.jpg[/image]




Paulnz -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/27/2005 1:43:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


I'm actually not surprised at all. Most men still see women under 2 lenses: Madonna or Whore (or other variations on the theme in other belief systems). In fact, most women have both sides within them and a great deal of us have them well balanced. You have just discovered your wife's whore side and it has turned you on. All this means is that you are a heterosexual man ;)




The saying is ' treat a whore like a princess and a princess like a whore '






BlkTallFullfig -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/27/2005 2:07:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EStrict
I have to admit I find this interesting. Words that are considered *slurs* in the English language (American) are stated such in the dictionary. Take for example:
nigger, Chink, honky, spic, wet back....

Well, I might be able to find and/or think of others, but the point is each of the words about AS PART of their definitions states that they *often ofensive* or something to that nature. The word *Oriental* however, does not. It there are those of Asian heritage that find it so...
Main Entry: Oriental
Function: noun
Date: 15th century
: a member of one of the indigenous peoples of the Orient

Orient:
2 : capitalized: EAST

Thanks Estrict for clarifying... I read in disbelief after each posting following "Temptation's" to see what I didn't get, and still don't...

I'm all for being sensitive to everyone's sensibility whenever possible, but I've always understood (and perhaps the dictionary needs to lose the word) that "Oriental, means "from the orient"...
Nigger IS not the same, so I wish the comparison between the apple and beef would stop there... Anyway, I won't start acting hypersensitive on that note. M




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/27/2005 2:16:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet
Poor dale, no one as of yet has repsonded to his situation with his wife. Being cheated on and finding it attractive. Is anyone going to give this guy some advice?

I have a few ideas but it's not exactly advice. But here I am to save the day.

Dale, so you like your wife cheating on you? Well you're still getting sex right? As long as you get yours then why care? If kids come ???
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It's true Fangs...
after I posted my oriental not equal to nigger post, I looked back and remembered about cheating wife and "turned on" hubby...
Am wondering about the double standard no one's addressed except you: a husband looking to cheat gets spanked by the ladies; a wife who's been cheating, no one asks husband "the trust/lack thereof doesn't bother you? How about diseases you don't yet have? Children?"

I have only one thing to say to this husband, have fun, and if anything you dislike happens (hopefully not a child), it was with your consent, so don't whine later. M




onceburned -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/27/2005 2:42:32 PM)

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Am wondering about the double standard no one's addressed except you: a husband looking to cheat gets spanked by the ladies; a wife who's been cheating, no one asks husband "the trust/lack thereof doesn't bother you?


Perhaps its because a lot of us think he is just spanking himself.

Oh, and thanks M for clueing me in about that other hubbie who was actually cheating. I sure missed that one!




MizSuz -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/27/2005 3:44:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: topcat

Actually, before the common use of the magnetic compass, maps were generally drawn with east at the top of the image (instead of north, as is the convention today).

On woke up in the morning, and turned the map so that the top was towards the sunrise to plot ones course for the day, that is, you oriented the map to the east.



I like your version MUCH better!


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I suspect that the offense is taken at the generalization such as refering to a Maranjah as 'Indian' (I did that once, on a long flight, and after being enlighted as to the cultural, geographic and historical distinctions of the sub-continent for about four hours, I shall never do it again) or confusing a Basque with a Spainard (did that once too- ONCE!)(still have the scar). I also know a lovely nigerain lady who became my fast friend becuase I didn't ask her if she was 'african', but correctly guessed Nigerian.



All further proof of my ignorance. I'm glad I know how to be a guest when I travel.

Show me your scar?




topcat -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/27/2005 5:37:32 PM)

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Show me your scar?


Madame-

You've seen it-

I never mentioned that I wasn't circumised at birth?

<g>

Stay warm




MizSuz -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/27/2005 5:41:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: topcat

quote:

Show me your scar?


Madame-

You've seen it-

I never mentioned that I wasn't circumised at birth?

<g>



BAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Oh my...I really NEEDED that laugh!

No luv, you never mentioned that. It's ok, I wasn't either. [;)]




LadyAngelika -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/28/2005 4:51:35 AM)

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Paulnz
The saying is ' treat a whore like a princess and a princess like a whore '


I like that. But in my case, I'm a Queen, not a princess ;)

Btw, why on earth did this get sent to casual banter? This was a legeit General BDSM topic imho.

- LA




Guest -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/28/2005 8:14:40 AM)

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Btw, why on earth did this get sent to casual banter? This was a legeit General BDSM topic imho.


Indeed it is a legit General BDSM topic but out of the thread count of 37+ posts, too few addressed the topic itself. It's casual banter - informative at times, but casual.

The general BDSM forum is for general questiosn but when they turn away from the topic we feel it's best to move the entire thread to the casual banter forum so participants can continue to post. Unless we feel the original topic has the pontential of life left in it.

This thread was a clear move.

Mod 5




Paulnz -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/29/2005 1:14:43 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

Paulnz
The saying is ' treat a whore like a princess and a princess like a whore '


I like that. But in my case, I'm a Queen, not a princess ;)

- LA


And the guy in your thumbnail pic is loving it.






LadyAngelika -> RE: my oriental wife cuckholds me (1/29/2005 10:07:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ModeratorFive

quote:

Btw, why on earth did this get sent to casual banter? This was a legeit General BDSM topic imho.


Indeed it is a legit General BDSM topic but out of the thread count of 37+ posts, too few addressed the topic itself. It's casual banter - informative at times, but casual.

The general BDSM forum is for general questiosn but when they turn away from the topic we feel it's best to move the entire thread to the casual banter forum so participants can continue to post. Unless we feel the original topic has the pontential of life left in it.

This thread was a clear move.

Mod 5



Seems logical enough. I appreciate the clarification.

So I guess if we want to bring the subject of cuckolding to the General BDSM forum, we just post a parallel topic and hope no one gets stoopid on it ;)


- LA




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