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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/18/2006 9:23:20 AM

lesbiangirlslave

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Yes, you are right, For this girl its also a overwelming feeling to be overpowered and to lose of my Mistress. But what his girl also mean is to see the enjoyment of my Mistress when she has pain. Then this girl almost feel it herself and want to joy her Mistress in that pain. But only receiving is for me also very excited and this girl love her Mistress more and more if she feel the hands of her Mistress.

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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/18/2006 11:05:03 AM

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thankyou for the replies particually mskathouston and nikkicd10 im glad im not the only domme who like a good throw down

and its great to hear all the opinions and i think will make great reading for him too and hopfully reasure him i wont beatthe shitout of him for doing it lol

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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/18/2006 11:18:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: canupleaseme

thankyou for the replies particually mskathouston and nikkicd10 im glad im not the only domme who like a good throw down and its great to hear all the opinions and i think will make great reading for him too and hopfully reasure him i wont beatthe shitout of him for doing it lol

Look, if you tell your sub your want it rough and nasty because it would please you , then he should be eager to comply.

You're not a freak - get your groove on and be happy

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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/18/2006 12:04:57 PM

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Look, if you tell your sub your want it rough and nasty because it would please you , then he should be eager to comply.

You're not a freak - get your groove on and be happy

Yep... I used to say "Just put up with it for bit..I'll let you get even " :)

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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/18/2006 1:07:18 PM

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Well i wouldnt really see much problem getting rough and forceful during sex if its simply hard penetration you crave..now if you want them to pin you down and other stuff then i can see where that would be very difficult for a male submissive to do. I for one, hate being in control during sex, very difficult for me to get off when my master wants me ontop. But he can do things that still control me even if i'm ontop which makes it much easier...giving directions of how to move my body, what positions he wants me in, squeezing/pinching my body, or even pulling my hair. If these things are not present, almost impossible to enjoy myself or give him enjoyment from it as well.

Just try, holding a paddle in one hand and on every down stroke he makes strike his ass to encourage him to go faster/deeper. Eventually he probably wont need the paddle to encourage his hips into action *winks*

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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/18/2006 4:29:50 PM

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And still this girl is thinking when there is love and the Mistress or Master want to have pain a slave must be obidient. Sure she has to learn it, but she will be trained. Why not? A slave excist for the pleasure for the Mistress or Master. Nothing more. A slave is born to do what her is told, without questioning. That doesn't mean theu cant talk, but at the end the Mistress decide and not the feelings of the slave.

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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/18/2006 7:20:54 PM

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i dont want a switch i just want my slave to fuck me hard sometimes lol

Uh huh. I totally identify with the sentiment. My submissive lost his inhibitions when he experienced for himself how happy he made me (the focal point of our relationship.) "You really DO like rough sex!"

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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/19/2006 1:30:53 AM

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misstoyou and lordskitten thankyou for your replies am goin totry the paddle idea tonight lol
thankyou everyone really its certainly given me something to think about
togivedevine youtr right and thanks

lesbiangirlsslave i have particually liked reading your responses your mistress chose you well

im fairly sure i dont want him to pin me down its more a penetrative thing as lordskitten pointed out and i guess the fact that it makes him struggle in his own mind to do it for me

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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/19/2006 2:40:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: canupleaseme

i dont want a switch i just want my slave to fuck me hard sometimes lol

Uh huh. I totally identify with the sentiment. My submissive lost his inhibitions when he experienced for himself how happy he made me (the focal point of our relationship.) "You really DO like rough sex!"

And is that not the destination of a slave? To obey and please her Mistress? And when she likes it its better for the slave and for the Mistress. But a Mistress has to give Her slave the opportunity to learn. And when a slave see that she give pleasure to her Mistress it pleased her too.

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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/19/2006 2:45:16 AM

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Thanks for the compliment. This girl appreciate it.

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RE: when your domme wants it rough - 10/19/2006 3:47:51 AM

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My desire is to obey every command given. I would always desire to please my Mistress in all things. I think you should talk to your sub before hand. Tell him this is how you want sex sometimes. It may be hard for him at first, but over time, it should become easier.

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