Question too difficult LS! In what way a better deal?
Surely both sides give and get what is possible/reasonable/rational/wanted/agreed - in the ideal, which means a good deal for both? as for situations that are not ideal, then neither gets a good deal?
I put this question to my sub since he was a Master before. After two seconds of thinking about it he replied that being a male sub won over a Master hands down. It allowed him to embrace his truly submissive nature rather then going on pretending to be a Dominant . Quitely frankly I think he's an attention whore and a painslut lol who happens to be submissive.