Hercuckslave
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Joined: 5/21/2006 Status: offline
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there has to be a great deal of trust in the relationship. trust from both sides. the slave has to trust in the bond between he and his Mistress. trust that she loves him and cares for him, and is not going to get rid of him because she finds "someone better". conversely, the Mistress has to trust in her slave. trust that he loves her, respects her, and feels safe with her. she has to trust that what she does will be "ok" with him and he is not going to freak and want to leave the relationship. both have to be completely comfortable with the solidity of their relationship. i am monogomous by nature. i only want Mistress. she knew that i was monogomous from our first conversation. at the same time, i knew from our first conversation that she was poly. go figure, we fell in love and developed a relationship anyway. that point of contention came up on some occassions, but mostly we sort of ignored it. we were hot for each other and taking joy in the development of our relationship. i suppose in some ways we each thought the other might "come around." well, i suppose that is what happened. we've been together nearly 6 years. i trust her completely. she trusts me. i am now and have been her cuckold. at first it was my willingness to NOT do anything to deprive her of her pleasures. over time i have come to accept her cuckolding of me, and yes, even find joy in it. when jealously creeps out in me though, i remind myself that while she may be with him or her, it is ME that she goes to bed with and ME she wakes up with. :) i'm a lucky boy. M's m
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