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Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:14:30 PM   
MstrssScarlet


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Status: offline 		How many people on this site are familiar with women who "squirt" when they have an orgasm?  This is something I happen to know about first hand as I do it myself.  After divorcing my exhusband, I got into some really great sex (especially BDSM) and that's when it started.  I was ashamed at first because I thought I had cum so hard that I had wet the bed.  Finally a very understanding dom (my current hubby) explained to me exactly what had happened.  He happens to love it.  I've heard other doms and subs say that it turns them off.  Some people don't even believe in it.  Any opinions???
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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:16:40 PM   
CreativeDominant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssScarlet

How many people on this site are familiar with women who "squirt" when they have an orgasm?  This is something I happen to know about first hand as I do it myself.  After divorcing my exhusband, I got into some really great sex (especially BDSM) and that's when it started.  I was ashamed at first because I thought I had cum so hard that I had wet the bed.  Finally a very understanding dom (my current hubby) explained to me exactly what had happened.  He happens to love it.  I've heard other doms and subs say that it turns them off.  Some people don't even believe in it.  Any opinions???
Mistress Scarlet


Had a submissive who "squirted"....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

Yes, I believe in it.  Don't require it.  But if it's there, then again I say...mmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:17:27 PM   
Aine


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Status: offline 		I've been studying the....art? of squirting and it's something that I'm currently trying to work on and acheive.  Meh, it's frustrating.

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:20:01 PM   
WickedlyDevine


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Status: offline 		I love squirting, and like you I discovered it later in life, BDSM has really brought that to a forefront.  The huge drawback I find now is sometimes I NEED it, and of course, like a watched pot, I don't boil.  I remember the first time I did it with a partner, I was so embarassed, he thought I wet the bed and swore it smelt like urine.  I was mortified, it never happened again after that with him.  W#hen with other partners,  I realized I would only allow myself to do it when we were outdoors or in the shower so it wasn't so glaringly obvious.  I have been with men since who crave it, trying as hard as they can to get me to spray all over them, I wish my first experience hadn't been so negative, but I am working on it.  I figure they want it in their face, great, who am I to deprive them.

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:23:30 PM   
mistoferin


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Status: offline 		If you are interested you may wish to do a search here...we have had this topic many times and the threads are always an interesting read.

Here is a link to a very informative site on the topic also:

http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:32:07 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I've known two.  The first time was "Oh yeah, I made the bitch squirt, let's party," the second time was "I'm glad I'm not cleaning that mattress."  I think it would be fun if it happens NOW AND THEN, but honestly it might get to be a drag if I was with someone who squirted EVERY TIME.

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ORIGINAL: MstrssScarlet

How many people on this site are familiar with women who "squirt" when they have an orgasm?

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:33:29 PM   
CreativeDominant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedlyDevine

I love squirting, and like you I discovered it later in life, BDSM has really brought that to a forefront.  The huge drawback I find now is sometimes I NEED it, and of course, like a watched pot, I don't boil.  I remember the first time I did it with a partner, I was so embarassed, he thought I wet the bed and swore it smelt like urine.  I was mortified, it never happened again after that with him.  W#hen with other partners,  I realized I would only allow myself to do it when we were outdoors or in the shower so it wasn't so glaringly obvious.  I have been with men since who crave it, trying as hard as they can to get me to spray all over them, I wish my first experience hadn't been so negative, but I am working on it.  I figure they want it in their face, great, who am I to deprive them.


And there is something about being behind the girl and deep inside her when she warms your thighs that way..............

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:37:15 PM   
SlaveAkasha


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Status: offline 		I think it's possible I could do this, but I haven't figure out how to let myself go yet enough to experience it.  I have read a lot about it, and hope to someday actually get it to work.  I wonder sometimes if I am trying too hard, maybe I should figure out how to not think about it, and just let it happen.
 
I don't know if that is possible or not, it might be something you have to think about to actually do.
 
I think I just confused myself, that's what I get for thinking and typing at the same time.
 
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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:42:19 PM   
WickedlyDevine


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Status: offline 		It is not something you can force or think about, it is something that happens quite unexpectedly.  My first time was while I was filtering through some porn sitting on an office chair, learning how to masturbate.  In my case, as with most porn I have witnessed on this topic, it involves stimulation of the clitoris, to the degree of not being able to take it any more, then pushing yourself further.  I also find anal stimulation at the same time speeds things up.

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:46:44 PM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedlyDevine

It is not something you can force or think about, it is something that happens quite unexpectedly.  My first time was while I was filtering through some porn sitting on an office chair, learning how to masturbate.  In my case, as with most porn I have witnessed on this topic, it involves stimulation of the clitoris, to the degree of not being able to take it any more, then pushing yourself further.  I also find anal stimulation at the same time speeds things up.


Actually, it is most commonly associated with stimulation of the G spot and is said to be quite "learnable".

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 5:57:22 PM   
Rayne58


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I've known two. The first time was "Oh yeah, I made the bitch squirt, let's party," the second time was "I'm glad I'm not cleaning that mattress." I think it would be fun if it happens NOW AND THEN, but honestly it might get to be a drag if I was with someone who squirted EVERY TIME.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssScarlet

How many people on this site are familiar with women who "squirt" when they have an orgasm?



We keep a few towels beside the bed just for this purpose Master makes me squirt or gush every time we play, He loves it. He was the first who showed me that I do have a G spot, before Him I thought the whole thing was a myth I was mortified I thought I'd wet myself but I've since been shown that it isn't pee and I'm a lot more relaxed about it now, although I still go to the toilet before we start (just in case!)

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 6:09:59 PM   
Misstoyou


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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

Actually, it is most commonly associated with stimulation of the G spot and is said to be quite "learnable".



Though it may be the most common, as I've stated before on earlier threads on this, for me, it's easier to do with oral sex. And it's something I grew into as well.

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 6:47:36 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedlyDevine

It is not something you can force or think about, it is something that happens quite unexpectedly.  My first time was while I was filtering through some porn sitting on an office chair, learning how to masturbate.  In my case, as with most porn I have witnessed on this topic, it involves stimulation of the clitoris, to the degree of not being able to take it any more, then pushing yourself further.  I also find anal stimulation at the same time speeds things up.


Actually, it is most commonly associated with stimulation of the G spot and is said to be quite "learnable".

It is indeed possible for some to learn to do so, and to do so when told.

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 6:48:16 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		While I think "squirting" is all well and good..it seems to me now more than ever that men make it a goal rather than it just is when it is or if it is.A sort of like trophy aspect I suppose. Which in turn makes a woman almost desperate to do so in order to make her mate feel all wonderful and powerful the great lover so to speak.Personally when said goals go further and further IMO you are just setting yourself up for disappointment..Enjoy whatever happens and forget the ever increasing goals...Tempting

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 7:16:43 PM   
swtsouthernsub


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Status: offline 		I personally taught my ownself how to do it with patients time and plenty of practice one can learn... and its fun
 
I agree there are times you can push yourself to hard and like Tempting stated one becomes very disappointnted in ones self (IMO ) I have felt that way  during such times

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 7:33:57 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		The idea actually bothers me and i think i fight against it as hard as possible. I might relax enough one day and see if it happens but the thought just makes me squirm at this time.

heheh looks like i'm in the minority tho

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 7:44:07 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		I love to squirt.  The first time it happened was when I was masturbating in college and thought I peed the bed.  Never tried to stimulate the g-spot by myself again.  Years later, Daddy was the one who made it happen again.  I was mortified because I thought I peed the bed again.  I hid my face, and He said, "You squirted, did you like that?"  I said, "I'm so sorry."  He yanked my hands away from my face and smiled at me and said, "Don't be.  If it felt good, then it's a good thing.  Did it feel good?"  I nodded and He kissed my head.  Later on that night, I asked Him to do it again.  lol... 

Now, I find that if He makes me squirt for the first orgasm, the others follow quickly and are more intense.

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 7:47:00 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		You two seem to have a wonderful relationship.  It's nice to see.

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 7:51:48 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

You two seem to have a wonderful relationship.  It's nice to see.


Dear Lordandmaster,

Thank you.  I feel very fortunate to have a relationship like mine.  My Master is truly my best friend and I still get butterflies (after 3 & 1/2 years) when I see Him walk into my office to get me for lunch or whatever.  He just makes me smile from the inside out. 

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RE: Squirting - 10/18/2006 8:34:04 PM   
ShyMistress


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Status: offline 		I had never heard nor experienced it before meeting Master. Now...um...let's just say I have no choice if He decides He wishes Me to squirt.

Is it normal though for multiple squirts (like 10 in a row?) or is that a "talent"?

Had to ask!

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