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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 10:49:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NINASHARP

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Who's your daddy now?....in my deepest southern drawl


Mmmmm, whom ever I want her to be!


Your too cute! I just wish I could remember where I heard that line......


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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 10:54:15 AM   
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I like big refigerator boxes you can crawl inside, make a fort out of, color all over and play in until it falls apart and your mom makes you put it in the backyard where it gets rained on and turns into pulp.

 
Oooo OOo OOooo ...my Daddy is getting a new refrigerator in a few days.. I am going to beg him to save the box

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 10:58:19 AM   
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When I was little, and we were dirt poor, my dad used to go to the appliance store and bring home the big boxes for us to play with. In the winter time he would raid my moms canning paraffin and use it to wax the big slabs of cardboard and take us out to the park to sled with them. So much fun.

Thank you for reminding me of that happy memory.


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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 10:59:38 AM   
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Thanx for the compliment. I think you are amazingly HOT yourself!

Edited to add, the line, "Who's Your Daddy Now?" came from the Movie, Mr. and Mrs. Smith, when Mr. Smith was getting his ass kicked by the Mrs.

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 11:03:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

When I was little, and we were dirt poor, my dad used to go to the appliance store and bring home the big boxes for us to play with. In the winter time he would raid my moms canning paraffin and use it to wax the big slabs of cardboard and take us out to the park to sled with them. So much fun.

Thank you for reminding me of that happy memory.



Thanks for sharing that and it goes to show that sometimes a lack of money can create some of the best experiences in childhood, like my sister making me Barbie clothes because she could sew

Ok, having a tender Waltons moment here...



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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 11:28:19 AM   
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Mist,

Thanks for this...

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  I really recommend that you commit Hari Kari this very moment, as it will be far less painful than what is about to happen.


I would love to tell the OP what I think of him and his post but I have been warned about telling the truth about people in my own words.   Too bad because this guy REALLY deserves the most snarky of responses.

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 12:14:45 PM   
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Mist,

Thanks for this...

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  I really recommend that you commit Hari Kari this very moment, as it will be far less painful than what is about to happen.


I would love to tell the OP what I think of him and his post but I have been warned about telling the truth about people in my own words.   Too bad because this guy REALLY deserves the most snarky of responses.



I'd love to see/read that!

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 12:17:04 PM   
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Me also!

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 1:05:46 PM   
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..i'm going to try to put my two cents in..from what i understand you find it confusing how a little girl role can be dominant. i know some people that are the kid version of the 'big/little' relationship and are the dominating ones..whatever floats your boat i think!

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 1:35:26 PM   
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Can you put in english what you just said?


LMAO!!

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 3:40:34 PM   
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And here I thought "beta" referred to who was second in command within a pack and not the submissive of the pack.  Or are we not discussing wolves here?  *eg*

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 3:50:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

When I was little, and we were dirt poor, my dad used to go to the appliance store and bring home the big boxes for us to play with. In the winter time he would raid my moms canning paraffin and use it to wax the big slabs of cardboard and take us out to the park to sled with them. So much fun.

Thank you for reminding me of that happy memory.



Thanks for sharing that and it goes to show that sometimes a lack of money can create some of the best experiences in childhood, like my sister making me Barbie clothes because she could sew

Ok, having a tender Waltons moment here...




Thats it - I'm gonna start a Waltons Moment thread - there must be some really nice stories out there.

E

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 3:59:55 PM   
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Yeah... Well... Alpha beta there are people into puppy play yeah know hehe.

I like boxes, I once made a cat condo out of one, complete with carpet. Oh, and for christmas one time I made my little sister a doll house out of cardboard. It took me weeks to do it, but she loved it. I agree refridgerator boxes are so much fun!

Metiphoric box? (SP?) No, thank you I'm not a mime.

As far as Daddie's girls (female, male doesn't matter,) being dominant... I see nothing wrong with it, if your partner doesn't.

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 4:06:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SeaPerversity

I saw something today which brought mirth


He giggled ..

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as well as disappointment,


He also cried.

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mirth because it was so ludicrous,


Ok, he didn't giggle, he just thought that what happened was utterly ridiculous that it made him shake his head in wonderment it could happen at all.

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and disappointment because this once neurological and physical Way of Life,


he was sad because the physical and mental aspects of BDSM

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 dependant of two basic models, one alpha, the other beta.


which are dependant upon a dynamic of authority and the giving up of authority have been corrupted.


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So when I see a beta personality type, as in a lil' daddies girl, of teen age profess to be a domme, and then explain to me that there are Age-play Dominants who take the beta position, I was somewhat aghast at the prospect


He was not happy that a dominant would bottom to a submissive. (He is confusing S/M orientation with M/s orientation, but that's ok. He is, by his own confession, a newbie.)

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 ( On this site apparently twenty or so beta males


20 male subs

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profess to be alpha males


claim to be dominant

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 as in submissive Dominants Authoritarians


as in Topping

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True there are switches who can accomodate both alpha and beta roles, but to be honest this was a new one for me to chew over.


I'm new and don't quite 'get' it.


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Then we take the lil daddies girl to be expecting generosity / gifts for her role as a beta-alpha personality, which leads to even further doubts as to its understanding.


I don't want to have to spend money on a bottom.

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I know there to be professional Alpha personalities that do charge for their time and efforts as is quite expected,


I have no problems with Pro doms

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but for a teen aged personality to be expecting generosity or gifts for her company then reduces them to a *nilla* personality playing the oldest known profession of expecting financial respompense in return for their use.


but pro subs are a limit and anyone who acts like a pro sub is a whore.

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All I can say to that beta -alpha sam personality is,


Wannabe

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 have you ever researched this Way of Life with any modicum of comprehension or understanding, and the answer is, obviously not !


I have a One True Way - resistance is futile. If you don't do it my One True Way, you're a fake.


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You are either an authorative (alpha), a switch (alpha / beta or beta / alpha)or a submissive-slave-property (beta)


There are doms, switchs, subs and slaves.


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By it's own known label a lil daddies girl is exactly what it says it is, mind you at the age given as eighteen, it goes to show how little you really do acknowledge of this Way of Life, or Life itself.


Be your label, don't deviate.. it confuses me. If you deviate, you're a fake.

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One day your confusion may grow into understanding and experience, but I pity any you beta personalities who erringly give theirself into your confused world.


Since you don't do things the way I think you should do things, I'll put you in the kettle of fakes, posers and wannabes, because I'm real.. but, if you listen to what I have to say and do it the way I do it, then one day you may be real too.

Celeste - Collarme Translator

edited to fix quotes

< Message edited by BitaTruble -- 10/19/2006 4:08:05 PM >


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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 5:03:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

I really recommend that you commit Hari Kari this very moment, as it will be far less painful than what is about to happen.


OMG erin.....you are nuts!  
 
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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 5:09:06 PM   
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Celeste,

Thank you so much for translating...

But even now I know what he was saying I still do not want to address it...

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 5:22:05 PM   
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Thank you for the translation Bita.  i read the op 3 times and still couldn't seem to separate the sentences...lol
 
Anyhoo.....
 
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ORIGINAL: SeaPerversity
True there are switches who can accomodate both alpha and beta roles, but to be honest this was a new one for me to chew over.


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ORIGINAL: SeaPerversity
Then a beta who takes charge, is or would be considered an alpha or a switch alpha, and as a lil daddies girl is all beta then your opinion is noted but disagreed with entirely.


Just taking these 2 statements, it seems the op has a hard time with 1) the concept of switches altogether and  2) that a daddysgirl can be anything but "beta". 
 
i just wonder why he is so rigid with this thought? 
 
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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 5:27:40 PM   
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*snort*

Anyone who thinks a Spoiled Little Bitch cannot be a domme to her Daddy...

...has never met a real life Spoiled Little Bitch and her real life father. 

Like a lot of D/S relationships or scenarios, this particular form of ageplay is based on a situation that sometimes exists in the real world, although it may not be QUITE as kinkily sexual.

And yes, the spoiling is part of the kink.  Daddy's Spoiled Little Bitch can demand anything she wants and Daddy has to do as she says...or she will pout and not sit in his lap any more.

--M 

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 5:39:20 PM   
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Ohhh, i wanna be a spoiled little bitch...I wanna train set an new shoes an a dolly an a colouring book an some pink gloves for when it gets cold!

(No playstation, X-Box, DVD Player etc on this little girls list for Santa)

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RE: Newbee Confusion - 10/19/2006 5:43:23 PM   
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I want an UmpaLumpa NOW, Daddy!

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