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don't understand... - 10/19/2006 3:17:25 PM   
lilmado


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Status: offline 		Hi,
Last night, I got a pink mail (a mail from a sub girl).
Though I am a definitely straight sub, I get pink mails(encouraging me as a girl of the same role; some asking me to switch) once in a while, so I thought it was one of them...but

"hi who is this? you look so ugly"

This was the only statement in that mail.
"Hmm..." I wondered how I was gonna take it...I usually don't care how ugly my ppl tell I am , picking on me as long as I know they like me no matter how ugly I am (I rather like it)...so I wonder if it's friendly "you look so ugly" or not.....
I didn't feel like just ignoring it somehow...but I didn't wanted to over react...so I answered:

"Thank you:)
Since I take the word "ugly" as a great compliment...ahaha
Definitely being used to being told how ugly I am from my owner, and I am happy with it as long as he lets me be "his" ugly pig:)
You look so...cute or ugly...depending on which word you want. "

But as I think about it, now I think it was definitely not friendly "", or I don't think I can take it from a girl I haven't talked even once...
Guess it's more hostile or competitive ""...According to her pf, she is same nationality as I am...kinda rare here...and although her picutures don't show her entire face, she seems really cute(incomparable to me)...so those made her say that?...I don't know...

Have you ever recieved this kinda email? I get a lot of annoying emails from guys...but it was really shocking to get one like this from a girl of the same role...
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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 3:28:29 PM   
SlaveAkasha


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Status: offline 		Female subs and slaves can be just as mean for no apparant reason as male Doms can be.  If you are of the same nationality, perhaps she doesn't feel you are ugly, but that you are competition for her.
 
Either way, just block her and move on, it's probably not a real woman anyway, just some bored teen with nothing better to do.
 
Akasha

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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 3:42:13 PM   
lilmado


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If I block her, can't she see my pf?
I'm kinda uncomfortable leaving my pf activated right now if she can see it.

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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 3:57:10 PM   
SlaveAkasha


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From: Indiana
Status: offline 		Yes, she can see it, but won't be able to contact you.  I wouldn't worry about it, she will probably move on to annoying someone else and leave you alone.  If it keeps up, like she changes her profile and writes you again, I would write support here at CM and let them know.  She is trying to bug you and you turning off your profile is probably something that would make her happy.
 
Just think of her face when she writes you again, and it says she is blocked. 
 
Stick to your guns, and leave yours on.  Let her sweat thinking someone is writing you and not her.
 
Akasha
 

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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 3:59:10 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		It sounds like a very immature teenager

I would not take it to heart. I think you are a very attractive gal, she is probably jealous

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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 4:24:44 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		((HUGS lilmado)) You are adorable (very cute) dont let anyone make you think otherwise!

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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 4:36:45 PM   
MsKatHouston


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From: Houston, TX
Status: offline 		So I went to look at your profile to see how ugly you were.  Nope, you're gorgeous.  She's either jealous or just an immature lil bitch.  Either way, don't give it a second thought.

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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 4:40:07 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't bother myself with someone so immature...beauty comes from within and we all know what is beautiful to one is ugly to another...who to judge? You are beautiful...smile*

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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 4:41:59 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		Ok you are not ugly. You are very cute. She was probably some jealous idiot. Don't let her bother you. Block and move on.

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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 5:18:50 PM   
lilmado


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Status: offline 		Thank you guys
yes...guess she is immature...though she is older than I am.
She seems really cute, much much cuter than I am...so acctually she doesn't really need to be jealous at all...but I guess she is...somehow. Maybe because...I am ugly compared to her, but I look more lovable pet (which I alway hope to be) than she does...ahaha:)

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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 5:45:24 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

She seems really cute, much much cuter than I am...so acctually she doesn't really need to be jealous at all...but I guess she is...somehow.


Did it occur to you that she may be ugly inside?  And she may be aware of how ugly she is.
Don't let this sort of stuff bother you.


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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 5:49:23 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		You are fanastic. She's rude and probably doesn't have enough to do with her time. No matter how she looks on the outside, with that kind of inside, she will probably end up with someone she truely deserves. Take comfort in that.

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RE: don't understand... - 10/19/2006 9:37:17 PM   
lilmado


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Status: offline 		Thank you both,
Guess she is just playing around...if she is seriously here for this relationship...she doesn't need to bother otheres here...and guess I'd bettert not to care about her:)
thanks!!

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RE: don't understand... - 10/20/2006 12:06:18 AM   
MasterLostsoul


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Status: offline 		Honestly,

The submissive who wrote that needs her eyes checked, because you are very beautiful and your master is blessed :)

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RE: don't understand... - 10/20/2006 12:31:03 AM   
lilmado


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Status: offline 		Ahaha...thank you so much

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RE: don't understand... - 10/20/2006 4:09:11 AM   
Areflectionofyou


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Status: offline 		look at it as her being self conscious ....and purely jeolous of you

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RE: don't understand... - 10/20/2006 10:14:49 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		She's just being a snippy bitch. Just ignore her and don't even worry about it. Or it could be that "she" is actually a "he" hoping to engage someone in chat. Either way its really not worth worrying about.

~Lashra


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RE: don't understand... - 10/20/2006 10:32:01 AM   
ToGiveDivine


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Status: offline 		Why would you even respond?

She was undeserving of a response because she was beneath you (not in a Lifestyle way, but on a civil human being way)

Block idiots - just because you are a sub doesn't mean you are everyone's sub - just your owner's sub.

Frankly, as many have mentioned, you are very attractive - if your owner calls you ugly I'm sure it's part of your training and you should appreciate it.

Don't waste time with nasty people

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RE: don't understand... - 10/20/2006 10:49:35 AM   
LadyRedhawk


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Status: offline 		I have to agree with folks, that person is just being cruel in a bad way (we all know that are good ways to be cruel).  Darling you are lovely.  And I hope you have had that told to you enough now for you to understand it to be true.

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RE: don't understand... - 10/20/2006 11:05:17 AM   
givemyall


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Status: offline 		Hiya,

Grotty emails are not pleasant - sometimes they can set the tone for the day, so my advice would be to laugh at them.  I bet this girl has no doubt sent rotten emails to loads of people hoping to get a reaction, which in her eyes will elevate her own self importance.

You are very pretty and have a figure to die for, she is no doubt a spotty teenager who is very jealous of you - ignore her and smile at your reflection.

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