Termyn8or
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The OP almost doesn't belong in humor. And it is true, of a Woman. But you brought seriousness here, and I will continue it. We must make the distinction between a female and a Woman, as well as a male and a Man. The OP is true of a Woman, but now what is a Man, the perfect compliment to a Woman ? And just how many are there ? First of all a Man supports his Woman, even if she works too because of the times in which we live, he brings home something. He has to be a Man and I almost posted to that thread about abstinence during pregnancy, Women go through alot. Men need to know there is a time of the month to keep one's mouth shut. We don't do this out of fear, we do this because we have a loved one in discomfort and do not want to make it worse. A real Man has obligations to his Woman. In my family, Women don't get a leave of absence when they get pregnant, they quit working. The responsibility falls upon the Man to get it together so they do not have to send the kids to daycare, and this is a tall order these days. But money isn't everything, Men will touch their Woman when they are not looking for sex. Like Women, Men need to show affection once in a while just out of the blue. Men need to have that strong shoulder to cry on for the Woman, and know how to just let out that little whimper that she can feel. Even if he doesn't know who died or whatever she is crying about, when your Woman is crying, you go there with her. And Men, when you get your Woman pregnant, you don't have just nine months of hell to go through, you and her together have about eighteen years of hell, as well as joy hopefully to go through. And Men need earning power so they don't have to work thrity hours a day. They need time with their kids, and the Woman could use a break. Also, both influences are needed to have the kids grow up with their head screwed on straight. It doesn't take a village to raise a child, but it does take more than one person. And a Man protects his Woman and children, even if outmatched by the aggressor. You find a way, no matter what. It doesn't matter if a Man has to shove a ballpoint pen into the guy's windpipe, once he has chosen his Woman and she has chosen him, they might live and die as one. And a Man can cuddle without having to stick it in her. And a Man can cry, but only in the company of his Woman, or alone. In rare cases in front of the children, like when the Granparents pass on or something like that. Many have forgotten what it is to be a Man or a Woman, they refer to themselves as male or female. Those definitions are for animals, I prefer to think that we are something more. We have forgotten so much, in the way of survival and all that, and I guess that is just the natural order of things. Many of us could not survive indefinitely in the wild. But that is not the point. I see many many people out there who have lost their humanity. Watching the news on TV is hell for me. I mean you got a guy who has nine kids by six Women. He has to go on one of those freak TV shows to pay the child support no doubt, and then Women who have had 34 paternity tests and stil hasn't found the Father. Above all, a real Man chooses his Woman and sticks with her, not just sticks it in any willing orifice. Sorry to elaborate so much, but I wasn't the one to bring sensible discussion to the humor section here. And a real Man will be with you to cry when your kids graduate, yup, we do sometimes. And we will be there when you get old, and not keep looking for a piece of ass on the street. And we will put up with you when you are nasty, even drunk, it's only fair. But when you do get a real Man, there are certain things you do not do, it's not hard to figure out. If I use the word no, understand what it means. A Man can explain his decisions logically, and will. Whatever obedience that carries is voluntary. A Man does not force his will upon a Woman, she accepts it. (of course there is that chance he could be wrong) Let the boys go out and have their sluts, but a real Woman needs a real Man. Looking out of my sphere of influence sometimes I am reminded of the song by Alice Cooper "Billion Dollar Babies". They look just like humans......... Kudos to Women, without you there would be no people, but then Men could make the same claim. There are still a few of us left. T
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