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ohiomaid -> first visit (10/19/2006 8:43:55 PM)
[:D] I met with my neew Mistress. She desires that i serve as a house slave. My first visit is next week. Is there anything i can do on a first visit to make a positive impression and maybe give her a pleasant surprise? Any idea will be appreciated.

vital99 -> RE: first visit (10/20/2006 12:52:05 AM)
First get your pantyhose on when you visit, and your good maners out, and be ready to obey and PLEASE her. A gift, perhaps cocolates would go down well no doubt.

MistressTheaZ -> RE: first visit (10/20/2006 7:32:38 AM)
Pardon if I'm not big on formalties or protocol, but what would make a positive impression on Me would include: being on-time as agreed, listening to all directions in their entirety and asking questions as needed, practicing good manners, and serving politely, quietly, and thoroughly with respects to all duties asked of you. Minimal interruptions and fawning as you carry out your chores throughout the house. A few nice touches I've been pleasantly surprised with in the past by houseboys: fresh flowers a meal prepared for Me while I sat and read in another room fragrant soaps used to hand-wash delicates Depending how much you know of your Mistress, do think of what she really enjoys and appreciates. A considerate token goes a long way toward expressing your desire to know her, please her, and be of use to her. Best, Thea

thetammyjo -> RE: first visit (10/20/2006 8:26:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ohiomaid [:D] I met with my neew Mistress. She desires that i serve as a house slave. My first visit is next week. Is there anything i can do on a first visit to make a positive impression and maybe give her a pleasant surprise? Any idea will be appreciated. The nicest surprise would be to have you come prepared to serve without any agenda of your own other than to see how things go. Before you leave you might want to ask her if she has clothing preferences and what exact chores you should be prepared to do. Inform her that this isn't to feed your fantsies so much as a way for you to do some prep work before arriving. For example, what if she wants you to clean the stove -- do you know how to do that? You could research and practice before hand. Same thing for washing clothes or cooking.

MistressDolly -> RE: first visit (10/20/2006 11:51:49 AM)
Yes, be open and light and see with your eyes. Congratulation on finding a suitable match! I am sure it was not an easy journey. Good for you. Realize it's important to walk into this relationship grounded in reality. You will be let down if you feel she would be able to fulfill every possible need/desire in you - it is not realistic. And vice versa, of course. To expect her to complete you is too much a burden on her and will most likely end in frustration for you. I say this b/c sometimes subs get caught up in the "image" - which no Mistress can live up to - and they end up feeling dissatisfied becuz these imaginary projections and hopes are rarely ever fulfilled by her. I am not saying she won't be the best thing you ever came across; she very well can be, but just be realistic. Keep communicating, ad infin... Fondly,Dolly

demistress -> RE: first visit (10/20/2006 12:08:04 PM)
Make sure you know what she is expecting. Be on time, be curteous, be willing and eagre to serve, but not over eagre. Do not presume to know what she is thinking or why, do not presume to know better than your mistress. If you are not sure HOW she wants something done, do not hesitate to ask, doing things to her satisfaction is your ultimate goal, if you get it done, but the wrong way, you're doing no one any favors. Be expressive unless she has told you not to be, be appreciative of any and all attentions she gives you.

MisPandora -> RE: first visit (10/20/2006 1:45:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thetammyjo quote: ORIGINAL: ohiomaid [:D] I met with my neew Mistress. She desires that i serve as a house slave. My first visit is next week. Is there anything i can do on a first visit to make a positive impression and maybe give her a pleasant surprise? Any idea will be appreciated. The nicest surprise would be to have you come prepared to serve without any agenda of your own other than to see how things go. Before you leave you might want to ask her if she has clothing preferences and what exact chores you should be prepared to do. Inform her that this isn't to feed your fantsies so much as a way for you to do some prep work before arriving. For example, what if she wants you to clean the stove -- do you know how to do that? You could research and practice before hand. Same thing for washing clothes or cooking. laughs I read the OP and thought to myself, "Whatever happened to asking HER what to expect and be prepared for?"

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