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It's official...I have a stalker - 1/26/2005 2:27:03 PM

ProtagonistLily

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Ok,

I've been mailed here on CM 7 times by the same submssive who keeps changing his profile name every time I block him. It's starting to freak me out.

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RE: It's official...I have a stalker - 1/26/2005 2:52:23 PM

LdyAuburn

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Tell the moderators, I gather they have facilities to block an isp. You would I think need to provide proof?

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RE: It's official...I have a stalker - 1/26/2005 2:55:55 PM

sub4hire

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Do you reply each time to the submissive?

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RE: It's official...I have a stalker - 1/26/2005 3:12:27 PM

onceburned

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quote:

Do you reply each time to the submissive?

I think that would encourage him.

Yes, I wonder if he can be IP blocked?

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RE: It's official...I have a stalker - 1/26/2005 4:50:18 PM

Atavist

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Yes, IP's can be blocked. My guess is this person is using a DHCP server somewhere (a new IP addy is assigned for each login) which complicates it a bit. But ranges can also be blocked.

Just ignore him, he'll go away.

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RE: It's official...I have a stalker - 1/26/2005 6:23:19 PM

ProtagonistLily

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quote:

Do you reply each time to the submissive?

No, I've just blocked him every time. Only this time did I reply and tell him if he didn't stop mailing me I would go to the Mods.

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RE: It's official...I have a stalker - 1/26/2005 7:17:34 PM

sub4hire

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No, I've just blocked him every time. Only this time did I reply and tell him if he didn't stop mailing me I would go to the Mods.

I guess it must be your fabulous profile then. I'd definately turn him in as well. What else could even be done at this point then?

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RE: It's official...I have a stalker - 1/28/2005 1:25:23 PM

MHOO314

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I have had the same thing happen! And when you reply, hes got no profle, I do have his yahoo IM though, btw will the Mistress that did a post wanting to do a web with a list of stealing Dom/mes please respond here or my profile?-- we have another serious case

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RE: It's official...I have a stalker - 1/29/2005 11:14:19 AM

LadyAngelika

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That has happened to many of us here. Just ignore them. They eventually stop if you don't give them the attention they are looking for.

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RE: It's official...I have a stalker - 2/16/2005 2:05:53 AM

MistressDREAD

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simply delete the email when You first sign in unread and do not respond nor block. Its obvious You are giving it what it wants if its repeating actions. it don't feel good to be Topped from the bottom but lets put this action in prospective.

stalker = someone who stalks game or someone
who prowls or sneaks about; usually with unlawful intentions.

Id say that as long as this is a action here only on line it is more of a game or tempt to aggravate or intimidate more then anything. all things move on when ignored and their strokes are not acknowledged. Id not even ban it. Leave its notes unread and sitting so every time it goes to see if its words have been read they haven't and sit there gaining dust. JMPO~

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