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r4l884slave -> RE: BDSM at a young(er) age (10/23/2006 4:57:21 PM)

I know I used to play 'doctor' and such back from grade school-and was good at talking playmates into joining-I didnt know there was a word for it, let alone so many others, until a teen. What a relief I felt knowing I was'nt  'nuts'.  I am 25, and so have had feelings for about 18 or 19 years related to such. I remember spanking My neighbor-a lil girl too- very often . I played the Mommy and she was the disobedient child. She liked it too-and that was My first encounter with seeing someone else enjoying it. After that I just kept exploring-college and dorm life was a blast!--and girls who called themselves kinky had some huge eyes and questioned as to whether they where truly "kinky" or not. (Evil Grin)
I dont think age has anything to do with how serious One is at all. Its in you or its not.



Caitriona -> RE: BDSM at a young(er) age (10/23/2006 6:24:43 PM)

BDSM first caught my attention around the age of 15, when an ex-girlfriend of mine started restraining me with her father's neckties.  After I was raped, my interest disappeared for several years but resurfaced again about a year ago after I married my husband and we started discussing our desires on a deeper level.



subsue6 -> BDSM at a young(er) age (10/23/2006 7:00:23 PM)

I don't know if it was BDSM but I was always attracted to older girls, starting when I was 11 or 12. And by the time I was 14, it took on a sexual component with a 17 year old girl, who was a domme, but I didn't even know that word. She taught me what it was ll about.



TxAllieGrl -> RE: BDSM at a young(er) age (10/29/2006 4:54:14 PM)

I also had submissive tendancies as a teenager - in high school I always wanted to date guys who were decisive, and whom I couldn't push around. I'd play fight with them to get them to hold me down and such.

I found out "it" had a name when I was 21 or 22, jumped feet first into the local scene at 23-24. I was always one of the youngest in the group, which was interesting. I think I was fortunate to put a name to "it" at that age, before making mistakes and not knowing what I wanted, or needed.

I'm still searching, but I've come a long way in knowing myself, and being able to express that to someone else. I've learned to be HAPPY with myself, and be open to others, something I didn't know so much about at 24.



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