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ORIGINAL: toservez



I am a believer of the more information the better and I really prefer to see someone fill out that part of the profile. After all, it should be about finding the right person and not about not eliminating anyone. Now I do not think that a person should answer everything that collar me list, for example, I really do not need to know the opinion of every music type of the person's profile I am reading.

For me personally interests can both attract and turn me off, but that is the purpose of the list. For example, if I see lives for poly, camping and hunting, we are not going to be a match and that is good to know. But I can honestly say most of the items are not a big deal but it sure helps in the description of the person.

The biggest reason though why I like interests listed is so I have something to compare to what they write in their messages. I get a lot of messages of men telling me we have the exact same interests and when I go to read their profile there are no interests checked. That makes me highly suspicious.

My .02 opinion the better your profile is about showing who you are will give you the best chance at finding the right person. Keep the interest up.