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Love only for the thin? - 10/22/2006 12:17:46 PM

fatgirlneedsluv2

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I suppose my name is self-explanatory. I am a vibrant person, with a clever mind and unusual sense of empathy. I’m hoping to find a Dom who is able to appreciate a sincere, devoted and loving submissive who does not look like the typical women you see on all those lovely and enticing bondage sites.

Logically, people realize the qualities that bring them lasting happiness are not of a superficial nature. But men are visual creatures. With so many people online searching, I’m hoping one will look within and find I’m just as beautiful.

BTW, I am new to Collarme, but not the lifestyle. Looking forward to chatting with all sincere fellow kinksters!

             Thanks for reading!

                        Fatgirl

P.S. I am not saying skinny girls aren’t deserving of happiness, we all are!

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RE: Love only for the thin? - 10/22/2006 12:33:40 PM

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Welcome to Collerme and to the boards. You will find there there are many who like us BBW's and those who perfer thin. Just like rt. Good luck on your search. I hope you find what you truely seek.

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RE: Love only for the thin? - 10/22/2006 12:42:13 PM

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Welcome to Collarme. My wife and I both can understand your question and sympathize because we are both larger people. We are not however ugly, we are just tall and large framed. More importantly what is the most important thing to us as Dominants is not the physical appearance of a person, but their interest and willingness to be what they desire to be as well as what we desire for them. We have had beautiful women as submissives who thought they were all that and a bag of chips, but unfortunately they were so caught up in themselves that they could not see beyond their own physical appearance. We also have had women who were larger and not at all happy with their physical appearance, but because they were willing to listen and learn they soon became very comfortable with who they were and realized that physical appearance has little to do with having a committed D/s relationship. Best of luck ot you in your search.

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RE: Love only for the thin? - 10/22/2006 1:01:26 PM

jazzzzs

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If you are really happy with yourself then the right Dom will see it and be drawn to your strength. Good luck.

Jazzzzs, slave of MasterFitzwell

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RE: Love only for the thin? - 10/22/2006 2:06:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fatgirlneedsluv2

I suppose my name is self-explanatory. I am a vibrant person, with a clever mind and unusual sense of empathy. I’m hoping to find a Dom who is able to appreciate a sincere, devoted and loving submissive who does not look like the typical women you see on all those lovely and enticing bondage sites.

Logically, people realize the qualities that bring them lasting happiness are not of a superficial nature. But men are visual creatures. With so many people online searching, I’m hoping one will look within and find I’m just as beautiful.

BTW, I am new to Collarme, but not the lifestyle. Looking forward to chatting with all sincere fellow kinksters!

            Thanks for reading!

                       Fatgirl

Well stated, as well being your profile is blank the above words would be a perfect start. Welcome to the forum..

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RE: Love only for the thin? - 10/22/2006 2:14:24 PM

SlaveAkasha

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I agree that filling out your profile with part of your intro would be a good start for you.

You will find those that don't like you, you will find those that do.. just be yourself and enjoy..the right one will come along.

Akasha

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RE: Love only for the thin? - 10/22/2006 6:21:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fatgirlneedsluv2

I suppose my name is self-explanatory. I am a vibrant person, with a clever mind and unusual sense of empathy. I’m hoping to find a Dom who is able to appreciate a sincere, devoted and loving submissive who does not look like the typical women you see on all those lovely and enticing bondage sites.

Logically, people realize the qualities that bring them lasting happiness are not of a superficial nature. But men are visual creatures. With so many people online searching, I’m hoping one will look within and find I’m just as beautiful.

BTW, I am new to Collarme, but not the lifestyle. Looking forward to chatting with all sincere fellow kinksters!

           Thanks for reading!

                      Fatgirl

P.S. I am not saying skinny girls aren’t deserving of happiness, we all are!

Hello girl,
Look at things this way..... if someone cant take you for WHO you are over WHAT you are... they are not worth your time or effort... people need to stop judging people but what they look like and judge them by whats inside... so my advice to you is . if they cant get past the the fact that your not thin then they are not worth wasting your time on. and yes there are Dom's out there that enjoy a larger female over the thin skinny type. so keep looking and dont settle for anything less that the one for you.

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RE: Love only for the thin? - 10/22/2006 6:30:24 PM

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Love won't beat your door down!

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RE: Love only for the thin? - 10/23/2006 5:13:28 PM

Blancehe

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Just wondering why you make it sound like it is the most important thing about you?

specialdreams
But HI nice to meet you :)

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RE: Love only for the thin? - 10/23/2006 5:26:36 PM

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Girl,

you already have received some good observations so I will not engage in redundancy.

If your really happy with your physicall stats, be yourself and He will find you.

If your not happy and desire to change deep down, then get on with it, for a valid Dominant will require you to be all that you can be.

good Fortune

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RE: Love only for the thin? - 10/23/2006 5:38:07 PM

Mystique567

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I have found that it is truly who you are on the inside that counts, that is who you are and that is who people will love, yes it is redundant, but just be yourself.

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