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bondarina -> RE: stupid girl! (10/25/2006 3:16:06 PM)
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I´ve read everything it was written here.
I am a Owned submissive and I agree that it´s between them that things must be resolved. Howhever, I myself had asked for release before for various reasons,specially for feeling that my Master wasn´t pleased enough with me and for thinking that the best way of serving him would be "release him" of me, for I was feeling a burdon for him.
I believe there are many reasons for a slave to ask to be release, and that one shouldn´t be so harsh to condemn her/him. There isn´t only one type of BDSM slavery, each pair has different ways of interact and of growing together...
But from where I stand, it seems to me the only thing she did was a cry for help - somehow - and directly to her Owner. If he knows her well enough he´ll know wether she needs freedom or not, and if he can make her if not a "better" slave, a happier person.
As for feelings about Doms/Dommes, I do defend that before the D/s relation we are all humans... and humans fail - subs and Doms/Dommes. Everybody deserves a second chance, and for me the first role of a Dominant is to make his/her sub grow at his hands. Who failed after all??? Or was she only being human? A slave is still a person...
As for me, my Master gave me a second chance for he did not take the easiest way out. Takes courage to take someone at their hands and make them be like we wish them to be...
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