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defiantbadgirl -> cock taping (10/22/2006 4:21:58 PM)

My subbie has been experimenting with taping his cock. It gives him an ongoing erection, which is very good for teasing. To enhance the torture, I made him drink several glasses of water and keep the tape on for several hours. What happens if if he's tied up and he ejaculates with the tip of his cock taped? Is this painful? Is it dangerous?




LTRsubNW -> RE: cock taping (10/22/2006 4:33:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

My subbie has been experimenting with taping his cock. It gives him an ongoing erection, which is very good for teasing. To enhance the torture, I made him drink several glasses of water and keep the tape on for several hours. What happens if if he's tied up and he ejaculates with the tip of his cock taped? Is this painful? Is it dangerous?


Uhm...just don't use duct tape.




ineedotk -> RE: cock taping (10/22/2006 4:54:14 PM)

It never ceases to amaze me all the fine-tuned activities Dommes and/or subs come up with.  I do not see how either really enjoys or finds useful some of these activities.  I may be "just a sub", but I think some acts as these are nothing more than a show-off saying, "look at me!"




defiantbadgirl -> RE: cock taping (10/22/2006 5:11:49 PM)

You don't find teasing and orgasm control fun?




submit2one -> RE: cock taping (10/22/2006 5:21:51 PM)

Bondage tape around a cock shaft can be great fun, particularly for partners w ED. 

Intercourse with a taped cock was grand, for me, anyway, and no aftereffects from ejaculation while taped seemed to occurr.  Afterwards, he complained a bit about feeling uncomfortable, but hell, I don't exactly care about that. 

lololol  

I enjoy banging his taped cock, it feels like it's 'him' but like it's something of a dildo at the same time.  Fun!

submit2one




jthorne -> RE: cock taping (10/22/2006 5:30:59 PM)

You're not looking at the full picture, ineedotk. Plenty of people get ideas from these "look at me!" posts. Thus, their usefulness is ensured.




ineedotk -> RE: cock taping (10/22/2006 11:24:46 PM)

"Teasing" and "orgasm control" are general terms.  A lot of different activities can fall under those two categories.  I'm referring to very specific activities some people come up with which seem to accomplish little more than drawing attention.  Drawing attention in and of itself is not fun to me at all.  What's next, a sub sticking his penis into a light bulb socket with the switch turned on?  "Yeah, I look forward to doing THAT one!"




ineedotk -> RE: cock taping (10/22/2006 11:27:41 PM)

True, but that certainly doesn't mean that ALL those ideas are GOOD ideas.




defiantbadgirl -> RE: cock taping (10/22/2006 11:34:09 PM)

I'm not trying to get attention........geez. I just wasn't sure how a man's body would react if he orgasmed with a covered cock and couldn't shoot. Since I've never thought about this before, I figured someone who had experienced it might know.




undergroundsea -> RE: cock taping (10/23/2006 8:02:24 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

My subbie has been experimenting with taping his cock. It gives him an ongoing erection, which is very good for teasing. To enhance the torture, I made him drink several glasses of water and keep the tape on for several hours. What happens if if he's tied up and he ejaculates with the tip of his cock taped? Is this painful? Is it dangerous?


I have never tried the tape approach. It seems one of the purposes the tape might be serving is that of a cock ring or of the gates of hell--to offset the blood flow in and out of the penis to retain an erection. If so, it might be relevant to research safety aspects (how long can the blood flow be altered continuously without cause for concern) of use of those devices. Gay leather sites might have information for this matter.

As for the question about pain, if there is some room, like there is with a condom, for the ejaculate to go, there is no pain but an interesting sensation.

The male refractory period is triggered by ejaculation. One way to limit the refractory period is to prevent ejaculation. During the course of stimulation (masturbation for example), squeezing the shaft hard just below the head as orgasm approaches can allow one to prevent ejaculation. For me, this step sometimes creates a feeling of pressure in the balls. The discomfort has not been intense enough and I have not used this technique often enough for it to be a concern. I am not sure how much more intense this feeling would be if, umm, the inventory shelves in the factory were rather full ;-) 

When I speak of discomfort or pain, I don't make reference to physical comfort or endurance but the notion that pain is a signal from a body to protect the body. Sometimes it may be fine to ignore the pain, sometimes not.

Is the tape preventing ejaculation by sealing the uretheral opening, or by squeezing the shaft? If it is doing so by squeezing the shaft, I am not sure how long it is safe with respect to blood flow to continuously squeeze the shaft hard enough to prevent ejaculation. The strength of the grip I use in that situation would probably qualify for an exercise to build forearm muscles ;-)

I imagine the glasses of water are for discomfort with respect to the bladder in general. If they are for a full bladder during ejaculation specifically, for whatever reason something feels not right upon ejaculating with a rather full bladder. I am not sure if I read something somewhere, or I am going by a notion about avoiding unhealthy strain on the bladder (the abdominal muscles pressing against a full bladder) or the prostate (the prostate working while getting pressed by the bladder). Something about the physical sensation feels not right when I have done it.

For either question--duration of altering blood flow in and out of the penis, effects of supressing ejaculation, and effects of a full bladder during ejaculation--I think the best response would come from somebody who has a medical background.

Incidentally, I attended a BDSM convention where one of the presentations was Ask a Doctor Anything (via questions from the audience or through anonymous notes). For anyone looking for ideas for presentations at such a convention, that presentation was attended well and I think it is a terrific topic.

Cheers,

Sea




jthorne -> RE: cock taping (10/23/2006 8:23:12 AM)

And you are not the one in supreme control of what constitutes a "GOOD" idea, ineedotk. Different strokes for different folks. Have a little tolerance. Insert generic stop-being-nasty cliche phrase here.




firefey -> RE: cock taping (10/23/2006 10:57:35 PM)

many men will press on the base of the penis at ejaculation to divert the flow of semen into the bladder.  from everything i have heard/read this is not something that will cause damage unless you press to hard.  with the idea of taping off the urethral opening...you're probably not going to be able to find a tape that will compleatly seal off the oppening just by putting it over the top.  now, if you're talking about resricting the flow of blood and therefore the flow of semen, generaly speaking you don't want to stay severly taped over three or four hours. the rule of thumb is if it's turning purple, you've probably taped/tied it up too tight.  the blood will begin to settle and clot in the blood vessels.  it's similar to the problem men have with ed drugs and erections lasting more than four hours (priopism).  but above all, remember the organs, tissues, and blood vessels in this area are particularly sensitive and fragile.  a little goes a long way.




Sublime5446 -> RE: cock taping (10/30/2006 12:55:32 PM)

i read somewhere that doing this too much can weaken the tubes leading from the testicals to the penis causing damage...cant remember where tho.....
just somethin to keep in mind

Stiz




Paradoxy -> RE: cock taping (10/30/2006 3:18:11 PM)

Cock taping, pinching, etc. is not healthy for the individual.

Those fluids are meant to be released when the body wants them to.  "Thinking about baseball" (or whatever you need to do) is pretty much the only way you can stop a male orgasm without possible harmful effects.  If you want to delay it, don't use physical means...psychological methods would be my suggestion, in which case you'll want to start getting creative.




LaTigresse -> RE: cock taping (10/30/2006 3:32:35 PM)

I am soooooooooooooo glad I am a lesbian!




SlaveAkasha -> RE: cock taping (10/30/2006 3:51:40 PM)

I am sure many lesbians are pretty happy of that fact also, Ma'am[;)]




firefey -> RE: cock taping (10/31/2006 8:30:13 AM)

there has been a lot of work done on the subject (male science is obsesed with their penis) and if you push too hard you run into the weakening of the tubes.  or worse you damage them.  doing it all the time, or every time, isn't the best idea.  but occationally or even half the time usually isn't going to cause much of an issue.  again, unless you use too much force.




undergroundsea -> RE: cock taping (10/31/2006 8:49:24 AM)

I appreciate the posts that mention possible effects of ejaculation supression. I did not find anything immediately with a google search. If you do have a reference, please do share. Still, I have something to go on.

I did find this article during the google search which I thought I would share.

Cheers,

Sea

http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/warn1231.htm




submarriner -> RE: cock taping (10/31/2006 3:45:04 PM)

Undergroundsea,
Look under retrograde ejaculation, that is the term used when the ejaculate enters the bladder as opposed to exiting the penis. As far as harmful effects, the more often you experience retrograde ejaculation the easier it becomes to have this happen. In the event of spontaneous retrograde ejaculation (occuring without blocking the forward flow of ejaculate) this can lead to infertility (a plus in some cases) on the part of the male. The sperm is functional and copious but travels the wrong direction. Some medical studies equate frequent repeated obstructed ejaculation as a cause of retrograde ejaculation. Damage to the urethra, bladder, or penis is not usually associated with obstructed ejaculation. One question to defiantbadgirl, who takes off the tape, and how do you take it off? Ouch!




undergroundsea -> RE: cock taping (10/31/2006 6:59:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: submarriner

Undergroundsea,
Look under retrograde ejaculation, that is the term used when the ejaculate enters the bladder as opposed to exiting the penis. As far as harmful effects, <snip>


Thanks! I am going to stop using my hands, which have potential to block ejaculate, and stick with apple pies ;-)

Cheers,

Sea




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