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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/24/2006 8:44:45 AM

Silvermoon

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True agirl, but, it gave me ALOT of undeniable insight into how he really felt as well. And confirmed many suspensions. Suffice to say shortly there after, I left. One of the BEST choices I've ever made. So...not a single regret.

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/24/2006 8:52:32 AM

Mercnbeth

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ORIGINAL: Supershovel83

... How Do you make your Master...

this slave doesn't attempt to "make" Master do anything, neither physical nor mental things such as "understanding". if Master never even believed this slave loved Him... it wouldn't change the fact that she does.

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/24/2006 9:50:44 AM

SirDaniel

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Silvermoon

My first Dom..I wanted to show him just how much I cared, and adored each moment with him. Over the first year of our relationship I collected little tidbits, a swatch of the night gown I wore the night we first made love, a piece of the rope first used for bondage, concert ticket stubs, letters we wrote back and forth, and so forth. I put them into a scrap book and gave it to him for our first anniversary. Of course, he simply set it on the floor and never looked at it but that's cause he was an ass..the idea itself (I feel) showed everything, desire to be with him, attention to detail, sentiment, romance even...

Just a thought.

I had a slave at one time, we had just moved and money for Xmas was very tight that year.. She made a small hand written 'scrap book' to show me just how much she loved me. I hold that book nearer and closer to my heat than any other gift I have ever been given. I am sorry that you had someone that did not appreciate all of the love, attention and the detail that you put in yours.

I still have my book and will keep it always. I still have the girl too, she is just not my slave any longer. She is still my wife though, and I still love her to the depths of my heart...>:)

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/24/2006 10:10:55 AM

LL1aintbehavin

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Supershovel.
i read your original post over a couple of times, then looked at the profile.
The profile states that You are a Dominant couple, which confuses me if He is your Master.
If for three years, you have sat on the outskirts of a relationship watching him go through other relationships, and still considering him your Master even though there was no relationship as such between the two, how could you feel bad about anything?
Were you told that to be worthy of being his slave you must wait until he has tired of the other ones that would come and go in his life???
Love is shown in word but mostly in action. By watching him have other relationships and waiting patiently for three years until it was your turn, that has shown love and a great deal of patience that i would not have had.
It states that you are both looking for male and females submissives and a poly family.
i will state up front that i am mono with my husDom, and not into poly, but in my understanding it is better to have a stable main relationship before trying to include others in the mix. If you feel he does not trust your love for him then there is more work needed.
If my love was in question in a relationship after being tested so severely, then i doubt i would continue hoping things were going to change. You either trust someone at their word or you do not, what you do then is up to the individual.
i wish you both luck
aintbehavin

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/24/2006 10:41:09 AM

jimbo747

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Unwaivered obedience.

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/25/2006 1:11:55 AM

MasterNdorei

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How many of us have had the words mouthed in vain? Actions show louder than your words will ever speak. Obedience, gratitude, thoughtfulness.... these are a few ways to outwardly reflect the love you feel for Him. Prefering to express love more than speak it, i enjoy going the extra mile for Master's comfort & happiness at every possibility, and jump at every opportunity to set up extreme pamperings... anything i can do that brings honor to Him is an expression of my love and surrender. If you would like more specific ideas, feel free to contact me on the other side.

Humbly~*
Master's dorei

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/25/2006 2:56:02 AM

mons

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greetings

please dear just tell him (i love you ) that is all he know this all ready

mons ( so sweet you are loving him this way go for it tell him )

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/27/2006 8:33:56 AM

ladychatterley

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Try to anticipate his needs. I'm not very good at it, but not just doing what he tells me, but what he hasn't realized he yet wants. When I get it right, he knows it is because I love him and, at that moment at least, understand him.

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/27/2006 10:02:51 AM

littleone35

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It does not hurt to tell him but as the saying goes actions speak louder than words. I show Master by obeying him, seeing to his needs (drinks, food, back rubs) and of course kisses and hugs. Just show him you want to be with him and take care of all his needs in these ways.

Matt's littleone

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/27/2006 11:43:30 AM

AquaticSub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Supershovel83

Okay, here i go... How Do you make your Master understand how much you love Him? Here is my story! i met my Master 3 years ago, i have never been in this lifestyle. When my Master told me about it, i agreed why not.... When i had met my Master he was still spoken for... Being the small, simple, farmers daughter that i was, i didn't know what to make of it... So everytime my Master said that it was through with the other women, my hopes where up, but it never came to be intill recently.. That had confused His pet and pet had wondered... Now that Loalty and ownership has been established pet has spent many long hours to get Master to forgive his pet for what she did not see soon enough. So if any other sub/slaves have ever tried to show their Master with out a dout of their love for their Master, please tell me.... i love my Master so much, i just want him too see that. Please help. With all my heart goes this letter. Know with out a doudt i love my Master, and i only want him to see that..

Please help me,
Pet

Why was your master messing around with you and another woman at the same time? That sounds like a bad situation and you shouldn't have to prove your loyalty. Good things can come of such situations, but generally it's a red flag.

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/27/2006 7:38:33 PM

mtumwawaBwana

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i show my love for my Master by my devotion, respect and loyalty, not to mention explicitly obeying Him

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/28/2006 6:35:27 AM

sintralgasub

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Why do you have to reassure him? From what you've posted in this thread, it sounds like you waited around for him to finish his other relationships. Why do you need to be forgiven? It's confusing.

My sentiments exactly...

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 10/29/2006 12:54:03 AM

slave4Darby3d

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dd,
I liked the way you expressed yourself... i feel very much the same

i get overwhelmed by how much I love Him and need, NEED, to show it somehow every day.

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 11/1/2006 12:08:56 PM

medievalwench

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i show my Master my love for Him in various ways, by the ongoing process of learning to obey Him more fully as time passes, (i can be a bit too willful but i'm working on it), by doing little daily things like cooking Him a meal or even just making Him a cup of tea.
He knows i love him and does not need to be told this though sometimes i cannot resist saying it out loud, i do have to curb that impulse as at times He finds this irritating.
i know that He loves me, because He chose me and stayed with me, when there are many other girls He could have chosen, and by the fact that He strongly turns down offers from others who have wished to be His.

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RE: How do you show your Master that you love Him? - 11/1/2006 9:41:08 PM

babysburnin

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What is your question? Was He with other women, then you both declared exclusiveness? Were you with other men prior to this and it has him questioning your commitment?

Use your words ... wisely.

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