please explain...

please explain... (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion

Message

wouldlike2 -> please explain... (10/24/2006 8:17:48 AM)
over and over i find in the profiles the difference between collar (beginner) and collar (expert) may someOne so kind to explain to me? does mean expert this person has collared often, for a long time, a lot of people.. etc?? i am a bit lost here... may someOne enlighten me[sm=idea.gif] thanks pet

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 8:21:44 AM)
No idea- it's just how someone sees themselves. Perhaps it's that they understand the concept of "collaring" to a relatively high degree. But since collars and collarings have such a variety of understanding and usage in the scene, it's a fairly empty term used in that way. It's best to just ask the person what they mean by it. As a request, would you mind making your subject lines a bit more specific in the future? Something like "Please explain collar status" would be much more helpful than just "Please explain" http://www.collarchat.com/m_561711/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#561725 what is the significance of the collar? http://www.collarchat.com/m_498653/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#498670 The Coveted and Legendary Collar http://www.collarchat.com/m_531609/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#531610 Collaring vs Wearing a collar http://www.collarchat.com/m_547321/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#547475 The meaning of a collar http://www.collarchat.com/m_485613/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#485797 Please share with me (what being collared means to you) http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=427111&mpage=1&key=collaring&#427257 being collared http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=410988&mpage=1&key=collaring&#411019 public collar http://www.collarchat.com/m_291301/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#291301 Collar vs Wedding Ring http://www.collarchat.com/m_287566/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#287566 Another Question Regarding the Collar http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=323687&mpage=1&key=collaring&#323702 collars (2) http://www.collarchat.com/m_287140/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#287140 Collar http://www.collarchat.com/m_264867/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#264867 Sub Thoughts on collars http://www.collarchat.com/m_248345/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#248345 collar before love http://www.collarchat.com/m_247668/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#247668 ring or collar, what's the difference? http://www.collarchat.com/m_219135/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#219135 What does a collar mean? http://www.collarchat.com/m_190240/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#190240 collar or what else? http://www.collarchat.com/m_187244/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#187244 Accepting a collar http://www.collarchat.com/m_184946/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#184946 Timeframe for a Collar? http://www.collarchat.com/m_177155/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#177155 collar (2) http://www.collarchat.com/m_165733/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#165733 collars http://www.collarchat.com/m_151638/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#151638 Collar Ceremony http://www.collarchat.com/m_150934/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#150934 Losing the Collar http://www.collarchat.com/m_132702/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#132702 From chat to collar http://www.collarchat.com/m_124898/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#124898 Wearing training collar in public http://www.collarchat.com/m_81449/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#81449 What are the collar types/levels please? http://www.collarchat.com/m_80281/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#80281 When is the right time to collar? http://www.collarchat.com/m_70392/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#70392 Collars and collaring http://www.collarchat.com/m_61337/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#61337 Collar conundrum? http://www.collarchat.com/m_59686/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#59686 Color of collars? http://www.collarchat.com/m_55592/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#55592 Collars when? http://www.collarchat.com/m_27368/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#27368 Kind of a collar question? http://www.collarchat.com/m_11451/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#11451 Collaring a submissive? http://www.collarchat.com/m_428/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#428 What is your definition of a training collar? http://www.collarchat.com/m_402/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#402 Multiple collars or single collar?

Arpig -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 8:22:18 AM)
A collar (expert) is one who can fasten & unfasten a collar with one hand while reaching around the collared one from in front.

shaylaSC -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 8:25:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig A collar (expert) is one who can fasten & unfasten a collar with one hand while reaching around the collared one from in front. Kind of like the highschool boys when they learn to snap a bra that way huh? LOL shayla

WickedlyDevine -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 8:29:42 AM)
It is how one see's themself, what an expert at collar/collaring to me may be different to you, and so on. My guess is overall, anyone above beginner has been broken in at least once for what I consider a fair period of time. An expert should fully understand the concept of collaring and adhere at all times, having spent sustantial time either in or overseeing a/the collared, but again that is my view.

Arpig -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 8:32:28 AM)
That was exactly the image I had in mind Shayla [:D]

shaylaSC -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 8:56:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig That was exactly the image I had in mind Shayla [:D] LOL

wouldlike2 -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 10:23:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross As a request, would you mind making your subject lines a bit more specific in the future? Something like "Please explain collar status" would be much more helpful than just "Please explain" yes LuckyAlbatross will keep that in mind - and thanks for answering pet

DiurnalVampire -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 10:27:00 AM)
Personally, I dont put much clout into the little notatons on the sides of a checklist. After having read through Angels, I think its so subjective as to nearly be useless. Someoen could ean anything from they are an expert at wearing the collar to they think tey know all about what one means... I read th elist, but everything ese is fluff to try and make it look better. I know what my boys collar means to us. Does that make me an expert? Where it comes to Angel, yes. Anyone else, no where close. My opinion at least DV

akisha -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 11:37:59 AM)
I love the profiles where the person is just 18 or 19 and an expert in everything g wish i was that accomplished at 32 [;)]

popeye1250 -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 12:08:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: akisha I love the profiles where the person is just 18 or 19 and an expert in everything g wish i was that accomplished at 32 [;)] LOL, yes what's all that "expert" stuff all about? Are they "Certified" by some B&D Board of Certification somewhere?

Aine -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 9:51:06 PM)
Oh lord, don't give them any ideas!!! rolls her eyes and laughs

Lordandmaster -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 9:55:57 PM)
You know, just when I got skilled at unsnapping a bra from the other side, I entered the phase of my life where I didn't have to do it from then other side anymore. Yet another example of how high school teaches you everything you don't need to know. quote: ORIGINAL: shaylaSC Kind of like the highschool boys when they learn to snap a bra that way huh?

Sinergy -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 9:56:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig A collar (expert) is one who can fasten & unfasten a collar with one hand while reaching around the collared one from in front. Sorta like the people who give their partner a neck rub while looking over her/his shoulders lusting after the person walking by. Sinergy

Sinergy -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 9:57:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster You know, just when I got skilled at unsnapping a bra from the other side, I entered the phase of my life where I didn't have to do it from then other side anymore. Yet another example of how high school teaches you everything you don't need to know. quote: ORIGINAL: shaylaSC Kind of like the highschool boys when they learn to snap a bra that way huh? Tie her up. Open Spyderco police special knife. Trace knife over skin, watching it squirm. Cut bra strap. And so on. Sinergy

MasterNdorei -> RE: please explain... (10/24/2006 10:01:28 PM)
Claiming to be an expert at collaring? Hmmmm... i can think of some great things to want to become an expert at, but collaring is not one of them... For me the legnth of time one has been collared is more significant than the number of collars worn. As for me i no longer consider myself collared, as my collar was removed when i was branded. Everyone has their own ideas of expressing dedication. Humbly, Master's dorei

RedSavageSlave -> RE: please explain... (10/25/2006 6:07:53 AM)
Maybe the collaring experts are the ones who know how to throw the really good "after collaring" parties?

KatyLied -> RE: please explain... (10/25/2006 6:10:06 AM)
quote: collar (beginner) and collar (expert) I didn't even know this existed on the other side. Is this a new way of expressing that you suck at relationships (expert) and have collared many subs? [&:]

Aileen68 -> RE: please explain... (10/25/2006 8:06:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sinergy Tie her up. Open Spyderco police special knife. Trace knife over skin, watching it squirm. Cut bra strap. And so on. Sinergy Not when the bra costs $48

raiken -> RE: please explain... (10/25/2006 8:13:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 quote: ORIGINAL: Sinergy Tie her up. Open Spyderco police special knife. Trace knife over skin, watching it squirm. Cut bra strap. And so on. Sinergy Not when the bra costs $48 Hehehe...my thoughts exactly!

Page: [1] 2 next > >>

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.03125