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RE: correct protocol - 10/27/2006 12:53:22 AM

ChaOz

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ORIGINAL: patina

I kept my word in that nothing happened, and I reported all things to Dom (m). He told me he was not upset or mad at me as I did the right things just that he had been proven right the other guy only wanted sex. I said I was sorry for trusting the young guy but couldn't see how a 51 yr old heavy gal would interest a young slender good looking 27 yr old. I guess in that I am stupid.

That is where I got my ? from he said the younger Dom should of known you never go to a house to see a sub/slave until he gets permission from the Master, and you never go with the intent to seduce the girl.

Patina

Ok both of these people are just men who are into bdsm. Its not like they got Dom on their birth certificates, and ofcoarse Dom (m) tells you Dom (younger) wants just sex. Its not like he'd say, "great guy.. you should consider him as a potential Dom." You havent meet him, so until your at his feet he isnt your Dom IMHO. Maybe your under consideration, maybe he told you how to behave but that doesnt mean he controls you.. he hasnt even gotten there yet. Be careful, a lot of this bdsm stuff is based on fantasy, dont get carried away. Your not stupid, bad habit to call yourself that.. and yes, a guy that age would have a lot of reasons to be sexually interested in you. He may even genuinly want you as a long term slave.

(in reply to patina)