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sensual Dom??? - 1/28/2005 2:58:44 PM   
match2u


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hug to all,


does the sensual Dom/Domina - Master/Mistress exist?

or is that seen as an antagonism, cause Dominance includes harshness usually seen?

or is the sensibility a pre-condition in being able to dominate?

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/28/2005 3:29:09 PM   
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or is that seen as an antagonism, cause Dominance includes harshness usually seen?

or is the sensibility a pre-condition in being able to dominate?


Not a clue what other's think but to me a Dom must be sensual on some level. I do not see Dominant people as harsh at all. Those I do I usually end up considering them abuser's after getting to know them.
Sadistic and harsh are two different things to me. As are sadistic and an abuser.

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/28/2005 3:50:25 PM   
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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/28/2005 4:23:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are quite a few people who associate themselves with the term, "Sensual Dominant." I am a Sadist, but I am also a sensual dominant. Some of my best Sadism stems from sensualism.

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/28/2005 6:02:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Can't say a lot more than the other two have said. My tagline on another site is 'Sex without D/s is almost as pointless as D/s without sex', and while I am the first to say it's not all or only about sex, and that sex is not always about sensuality, for me either sex or sadism without a sensual underpinning is valueless.

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/28/2005 7:02:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MrThorns
There are quite a few people who associate themselves with the term, "Sensual Dominant." I am a Sadist, but I am also a sensual dominant. Some of my best Sadism stems from sensualism.


I have a fondness for calling myself a sensual sadist myself.

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/28/2005 7:03:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Here's a similar thread you might enjoy match2u:

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/28/2005 7:41:49 PM   
SCBigBill


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Status: offline 		I consider myself to be a sensual sadistic Dominant, thank you.

I most enjoy sessions where I can combine the pleasure of sensuality (not necessarily sexual) with the pain of sadism to "ramp" up the intensity. My ultimate goal is to reach the point where the bottom/sub/slave cannot tell the difference anymore....its a glorious jumble. <chuckle> One bottom of mine made feathers a hard limit after a scene with me. said it was just too intense.

There are times when a Dominant must be harsh and discipline their sub, however, this does not infringe on their inherent sensual nature. As with any/every other aspect of the relationship, open, honest communication is necessary for the discipline to be effective and not be considered abusive BY THE PARTIES involved.

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/29/2005 6:08:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		With all the focus you find on pain and deprivation online, I used to think I was the only one who combined sensuality into the mix, much less used it as a focal point. It was only after I became active in the R/T community and began meeting other couples that I began to get a more realistic feel for how different people meet their mutual needs. I've found in my conversations that, in general, behavior is less constrained by a perception of how things are supposed to be done and much more responsive to how the participants enjoy living. Harsh is in the eye of the beholder in any case and a lot of times things sound much harsher than they turn out to be in reality.
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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/29/2005 6:59:55 AM   
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Hrm. Nope, I don't seem to really be here.

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/29/2005 7:54:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Of course there are sensual Dom/mes. I can say that with utter certainty, even though I have no idea what you, inparticular, exactly eman by 'sensual'. There are Dom/mes, like myself who are very caring and even affectionate during our play. There are also Dom/mes who want nothing more than to whip the snot out of someone and then have a beer. We are all people out here, and we are all different.

If your are looking for something, and you really open yourself up to it, you will find what you want. I really believe there is a lid for every pot.

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/29/2005 10:44:28 AM   
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quote:

does the sensual Dom/Domina - Master/Mistress exist?


We do. In fact, I ooze sensuality out of every pore in my body (or so I've been told).
If there is no sensuality involved, I'm not interested in it.

- LA

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/29/2005 9:04:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		it's nice to have a Dom, treat you like a princess sometimes, the flowers, the romantic dinners exc...but that's not what every one does...i like it personally but it doesn't mean it happens with everyone....everyone in this lifestyle has different tastes and sometimes we dont always find what were looking for exactly...you can find little ways of making up for this part though....be creative and imagine!!!

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/30/2005 12:13:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have to agree with the majority here, Sensuality is part of the Dom/Domina persona to me. That is what makes pleasure and pain such an awesome combination in my world of kink.

Respectfully,
Willing2serve

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/30/2005 3:55:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Like a dark red rose with many thorns I give both sensual pleasure and harsh pain.

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RE: sensual Dom??? - 1/30/2005 7:26:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty
then have a beer.


Mmmmmm. Beer. A nice hefeweizen sounds REALLY good right now.

Damn it, I'm out. Figures.

Curse you for mentioning brew! LOL!

~ShadeDiva, who DOES have pretzels. *sigh*




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