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chasity - 10/26/2006 2:45:10 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		hi i am trying to find a suitable chastity device and have no idea what i am looking for lol
could anyone point me in the right direction of something that would be suitable for a first time user 
ive been lookin at a gates of hell and a cb3000 but i dont know anyone who has tried these and would love some advice :)
sprry if i have posted this in wrong forum

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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 5:44:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		The CB3000, CB2000 and the curve I have had the most positive responses from.  However, they are also slightly different and depending on your purpose for them, body type and length of use you may have different issues with each.  Some things to consider are size, discretion, comfort.  I have used all 3 and had raves and complaints regarding all 3 so it is pretty individual a choice.  My personal preference is the cb3000.  Good luck and if you want more details feel free to email me

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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 6:07:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		My personal preferance is the cb3000 too.  But like Mskat mentioned everyone is different.  There are so many different issues with all of them and don't forget the individual himself.  Where as he may feel comfortable in one and not so in another.  At first it would be good to have a try out and see how the fit is so that he's comfortable somewhat in the device.  Then when you think he is.  Go longer periods.


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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 7:28:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Panties and ordering them not to touch themselves.

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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 1:27:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		The cb3000 is the best one i think , regarding that issue, how long would such a Mistress as yourselves keep one in chastity for

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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 1:34:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Panties and ordering them not to touch themselves.


That's what I do - just no touching -  it's the honor system, but I like the feeling that I get from waiting so I'm honest about not masturbating. 

Incidentally, I posted something related on Orgasm Denial.  My post on OD sought help with ideas in looking for a detection system enabling another person to be sure that the wearer did not masturbate.  This isn't the same idea as with a mechanical chastity device since masturbation would be possible, however the idea is to detect it.  The only idea I got thus far was to use water soluble ink on the shaft. 


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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 1:40:15 PM   
nessalovestats


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Status: offline 		We have and use the CB3000, and we absolutely love it, it comes with different sized parts, so you can adjust accordingly.  he wears it often and for lengths of time, and does not really have many problems with it.  Hope this helps You. 

< Message edited by nessalovestats -- 10/26/2006 1:41:11 PM >

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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 2:36:52 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: canupleaseme

hi i am trying to find a suitable chastity device and have no idea what i am looking for lol
could anyone point me in the right direction of something that would be suitable for a first time user 
ive been lookin at a gates of hell and a cb3000 but i dont know anyone who has tried these and would love some advice :)
sprry if i have posted this in wrong forum


I found the gates of hell useless for my guy. The CB3000 is a good design :)

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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 9:34:54 PM   
Hercuckslave


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Status: offline 		none of the cb devices are secure.  fact.  the cb2000, 3000, curve, ect.  they are trapped ball devices and the whole package goes through the first ring, and the balls are trapped by the second.  think about it.  if it all fits through that ring, it can come out.  with the second ring though, you can't remove the device as teh balls are trapped, but, you can pull mr. happy out of the top, have your fun with him, and slip him back in with noone the wiser.  i have been involved in chastity training for 7 years, and am a member of many message boards and groups.  99% of the guys who use the CB devices would say the same thing (if they are being honest). 
the other problems with those devices is the morning erections.  very painful (which you might enjoy for your boy), instant wake up...but can cause edema (swelling).  the rings as they come are also very prone to chaffing.  they are molded and the inside of the ring has a very slight seam that causes chaffing.  this can be remedied by sanding the inside smooth.

again, my opinion though is these devices are toys, and not suitable or secure for long term orgasm restriction.


the other options are full stainless steel belts.  like neosteel or tollyboy.  they are custom fit and tend to be quite secure.  problems with them is they are much more restrictive on activity, they take several months to get, and they are quite expensive...in excess of 600 dollars on average.

the other option is a lori's tube.  they are basically steel or platic tubes that fit over the penis and are secured with a locking pin through a piercing...usually a PA or frenum.  these devices in my opinion are the least restrictive to movement and activity, are 100% secure (he's not going to be able to see or touch his johnson without you and the key, and are reasonably priced.  the only downside is you must have a peircing, and it must be FULLY healed.

i wear a Lori's tube with a frenum piercing.  I've been through all the other devices and its the only one that works for us.

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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 9:43:16 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I tend to go along LAs lines, since we are still separated.  Once we are together, he will be in a curve. I am not worried about having his cock in the chastity version of Fort Knox. The idea is that he would not TRY and get out, since he has been comanded not to.  If he does, then that in and of itself is a problem, and the resulting masturbation is quite immaterial.  I know that the curve will do what I want it to, it will stop erections and habitual touching. I like the idea that there might be a potential escape, actualy, ebcasue knowing he could get out if he realy tried, it means that he resists the desire to really try because I told him not to.

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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 9:58:12 PM   
hsagnev


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ORIGINAL: Hercuckslave

none of the cb devices are secure.  fact.  the cb2000, 3000, curve, ect.  they are trapped ball devices and the whole package goes through the first ring, and the balls are trapped by the second.  think about it.  if it all fits through that ring, it can come out.  with the second ring though, you can't remove the device as teh balls are trapped, but, you can pull mr. happy out of the top, have your fun with him, and slip him back in with noone the wiser.  i have been involved in chastity training for 7 years, and am a member of many message boards and groups.  99% of the guys who use the CB devices would say the same thing (if they are being honest). 
the other problems with those devices is the morning erections.  very painful (which you might enjoy for your boy), instant wake up...but can cause edema (swelling).  the rings as they come are also very prone to chaffing.  they are molded and the inside of the ring has a very slight seam that causes chaffing.  this can be remedied by sanding the inside smooth.

M's m



I would have to agree with what you say, that's why I was trying to think of a way to detect stroking rather than provide absolute security from touching and/or masturbating using a chastity device. 

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RE: chasity - 10/26/2006 10:31:33 PM   
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The chastity devices on here are probably for the more advanced user but there is one that doesn't require a piercing.  I have never used the CB products.  When I had considered one, I was sent a video clip of a man masturbating himself to climax with the device in place.  Good Luck in your search.

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RE: chasity - 11/7/2006 11:03:06 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		thanks so much everyone sorry its taken me so long to reply tothe thread the advice has been really helpful

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RE: chasity - 11/11/2006 5:50:57 AM   
robert2serve


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Status: offline 		i have worn a cb2000, for about 3years now,  although i am not currently under the Ownership or control of any one just wearing the  cb2000, keeps me in a state of awareness that i am submissive.

As for the device itself, the sugestion that the mold ring be sanded down for comfor purposes is a good one, i have done that to mine and it does work very well. Let me say this  the cb2000 and 3000
are devices only they are there to keep the sub aware of what and who he is if the sub is not honest with his self and his Owner they are of no use,

a chasity device is like a collar, they are signs of respect and Ownership, and if the sub makes the decision to by pass the intent of the device than he cannot be trusted as a submissive in the relationship.


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RE: chasity - 11/11/2006 7:55:21 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		again thankyou for your replies. Its certainly a lot more about trusting him not to get out as im sure most are escapable in some way but i do like the idea of knowing it would be that much harder to And the gates seem to be doing the trick so far till i can afford something like a cb they are certainly pricey lol

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