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Why is it - 10/26/2006 4:06:33 PM   
cham1313


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Status: offline 		so hard for people to say no.People never will send a note saying No,think-you.You are to old to short or something elsa.
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RE: Why is it - 10/26/2006 4:21:03 PM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		bless your heart, you are in for it.

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RE: Why is it - 10/26/2006 4:29:12 PM   
Lorelei115


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Because I am a very empathetic person, and when I have to send notes like that, it hurts me to know Im hurting people. After a while, it actually makes me cry.

Better to be silent and let them just think I never got the note.

God, Im gonna start crying now...

<end scarcasm>

Sorry, Im in a nasty mood tonight. Earache and all. This thread's been covered (a LOT).. there is actually one currently going on over in "Ask A Mistress" that you may find helpful.

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RE: Why is it - 10/26/2006 4:42:08 PM   
Aileen68


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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

bless your heart, you are in for it.


I just spit my drink out reading that.  Thanks.  You made me laugh Cuddle.

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RE: Why is it - 10/26/2006 5:38:39 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		Not hard for me to say no in the least but it is easier for me to ignore them. Generally this is because i can't be arsed replying. *grins*

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RE: Why is it - 10/26/2006 6:01:21 PM   
cham1313


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Status: offline 		think-you lorelei115 for the info.As far as the nasty oh will things happen!!!!!

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RE: Why is it - 10/26/2006 6:03:17 PM   
Lorelei115


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Status: offline 		No, I just really WILL go and cry. I'm such a wuss about pain above the neck. LOL

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RE: Why is it - 10/26/2006 9:06:50 PM   
Ava82


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Status: offline 		Check the profile.  Usually the person puts an idea of what they want in there.  I get a lot of emails from a lot of people who should have read my profile and known better. 

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RE: Why is it - 10/26/2006 9:11:27 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		When I dont have too many emails to reply to, I wil send a little "no, thank you" note.  Or a back off bitch note, depending on the tone of the original send.  I do not, however, see it as necessary to put in the note WHY I say no.  If you've read my profile and offered something I dont want (which is anything past a conversation, which most offer right off) then you should already know why.  If you havent read, thats your fault, not mine.

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RE: Why is it - 10/26/2006 9:55:38 PM   
CrazyC


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Status: offline 		when i recieve at least 15 emails just saying, "Hi your beautiful." or "Hi your eyes speak to me." i stopped wanting to respond. There is nothing to say, but thank you. And then they think that means, that i am interested. i then have to tell them they aren't even my type. i hate doing that, since then i seem like the one playing games because all i did was say "thank you."

Actually i am thinking i might need to add some stuff to my profile mentioning those things that make me automatically delete your message. That way you think i am picky and a snob right off the bat, instead of thinking it down the road.

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RE: Why is it - 10/26/2006 10:26:02 PM   
Owned1


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Status: offline 		I respond to any email that does not seem to be a wanking troller.  If they are not something I am interested in I simply let them know.  I do not see a reason to be personal.  A simple, thank you but I am not interested is polite imho

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RE: Why is it - 10/27/2006 2:12:57 AM   
nefertari


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Status: offline 		When I received an email the other day (first email from this guy, mind you) and the only line was something along the lines of: may I ask your experience with ass play, I responded with: "No, you may not."  Does that count?

Seriously, though...most of the emails I get are from men who don't even bother to read my profile.  If they can't be bothered, neither can I.

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RE: Why is it - 10/27/2006 2:37:24 AM   
meatcleaver


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nefertari

When I received an email the other day (first email from this guy, mind you) and the only line was something along the lines of: may I ask your experience with ass play, I responded with: "No, you may not."  Does that count?

Seriously, though...most of the emails I get are from men who don't even bother to read my profile.  If they can't be bothered, neither can I.



Most men want sex and a relationship in that order. Most women want a relationship and then sex in that order. Smart men pretend they want a relationship and then sex. Dumb men are honest and let women know their priority is sex.

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RE: Why is it - 10/27/2006 2:42:14 AM   
MistressCamille


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cham1313

so hard for people to say no.People never will send a note saying No,think-you.You are to old to short or something elsa.


I always reply unless it's obvious they haven't read my profile. It explicitly says what I'm looking for and yet most the responses I get are from idiots who think that using Yahoo Messenger is a relationship.

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RE: Why is it - 10/27/2006 2:46:13 AM   
MistressCamille


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Status: offline 		cham, I just read your profile after posting and saw you mention you have Yahoo Messenger. I assure you that was coincidence only.

However, you may want to get a better picture of you than what you have used. You look kind of ungroomed.

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RE: Why is it - 10/27/2006 2:57:04 AM   
Quivver


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Status: offline 		Oh Cham, if you really want a No Thank You, send me a note... I'll reply.

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RE: Why is it - 10/27/2006 3:18:27 AM   
CrazyC


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ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

Most men want sex and a relationship in that order. Most women want a relationship and then sex in that order. Smart men pretend they want a relationship and then sex. Dumb men are honest and let women know their priority is sex.


Goodness...what a generalization of all men. There are many men who really do want relationship and then sex.

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RE: Why is it - 10/27/2006 4:52:12 AM   
meatcleaver


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CrazyC

quote:

ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

Most men want sex and a relationship in that order. Most women want a relationship and then sex in that order. Smart men pretend they want a relationship and then sex. Dumb men are honest and let women know their priority is sex.


Goodness...what a generalization of all men. There are many men who really do want relationship and then sex.


I did say most and not all and as a man I have heard many candid comments from men over a drink say what they wouldn't want the women in their life to hear, in fact they would rather crawl over a field of broken glass then let their women hear.

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RE: Why is it - 10/27/2006 5:08:31 AM   
UnvailedPurpose


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Status: offline 		MistressCamille:
Its not just dom’s or dommes that are inundated with irrational and/or illogical insulting e-mail. As a submissive, slave, friend, or vanilla lover, I reserve the right to neither rush to judgment nor shackle myself to Internet dating games or the head games the alleging dominants play. However, that does not release me from common courtesy or the social grace of responding.

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RE: Why is it - 10/27/2006 5:49:48 AM   
CrazyC


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Status: offline 		my mistake.

Edited....i sounded like a bitch, sorry.

< Message edited by CrazyC -- 10/27/2006 6:38:59 AM >

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