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Masturbation - 10/26/2006 8:58:35 PM   
StacyCat


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Status: offline 		Friendly masturbation advice :-)

There are two things that should be given and told to teenage boys.  First, is give them a box of condoms, and tell them to masturbate with them.  Gets them used to using condoms, putting them on, and orgasming with them.  Secondly, tell them to masturbate differently.

This goes for women, too.  If your body gets used to only having an orgasm one way, then it will be hard for you to have an orgasm other ways.  If you can only come from clitoral stimulation, try having a dildo in your pussy as you masturbate, to get used to the sensation.  Men, there are no vaginas in the world that can compete with the strength of your hand, go with a lighter touch sometimes, try indirect stimulation.

Doms and Dommes, make this an exercise in fun!  Think of different and unusual ways to have your submissives/slaves masturbate and orgasm.  Get them used to tease and denial, make them masturbate with fluffy bunny fur, get them sensitized to a wide range of sexual delights.
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RE: Masturbation - 10/26/2006 10:29:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		These are really great ideas.  I will pass this information onto my teen son.  I can see how it will make things easier.  We preach safe sex, no glove no love stuff but who helps them learn to use the tools.

Thanks for the great thoughts.

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RE: Masturbation - 10/26/2006 11:19:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		I really find the idea that a teenage boy needs any sort of instruction or help masturbating a little hard to take seriously.

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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 6:15:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Arpig

I really find the idea that a teenage boy needs any sort of instruction or help masturbating a little hard to take seriously.


Have you ever had a teenage son?

1.  They usually start WAY sooner than a mother is ready to deal with.
2.  They will use everything in the house for cleanup - then try to hide it if you haven't made it clear to them that you don't have issues and judgements about it but would prefer they not use everything in the house.  This can make for unpleasant discoveries around the house and in the bottom of the laundry basket, especially if they're using your expensive tea towels (or what have you).
3.  They will use everything in the house for lube.  Not a big deal until your 40.00 tube of moisturizer suddenly starts disappearing every time you buy a new tube.
4.  If they've picked up some misinformation along the way they could actually be having problems.  - For example - someone says 'the first time you have sex it hurts' usually meaning a female breaking the hymen, however if that distinction isn't made then they might masturbate  until just before they reach orgasm and then stop for fear of pain.

Now, these were just my own experiences with my then teenaged son (who I have always been quite open with regarding sexuality).  Your mileage may vary.

I'm reminded of an episode of "Weeds" where the blossoming young son is throwing his cleanup socks down the toilet so he won't be found out.  Of course the plumber educates the mother (expensively) about why socks are gumming up the works.  The subsequent instructional monolog by the brother-in-law to the son is hilarious - a must see.

I also agree with the OP regarding letting them know there are many ways to accomplish an orgasm.  I think this particular point is why guys have to work so hard to achieve multiple orgasm.  It's different then what they are used to and because they only have the experience of an orgasm as ejaculatory it gets in the way of them experiencing orgasm in other ways.  It's a hurdle, so to speak, to them being able to experience orgasm in other, often mind blowing, ways.

Good post.


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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 6:40:27 AM   
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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 7:20:31 AM   
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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 8:07:48 AM   
Arpig


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Have you ever had a teenage son?



No, but I was one

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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 8:29:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Reminds me of a funny story of my son when he was in that phase of life. My husbands favourite winter scarf kept disappearing. It was super soft and cost him more than a few dollars and he is very much a type A personality. Normally the scarf was ALWAYS put back on the hanger with the coat he bought it to go with.

One morning before leaving I was chasing a cat to make sure it was not going to get locked in a bedroom all day while everyone was at work and school. As I was reaching under my son's bed to grab the cat I noticed my husbands scarf. At first I assumed it was there by accident. Grabbed it, noticed it was rather crusty, assumed that some food something-or-other had been spilled on it and tossed it in the wash.

Time went on and I noticed that this scarf kept showing up in the dirty laundry after the kids cleaned their rooms, it was warm weather. Otherwise my husband would have been bellowing for his scarf. Finally it dawned on me after a sniff test, why a nice warm fuzzy scarf was getting so much.....use. I just washed it again and hid it so that Mr TypeA would not be freaking out when the weather got cold and he wanted his damned scarf. Also, considering that the owner of the scarf is also UBER conservative and uptight, I never did tell him what his scarf had been doing since the last winter. It still makes me laugh everytime I see him put it on.


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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 9:46:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		ok, now say that all your life *as long as you have been masturbating* you have only climaxed through clitoral stimulation, but with a dildo or penis inside of you, it makes your orgasm last longer, but you still can't climax from that alone.  any ideas on how to get over this?

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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 10:35:42 AM   
imtempting


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Status: offline 		I agree with the others and say I dont think teenage boys need to be taught how to masturbate.

Giving your son a box of condoms wil just embarress him.

Remember whatever you tell your son not to do he willl try as he wants to know why not to do it.

If your married then your husband will know everything in his life anyway as males well most will always tell their father the truth while their growing up ( aslong as they have a fairly normal relationship).

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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 11:00:25 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: nightrosemom

ok, now say that all your life *as long as you have been masturbating* you have only climaxed through clitoral stimulation, but with a dildo or penis inside of you, it makes your orgasm last longer, but you still can't climax from that alone.  any ideas on how to get over this?


You may not ever. I know alot of women that are that way. I don't see it as a problem to get over.


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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 11:46:16 AM   
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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 12:06:33 PM   
LongArms


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Status: offline 		Reminds me of a funny story of my son when he was in that phase of life. My husbands favourite winter scarf kept disappearing. It was super soft and cost him more than a few dollars and he is very much a type A personality. Normally the scarf was ALWAYS put back on the hanger with the coat he bought it to go with.

One morning before leaving I was chasing a cat to make sure it was not going to get locked in a bedroom all day while everyone was at work and school. As I was reaching under my son's bed to grab the cat I noticed my husbands scarf. At first I assumed it was there by accident. Grabbed it, noticed it was rather crusty, assumed that some food something-or-other had been spilled on it and tossed it in the wash.

Time went on and I noticed that this scarf kept showing up in the dirty laundry after the kids cleaned their rooms, it was warm weather. Otherwise my husband would have been bellowing for his scarf. Finally it dawned on me after a sniff test, why a nice warm fuzzy scarf was getting so much.....use. I just washed it again and hid it so that Mr TypeA would not be freaking out when the weather got cold and he wanted his damned scarf. Also, considering that the owner of the scarf is also UBER conservative and uptight, I never did tell him what his scarf had been doing since the last winter. It still makes me laugh everytime I see him put it on.

La Tigresse...never doubt your wisdom.  While being a humorous story it also shows your wisdom and caring as a mother.  Sorry all, not an attempt to hijack the thread, just had to throw that in.

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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 12:21:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why thank you Long, I am the oldest of 6 kids with 3 younger brothers. I kinda figured out how really fragile boys that age are emotionally. No need to freak the kid out or embarass him.

I must have done okay as a mom, he is 27 now and a great dad of two little terrors of his own. He really is just an all around super cool young man. I am lucky to have two adult children that I am very close to.

Edited to add.........I also learned to hide the expensive face cream and leave out alot of inexpensive greasy non flowery stuff. I never asked why I often found the big jug of Vaseline in his room when searching for dirty laundry to finish filling the washer.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 10/27/2006 12:25:16 PM >

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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 12:28:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm still not blind and I must have masturbated a zillion times. Am I doing it right or wrong?

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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 12:30:26 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

I'm still not blind and I must have masturbated a zillion times. Am I doing it right or wrong?


Well duhhhhhhh, your using the wrong hand!


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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 12:37:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		That's exactly what my English teacher used to say about my illegible writing. Sssh and I thought she was just picking on me.

OK, porn site, grit teeth and..................................................................................................................
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....................... ah...ah...aah...aaaah....aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

That was so much better.

Anyone got a kleenex?

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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 1:19:57 PM   
LaTigresse


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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 2:03:10 PM   
MizSuz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I must have done okay as a mom, he is 27 now and a great dad of two little terrors of his own. He really is just an all around super cool young man. I am lucky to have two adult children that I am very close to.

Edited to add.........I also learned to hide the expensive face cream and leave out alot of inexpensive greasy non flowery stuff. I never asked why I often found the big jug of Vaseline in his room when searching for dirty laundry to finish filling the washer.


Yeah, I was all over the hiding the good stuff as soon as I figured out where it was going (didn't take long, either).  I kept ecomony size tubes of ky and store brand equivalents conveniently laying around. 

My son is 27 now too.  <smile>  I'm quite proud of him, myself.


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RE: Masturbation - 10/27/2006 2:13:03 PM   
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I'm still not blind and I must have masturbated a zillion times. Am I doing it right or wrong?


Well, there's that time you got caught knocking a quick one out in one of the aisles in Tescos and then there's the time you thought it would be a good idea to squeeze a sly one out in the middle of the premier of the new Texas Chain Saw Massacre. Is that right or wrong? Not sure, it's open to debate, personally I like to call it greed.

And, you're only half way through your life MC so don't count your chickens. If we get a garbled, incoherent message tomorrow then we'll know you've had one wank too many and you've lost the ability to see.



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