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Panties - 10/26/2006 11:47:12 PM   
wearingpanties4U


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Status: offline 		How many Dommes here think putting a man in panties is humiliating?  How much control would you really gain over the sub?
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RE: Panties - 10/27/2006 5:15:22 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		My sub loves to wear panties as he has CD tendancies. Wearing them make him feel very submissive and I have to say in the thong type his ass looks very nice. The very first time I put panties on him I had thought it would be very humilating. He was humilated to a degree but was more turned on then anything else. Since then we've moved onto thigh hi's and garter belts, bras etc. Its all very fun.

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RE: Panties - 10/27/2006 5:25:34 AM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		There is no one answer for this.

It depends on both individuals.
Some men like it, some don't.
Some women like it, some don't.

All it matters is that people figure out what this does for them & when interacting with another, figure out what does what for them & then figure out how to push each other's buttons in order to create these positive triggers. That is where it gets interesting & where effective communication between partners about these tweaks & triggers becomes essential.


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RE: Panties - 10/27/2006 6:12:21 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I don't know how humiliating it is.  It can be a nice reminder but unless you're parading it in front of someone else and the sub is really uncomfortable about it, it's not usually humiliating.  But, it depends on the person just like anything else.  There are those who love it, those who hate it and those in between who can take it or leave it.

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RE: Panties - 10/27/2006 9:04:58 AM   
Amazon201918


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Status: offline 		Like everyone else said, I agree, it depends on the Domme and the sub.  I will add one fun twist - before I give my sub a new pair of panties I use them to wipe myself after I orgasm a few times, that way he doesn't get them "factory fresh" but "Mistress Fresh." 

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RE: Panties - 10/27/2006 11:17:19 PM   
ineedotk


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Status: offline 		You make it sound quite tempting to be under your authority.

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RE: Panties - 10/27/2006 11:19:21 PM   
ineedotk


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Status: offline 		Panties like that are the best kind!

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RE: Panties - 10/29/2006 6:35:57 AM   
submaleslaveuk


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Status: offline 		Not really into cross dressing here so i would definitely find it humiliating, especially as i have a very masculine body so there is no way i could get away with Female clothing like some men!! All adds to the humiliation i suppose!!

take care all

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RE: Panties - 10/29/2006 7:45:13 AM   
sissifytoserve


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Status: offline 		I don't find it humiliating.

I think they are attractive and feel great when on.

Mabye super straight males without a feminized side would find it humiliatingto wear them.

But then again...underwear very close to what panties are are being made for men and they are selling well so...

Hmmmm.

Just something to think about.

i know some women who love JUST panties on their masculine men...just because they love the material and look
on the macho male anatomy....but that is far as it goes.

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RE: Panties - 10/29/2006 7:49:50 AM   
mysteryshopper


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Status: offline 		I've always wanted to try some on...i guess it would be a good excuse. 

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RE: Panties - 10/29/2006 7:54:30 AM   
LAMPedge


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Status: offline 		Fashion is all BS anyway, we are naturally naked. Society heaps artificial constraints on us, what to wear, how to act, what to do to be "normal", and I can only wonder, if a male feels humiliation to wear "women's" clothing in private, how would they feel about it in public? And what about those who prefer to do so?

Also, submaleslaveuk, what about bodybuilders? They have very masculine bodies, but run around in public, on-stage in what to many people would be somewhat feminine attire. I wonder if pretty colours and lace frills would make much of a difference ;)


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RE: Panties - 10/29/2006 7:56:46 AM   
sissifytoserve


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Status: offline 		I always thought this store (for macho males) who want to dabble...rather amusing.


http://www.xdress.com/MA-C?promod=default&cid=C986B.0233&dtind=39019.3721421643

PS..fashion isn't all "bullshit".

Dress and showing off...even makeup has been a part of human culture since the dawn of time.

I find it creative, athstetically pleasing and fun.

My opinion.



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RE: Panties - 10/29/2006 5:32:24 PM   
LadyAlexa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: wearingpanties4U

How many Dommes here think putting a man in panties is humiliating?  How much control would you really gain over the sub?


It varies with the males acceptance.  Some males are very highly resistant to the mere thought of wearing panties, others love them!  If a sub already has panties to wear it usually means they aren't going to be humiliated by wearing them.    The control which is gained is in direct porportion to the submissives feeling of humiliation or submission.  I don't think it's humiliating to have a submissive wear panties......it's a form of submission whereby I am exerting control while not with the submissive.  A continual reminder you might say.   I can think of other ways to humiliate a male submissive.

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RE: Panties - 10/29/2006 5:41:11 PM   
Morrigel


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Status: offline 		I like putting them on a man who has never worn them before and having them on under his normal working clothes--especially if he wears a business suit.  It's fun to pick a pair with a nice distracting feminine texture, silky-satin smooth, to caress him all day long...constantly reminding him that his best parts belong to me. 

--M

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RE: Panties - 10/29/2006 5:51:35 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: wearingpanties4U

How many Dommes here think putting a man in panties is humiliating?  How much control would you really gain over the sub?


My slave always wore panties  They were not frilly, just nice simple smooth satin.  We loved the texture and the feel of them :)  It was not humiliating at all.. Nor did he have a CD fetish. 

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RE: Panties - 10/29/2006 5:54:34 PM   
LotusSong


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RE: Panties - 10/30/2006 10:28:58 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		i will  say as a long time panty wearing submissive . i  ve been humiliated while wearing panties and not humiliated . i love the feel of panties and was triane and made too wear them  wears them 24/7 .  I m a very masculine male not fem looking at all  you never know i was wearing them but i knww wearing them is to remind me that i am submissive too all  Dominants  ..Masters and Mistresses ..

the humiliation can be in many forms from being exposed too others and being in front of them in only your panties and bra and garter and any other things a Mistress may have you in .  my most humiliateing  moment came the day i was too strip and be the only male in panties and bra and garter while all other where dressed both Male and Female   guest  of Mistress enjoyed the teasing and tourmenting me as a sub male in females things

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RE: Panties - 10/30/2006 10:40:10 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Honestly, I think a cock inside of silk lacy undies or a silk lace thong is SO sexy. That's just me but I find it very hot.

Besides to my way of thinking, clothes don't make the person. My sub is just as much as man to me in his french maid outfit as he is in his jeans 'n boots. Only difference is his legs look much nicer in the thigh hi's 

~Lashra


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RE: Panties - 10/30/2006 10:49:13 AM   
DeviantLady


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Status: offline 		I love men in panties and infact is a must with me for play. Something about the straining when he is excited and not really being able to push out. Fabulous.

Just to say that it can be humilating if you focus it that way and do other things to reinforce it. After all panties are just material, its the mental games that make something positive or negative.

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RE: Panties - 10/30/2006 10:51:22 AM   
sublace


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Status: offline 		I'm a sub male that loves to wear panties.  I don't think its too humilating, but if I were caught wearing them in the wrong place it would be.  I guess it just depends on the situation and how the Domme wants to handle things.

sublace

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