DiannaVesta
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Joined: 2/6/2006 From: Mid-Atlantic area Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: tightlockup I'll try to call in if I can. What I mean non-sexual is where a sub serves with no expectation of sexual release for themselves, and possibly no sexual contact with the dominant, unless She desires it. What people call "service" subs. I've always been interested in the idea of self-sacrificing servitude, the idea of serving in an obviously highly sexually arousing situation , knowing that a Mistress would ask me to pleasure Her orally or otherwise while I had no chance of getting the orgasm I know I'd want, forever horny and unrelieved. If the fact that the I was eternally aroused yet chaste gave the Mistress a headspace high, knowing that I was willing to sacrifice orgasm for her pleasure, knowing that She got as many as She wanted in any way She wanted, that would make the situation even more exciting, more torturous and more perfect. Very "Venus in Furs". Sorry for the delay. Busy Goddess here. Ok I thought that is what you meant. Reading your reply gave me a little pang in my thighs because I know exactly the dynamic. The last 6 or more years I’ve really gotten into teasing and denial because I saw the heighten sense of servitude and a man who accepts chastity as part of his service is quite a turn on for me. Not because I don’t want to feel obligated to “get him off” or anything like that but because the headspace is really erotic for me. He accepts his fate and serves simply for the pleasure of serving me. I have a guy now that is strictly online but I enjoy his missions of denial and painful refrain. I love this type of control. I would love to find a service slave that was into chastity. I love the sacrifice and the focus on service. BUT if he gardens, cooks and cleans well then it’s a mega bonus. I’ve been thinking lately of getting a retired live-in slave who had some type of income yet plenty of time to look after me. A ‘service only slave” would be perfect. I look forward to your call.
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