phantom1174
Posts: 3
Joined: 10/26/2006 From: London Status: offline
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Well, almost - I have to get my musical finished first. However, I do live in London, and I am Your basic genius type. So what defines me? Perhaps I am a mass of contradictions (and like Orson Wells, there are those who call me "fatso" for short, which is to say not for long). For instance, I am both a Pagan and a "petrol-head"; I am both highly intelligent and very silly; I am a goth and - well, I am a goth. Having said that, though, I tend to the romantic side of goth - You won't catch me in great big 10ft heeled clod-hopper boots, mostly because it's a long way to fall. I suppose I am a romantic when it comes to bdsm too (and there is, for me, a romantic side to bdsm, believe it or else), because I'm not just in this for me. Yes, I love receiving pleasure as much as the next bloke - or perhaps the Lady after him - but to me, part of the pleasure is the pleasure I give. This is, perhaps, why I call myself a switch, because it's not just swinging the flogger, the cane or the studded belt that gives pleasure - if that was the case, I'd content myself with my pillows - but the other person. And by person, I am not just talking about so much meat, because interaction is the key to everything. Naturally, You say. But I know many people who don't want to talk, and they are quite content to take subs who cannot speak the same language as them. All they want is a tawdry fuck and it's like ships that pass in the night, never to meet each other again. I cannot do that. I meet a Lady, and to me She isn't an object, but a person. And I am very sensitive to people. If I make a connection, then it grieves me when that connection is broken, because the connection is like a bridge; if the bridge is built, then it means there was a congruity on which to build. It's no use building a bridge whose one half is on the south side of the Thames, and whose other is on the south side of the Yangtse. It won't work. There is much more to me than can be summed up in even such a morass of information as this. If, therefore, You wish to know more, I'm at my keyboard...
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