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NewDom97477 -> First Scene (10/27/2006 4:21:21 PM)
So my I am new to the lifestyle. After lots of research & experimanting I feel that I am ready to create My first scene.My partner has been doing to her own homework as a sub aswell. Any advice/ideas for a first scene would be greatly appreciated. NewDom97477

Mercnbeth -> RE: First Scene (10/27/2006 4:29:58 PM)
Work without a script.

Kalira -> RE: First Scene (10/27/2006 4:45:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth Work without a script. I agree. Just go with what feels right and natural . Most important though, have fun. [:)]

theRose4U -> RE: First Scene (10/27/2006 9:48:30 PM)
Rule #1: What works for everyone else won't necessarily work in your relationship or with your partner.

MisPandora -> RE: First Scene (10/28/2006 8:17:30 AM)
Know where the fire escapes are. Do not practice dialing 911 to see if it works. No really........just have fun, eh?

CrappyDom -> RE: First Scene (10/28/2006 8:31:32 AM)
I can see the train wreck comming... First off remember that you are both human, slapping a label on your chest doesn't make you perfect, same goes for her. Shit happens, we make mistakes, try and remember in the end you two love each other. Go slow, try a little spank and tickle, have her meet you naked and kneeling after you have been out for a bit (don't do it after work you are tired and she has had too long to think how perfect it will be). Did I say go slow? Good, then have fun is the next tidbit!

proudsub -> RE: First Scene (10/28/2006 9:19:56 PM)
My suggestion would be to just be sure you take charge from the minute she arrives. When i arrived for my first r/l scene the first thing he did was firmly push me against the wall and kiss me hard, and i loved the way he took control doing that. Then we did some light bondage play.

proto -> RE: First Scene (10/28/2006 9:40:45 PM)
keep your pants on. i was literally trembling during my first(established) session. and neither of us even got nekkid, i didn't even kiss her. the mutual teasing drove us both right over the edge. no, not to orgasm, but to an intensity i have never before known. prepare to see your partner in a whole freaky new light.

desoutter -> RE: First Scene (10/31/2006 1:01:20 PM)
advice? absolutley.... keep it simple... have a good talk before... have a good talk after... be honest and have as much fun as is humanly possible.... Desoutter

crouchingcougar -> RE: First Scene (11/1/2006 2:08:51 PM)
Be safe, be aware, but most of all, be yourself. Then talk. I've found the best part off the first scene is talking afterwards.

shadevarr -> RE: First Scene (11/1/2006 3:20:09 PM)
A couple things that really helped me with my first few scenes. Setting a rough time limit (don't restrict yourself to it because leaving the sub out cold is rarely good) so that you won't get carried away and it also leaves her wanting more. Also, I have found that starting off with bondage and sensual play has gotten good results as a first session with a new sub. All in all, it is the aftercare where a lot of people fumble at the beginning, you need to care for her but also allow her to care for you a bit as well. Doms aren't gods.

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