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CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/27/2006 5:08:47 PM

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Do any of you ladies know what CFNM is? I have been trying to get a girl or a few together in the western Canada area but it is impossible. How can girls be approached to let a naked guy serve them drinks and whatnot? seems it's hard to bring it up and get it to stick. It's really not "femdom" so it doesn't count. As for naked photography I would love a girl to photograph me naked, perhaps use the pics for blackmail..but again it's impossible to get into that!

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/27/2006 5:50:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mysteryshopper

Do any of you ladies know what CFNM is? I have been trying to get a girl or a few together in the western Canada area but it is impossible. How can girls be approached to let a naked guy serve them drinks and whatnot? seems it's hard to bring it up and get it to stick. It's really not "femdom" so it doesn't count. As for naked photography I would love a girl to photograph me naked, perhaps use the pics for blackmail..but again it's impossible to get into that!

If your primary focuz is on serving the Domme.. you have a chance. If it's all about you and making sure your exhibitionim is catered to.. you are just gonna have a rough time.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/27/2006 5:54:00 PM

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Yeah I don't think approaching a Domme with this is your best bet. I have heard of the CFNM thing though, it's pretty hot if I'm getting a lap dance from a man when I'm seated on a couch chilling out clothed. But not exclusively into the whole CFNM.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/27/2006 5:57:54 PM

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Personally I get very irritated very quickly with the guys who want to serve "a whole bunch of women" when they can't serve even one well yet...

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/27/2006 8:24:47 PM

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*chuckles* I'm an erotic photographer, and have taken plenty of photos of naked men. Or men in women's clothing. Or women. Or couples.

As to serving--it was standard for my friend Siren to have her slave serve hors d'oevres and drinks at her private after-party for the Vancouver Rascal's every month. I must say, he looked quite lovely in stockings, garter belt and heels...Really, I think the best way to achieve this fantasy is to be the slave of a mistress who gets along well with other dommes.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/27/2006 8:29:46 PM

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My issue with blackmail has always been the illegality of it, and the posibility that if the sub ever decided he was tired of the game, there was way too much backlash possible.

AS to the CFNM thing, Most of the time, I dont get terribly interested in it, simply becasue the boy involved wants to serve bcasue he want to be naked among women, not becasue he has a real interest in serving me. It is a fetish for some, but it never did much for me. I prefer clothed boys serving to naked ones, anyway.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/27/2006 8:59:51 PM

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Your best bet is to find a Domme to serve- who like to remain clothed while you get naked- then work from there. To start with 'a whole bunch of females" right off the bat is an unattainable expectation. Besides that- HOW do you want to "serve"? Is your servcie going to be centered on your own nudity or being of service to a Femdom?

I enjoy remaining clothed while naked subs tend to me. I have a friend who also enjoys it. But we are very picky about who is allowed to serve us.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/27/2006 10:28:14 PM

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thank you ladies! I do want to serve a femdom but i want my nakedness to emphesize my venerability while she can enhance her own dominance if you know what i mean.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 8:02:46 AM

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How about you start by calling adult females WOMEN or ladies and not "girls."

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 8:38:35 AM

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Yep. That would be a good start. And it would also be wise to recognize that if this ever happens, it will not happen just because you have an exhibitionist fantasy. It will happen because you are the sort of perfectly behaved, extremely well-trained and well-groomed slave that your mistress is proud to show off.

Siren, who does use her boys in this capacity, would never dream of using one who wasn't very pretty, perfectly trained, and perfectly well-mannered. Her goal is to make her guests very comfortable...and to have them admire her taste in boys and her training methods, which are extremely strict. ;)

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 1:54:02 PM

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I will admit that this CFNM is a new on on me.

I have a burning question. "What's the attraction"? I can see where an exhibitioninst would get off on it.. but the CF? Wanna 'esplain it to me Lucy?

At this point, I see it more as a mental dry hump for the guy.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 2:09:52 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

I will admit that this CFNM is a new on on me.

I have a burning question. "What's the attraction"? I can see where an exhibitioninst would get off on it.. but the CF? Wanna 'esplain it to me Lucy?

I like men's bodies. I'm not disgusted by or threatened by them, which is why I enjoying taking photos of them as well as stripping them naked for my pleasure. Many other female dominants feel the same, or at the very least are amused by a little fun humiliation and female supremacy, which is why we don't mind participating in such tea parties.

So far as remaining clothed ourselves, goes--this is a powerful gesture of non-equality with the man, and solidarity with each other. He is nude or clad in lingerie, vulnerable and (in my own personal experiences) serving us; we are fully clothed, at ease, being served, and chatting pleasantly enjoying refreshments.

Stripping people of clothing is a powerful metaphor at any time, which is why so many BDSM games have to do with what someone is wearing, when, and who knows. This is why femme subs are made to go without underwear in public, and why male subs are sometimes made to wear women's underwear with a particularly distracting texture (say, very silky satin) under a business suit at the office.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 2:20:56 PM

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In my past relationship I was a naked houseboy, for lack of a better term, which was a CFNM environment.

But the reality is that although I was naked for 100% of the time indoors (besides collar and chastity device) - 90% of that time I was not in the presence of Mistress since I was busy cleaning her floors and scrubbing her toilets while she was doing things she enjoyed.

She believed that male slaves should be kept naked and in a chastity device but she paid very little attention to me which I fully accepted.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 3:06:33 PM

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Gotcha Morrigel. And thank you for your thoughts :)

But in this instance... do you feel he had no concept of D/s with his desire? For us, it's just a normal thing. I think he'd be disappointed by the lack of the "gasp" factor :)

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 4:08:39 PM

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quote:

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Gotcha Morrigel. And thank you for your thoughts :)

But in this instance... do you feel he had no concept of D/s with his desire? For us, it's just a normal thing. I think he'd be disappointed by the lack of the "gasp" factor :)

I've spoken to the OP privately and he seems very nice and sincere, just very young. He will learn much more as he enters the social scene and gets some real service experience under his belt. But for the record...no, I am fairly certain this fantasy was very service and submission oriented, and not the male exhibitionist "rape" type fantasy where the nudity or the erection is inflicted unexpectedly on a group of women who did not command or wish to experience it.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 4:44:15 PM

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Thank-you Morriegel. On another website, a CFNM-oriented one, a woman (I hope it's a woman) proposed an idea where guy's submit naked photos and see what women say about them. I took a picture and I submitted it (no face...wantt o see how it's going to go though) maybe I'm crazy for doing this. I would never inflict nudity on somebody who did not ask for it. To me, it's more of a clothed woman is more empowered than a naked guy type deal.

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 4:55:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: mysteryshopper

Thank-you Morriegel. On another website, a CFNM-oriented one, a woman (I hope it's a woman) proposed an idea where guy's submit naked photos and see what women say about them. I took a picture and I submitted it (no face...wantt o see how it's going to go though) maybe I'm crazy for doing this. I would never inflict nudity on somebody who did not ask for it. To me, it's more of a clothed woman is more empowered than a naked guy type deal.

You had several of your pictures in your profile a few days ago..what happened to them?

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 5:00:54 PM

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I think you have me mistaken for somebody else. I have never uploaded a picture on this forum...can you describe the pictures you saw?

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 5:58:02 PM

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(What is CFNM?)

(New cable channel?)

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RE: CFNM parties or being photographed naked? - 10/28/2006 6:00:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: mysteryshopper

I think you have me mistaken for somebody else. I have never uploaded a picture on this forum...can you describe the pictures you saw?

Very slender backside shots. One crossing a street..another one of a male standing facing a forest type setting.

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