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positive comment on an earlier thread - 10/28/2006 4:32:50 AM

slavegirl1969

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The earlier question I asked was "how to put feelings into words". One of the suggestions I got was to write what I was feeling in a journal I passed the suggestion to my Master who thought it was an excellent idea (and by the way He's just joined CM - to him, thank you and gawd I do love you MasterofMind1973 lol)

As I type much faster than I write I chose to start a journal on the computer, still not sure that I would be able to open up and say what I was feeling. WRONG..To any newbie out there who is frustrated with not being able to say what they are thinking/feeling etc - this appears to be much easier. I write as though no-one is ever going to see it. Everything I have wanted to say but couldn't is now there. Some of it reads as though I wrote it when drunk but hey ho, its there!! I emailed the first part, all 10 pages of it, to my Master for him to read and he has now stated that whilst he can at any time read my journal it is not a condition that I write it with this in mind, thus freeing me up to write what honestly.

Of course I appreciate it wont work for everyone but this was an absolutely wonderful idea that has worked for me. So thank you to the gorgeous young lady who first suggested it

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RE: positive comment on an earlier thread - 10/28/2006 4:58:42 AM

Kalira

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ORIGINAL: slavegirl1969

The earlier question I asked was "how to put feelings into words". One of the suggestions I got was to write what I was feeling in a journal I passed the suggestion to my Master who thought it was an excellent idea (and by the way He's just joined CM - to him, thank you and gawd I do love you MasterofMind1973 lol)

As I type much faster than I write I chose to start a journal on the computer, still not sure that I would be able to open up and say what I was feeling. WRONG..To any newbie out there who is frustrated with not being able to say what they are thinking/feeling etc - this appears to be much easier. I write as though no-one is ever going to see it. Everything I have wanted to say but couldn't is now there. Some of it reads as though I wrote it when drunk but hey ho, its there!! I emailed the first part, all 10 pages of it, to my Master for him to read and he has now stated that whilst he can at any time read my journal it is not a condition that I write it with this in mind, thus freeing me up to write what honestly.

Of course I appreciate it wont work for everyone but this was an absolutely wonderful idea that has worked for me. So thank you to the gorgeous young lady who first suggested it

Yes, a journal is an excellent idea lol. Its a place where you can write anything that is on your mind, any feeling at the time, any thought, any disappointments, etc; its a place where he can see where your mind is at at any given time. And its a wonderful tool for those who often have a hard time expressing themselves; it opens up communication in so many ways.

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RE: positive comment on an earlier thread - 10/28/2006 8:15:04 AM

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You were sarcastic to me in the other thread but i will let it go for now. Trust me on this when I say if you can write in bigger fonts.

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RE: positive comment on an earlier thread - 10/28/2006 8:22:13 AM

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While the journal (a slave journal, I presume?) is a good idea, it's also a feat to accomplish what's called transparency. You can come to a place in your relationship with the dominant where you are compelled to go to him with thoughts, fears, concerns, failures, etc......and there is no withholding information......and regardless of the potential outcome. The dominant no longer has to keep trying to get the crystal ball out of the repair shop, or continue wondering what you're thinking or holding back, and you free up alot of time expended on typing or writing thoughts out. Ten pages isn't 'just a note' or a 'few minutes' worth of typing!

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