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New Zealand - 1/29/2005 7:36:38 PM

MasterTristan

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greetings all,

I am Tristan, a 38yo dominant male from Dunedin in New Zealand.
I have been a member of collarme for a while now and have watched in interest the site grow as members join.

I have a profile for those who wish to view it so i don't see any point in going into details about what i'm into I grow tired of repeating myself in this aspect.

What bugs me the most is that somepeople just don't get what BDSM is about, there is no stereo types each one is different in themselves, what i do grow tired of and have seen this all over the net is the online "Doms/mme" who firmly beleive that cause a woman is submissive they have to act that way when appraoched online and call them "Sir/Master" or whatever right from the start.. hey its cool if its your thing but wouldn't it hurt just to approach them as people first?? just cause a Dom chooses to call them selves "Sir/Master" isn't going to earn respect nor does it make them a better dominant...

to me BDSm is not a fantasy you turn off each night when you shut the computer down its my way of life and one I chose to be open about this is me accept me for who i am or not at all :)

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RE: New Zealand - 1/29/2005 9:07:45 PM

theroebabe

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Hi Tristan and welcome to the forums at CM!

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ORIGINAL: MasterTristan

SNIP . . . what i do grow tired of and have seen this all over the net is the online "Doms/mme" who firmly beleive that cause a woman is submissive they have to act that way when appraoched online and call them "Sir/Master" or whatever right from the start.. hey its cool if its your thing but wouldn't it hurt just to approach them as people first?? just cause a Dom chooses to call them selves "Sir/Master" isn't going to earn respect nor does it make them a better dominant...

to me BDSm is not a fantasy you turn off each night when you shut the computer down its my way of life and one I chose to be open about this is me accept me for who i am or not at all :)

Ya know i totoally agree with what you have stated above. I personally am submissive to the one i chose to give that to. Not to anyone else, since i am looking for a relationship not a play partner or sometimes thing, to me it is important that the two people mesh in more than play and d/s areas, but in ideals and morals, etc.

Since you have been lurking about i am sure you already know that here on the forums we love to discuss all aspects of life and the lifestyle! So jump on in, the water is fine!

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Roe

People always ask me why I do these things . . .
It's because I can!

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RE: New Zealand - 1/29/2005 9:49:07 PM

rubytuesday

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Joined: 10/22/2004
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Well said Tristan and excuse me if I do call you MasterTristan - it's only becuase its your online name.

Welcome to the boards - its an interesting place and its helped me learn a lot - love your profile and your pic by the way - and its nice to see another kiwi here.

smiles
ruby

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