Totally Opposite?

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willing2serve -> Totally Opposite? (1/29/2005 8:17:37 PM)
In many ways, BDSM is about contrast. Pain and pleasure, for one example. Would you consider Tantra a contrast with BDSM, and would you incorporate it in your relationship? Respectfully, Willing2serve

SirTyson -> RE: Totally Opposite? (1/29/2005 8:26:18 PM)
I have incorporated it in my relationships with subs. I think it is a great way not only to use the sensuality of it all to show my sub how much I care about her, but it can also be a very powerful tool in orgasm denial as well. If you asked people who are vanilla Im sure they would say yes, it's a contrast to BDSM, but since I incorporate it into the lifestyle I dont think it's a contrast.

willing2serve -> RE: Totally Opposite? (1/30/2005 12:03:49 AM)
quote: it can also be a very powerful tool in orgasm denial as well. If you asked people who are vanilla Im sure they would say yes, it's a contrast to BDSM, but since I incorporate it into the lifestyle I dont think it's a contrast. Thank you for this insight, I see this as an enhancement to a relationship as well.

darkinshadows -> RE: Totally Opposite? (1/30/2005 3:37:10 AM)
IMO I do not see Tantra as a contrast, but an enhancement. Its another form of expression and experimentation... for some who cannot live without it another fetish, therefore I would see it as just another branch of the BDSM tree.

match2u -> RE: Totally Opposite? (1/30/2005 7:04:09 AM)
in my little opinion i do not see it as a contrast at all..... i have always seen in that liestyle the freedom to be what i am - the acceptance of myself and other people too. everyone is complex. just for myself - i love to live by seemingly contrasts. as much intense one side - as much intense the other side too intense tender let me endure harschness and vice versa/ not to forgett all what laying in between.... ... but like said just my little opinion - smile - love petra (white scnowflake in the ghetto)

FangsNfeet -> RE: Totally Opposite? (1/30/2005 4:04:10 PM)
Nothing is a contrast for me. No matter what it is, I'll think of a way to incorporate it into BDSM as an enhancement and never a distraction.

MaitresseEden -> RE: Totally Opposite? (1/30/2005 5:14:50 PM)
I have attended several workshops on Tantra, and BDSM. In many cases they go hand in hand. Here is a good website to explore with regards to it. http://spiritualbdsm.com/ Ms. Eden

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