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jaymster -> when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 3:40:37 AM)
was any master or slave confonted by this situation, where the boss at work is the slave....if yes..how did u act... a question for both masters and slaves to add their experiences

imtempting -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 4:52:03 AM)
That is why you should never date someone who works with you. Being that she is the boss id say your best looking for another job. Or get used to being told what to do as work comes first im this situation. As it is she probabley goes easier on you then the others.

submaleslaveuk -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 6:02:14 AM)
i once went out with a Female colleague who worked under me, THAT was tricky enough i can imagine it would be ten times more complicated if You also added a \|Femdom relationship into the mix. i personally think it would be difficult to keep up without letting it interefere with Your working relationship. Although think it is more likely to work if the Domme is also in charge at work as well as home. Take care and just my five pennies worth! submaleslaveuk darren

jaymster -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 6:27:41 AM)
tks for the replies.... i would like to have also the opinion of female slaves or subs Master Jay

imtempting -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 6:44:45 AM)
it does not matter if it comes from a female sub. It is going to be difficult for both parties. As your sub is needing to control you for the sake of the job. Also what work do you do?

Ava82 -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 6:48:47 AM)
Hehe, I think you could turn it around and have fun with it when you get home. I'm a natural leader (outside of the bedroom), and I will ham it up in public so my Dom and I will have more fun when we get home. Dom: "You uppity little slut, bossing me and everyone around! I need to teach you a lesson!" Me: drool Of course, for this to turn out this way, you need fun, flexible people. If the Dom is really uptight about it, he may need to chill out or find another job. There's no reason for the sub to feel guilty; she's earned her way to the top. I look at it as just another hat we all wear; I'm a sister, daughter, dog owner, student, sub, employee, among other things, and I have required ways to act in each of these positions. No disrespect towards the Dom, but it's merely something that has to be.

jaymster -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 7:57:30 AM)
tks ava82.....the only thing is that we were not returning home... we do most of our scenes in the work place....

ayasha -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 8:14:45 AM)
am a slave, and could never be the supervisor or boss of one's Master at work. That is a position one would never put herself in - that just can't work.

Lordandmaster -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 8:43:36 AM)
I don't have a boss at work, so this situation isn't going to happen in my life, but I don't think I'd have a problem with a slave who was my boss. With all the new sexual harassment laws, it's not a bad situation for a male to be in.

jaymster -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 10:12:59 AM)
slave ayasha; tks for reply..... how would u behave if u were in this sitiuation?

jaymster -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 10:15:42 AM)
how u wouldn't have a problem... how would u specifically behave?

jaymster -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 10:18:52 AM)
To All; Just a note that might add info to the discussion....I am a Gorean Master... the position that i am having at work..is very senior...

dcnovice -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 11:26:32 AM)
quote: we do most of our scenes in the work place.... You do?! It must be quite a workplace. Would love to hear more.

angelic -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 11:42:21 AM)
How odd.

KatyLied -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 11:52:42 AM)
Demand a raise!

diamonddreamlove -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 11:57:17 AM)
Would hate being in this situation cause i know whose behind would be well tenderised after 5. LOL ok so i would like it but it also is complicated legally by being sexual harrassment if the relationship should end. She will have a hard time especially if a senior official in the company defending her status and You will have difficulty retaining Yours. Sceneing at the office could be a serious problem also but then lol Sir and i have done that at my office but then i am the owner, it was the weekend and i had locked the place up tight. Oh and He does not work here. I think that both of you are taking serious career chances but that is not my business. I for one would NOT be in this situation to begin with but good luck to both of you.

jaymster -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 11:57:21 AM)
nothing is odd slave angelic...it depends on how u see life

jaymster -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 12:00:39 PM)
dear sub katylied; this would definetly work...but as a gorean master ...i have a very high self-esteemm and i will never take advantage of my slave...

kittensangel -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 12:14:58 PM)
sir i don't see where it could be a proublem, as long both parties are in agreement that what stays at work stays at work and what happens in the relionship at home stays at home. I would hate to see something bad happen to the relaionship with just a bad day at work.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: when the slave is the master's boss (10/29/2006 12:17:27 PM)
I have seen situations like this. I make it a point NEVER to work with someone I am involved with, and never to get involved with someone I work with. I just think it is asking for added stress, not only with having someone who is in your command to have to be put in the position of commanding you at work,but becasue bringing work home with you becomes a lot harder to avoid. A close friend of mine worked under his sub, she was his direct supervisor. They didnt have amany problems, normally, and they kepttheir reationship out of the office as much as possible. However, she always had issues with speaking to him about a course of action if he had done something wrong or innapropriate. She was accused ofplaying favorites, when it was more of the fact that she was woried about coming off poorly to her Master and then dealing with consequences when they gt home afterwards. Eventualy, they just had to ask to be separated. Something I prefer to avoid. Once I move, I had entertained the idea of getting a positon with Angels company, however unless we can assure that there will be little to no contact with one another in theworkplace, I am going to have to refuse it. Too much unnecessary stress, not to mention toomuch time spent together. My 2 cents. DV

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