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Seeking pompoir information - 10/29/2006 10:40:16 AM

jocelyn

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Hello, all -

Master has expressed an interest in furthering my training in pompoir. Simply put, it's the art form of gaining control of the pubococcygeal muscle (shortened to PC) for the purpose of being able to enhance vaginal intercourse. I have found lots of sites that reference the practice (tantric, for example, and my old buds at babeland who are among many who sell exercise tools) but haven't been able to locate anything beyond that. There are also lots of porn sites that claim to demonstrate pompoir, but they are fee sites and look fairly typical for that kind of offering.

He's seen references to sex workers who have achieved amazing levels of control, but I'm not sure how to communicate with anyone with any of that kind of experience. I've hit a plateau, I think, with my exercises, (and yes, he's happy with progress thus far...) but would like to go further.

If anyone could share resources, I'd be grateful.

Thanks!
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RE: Seeking pompoir information - 10/29/2006 1:26:43 PM

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Jocelyn there are devices available that can give you a feedback or reading on the pressure applied when excercising pc muscles... but search incontinence rather than toy websites to find them.

Perhaps it might entertain your dom to add something like this to your training regime? ;)

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RE: Seeking pompoir information - 10/30/2006 9:40:41 PM

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Thanks, Jasmyn - that's a thought. I've used exercises, of course, but never one that measured the strength of my grip.

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RE: Seeking pompoir information - 10/30/2006 10:45:21 PM

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Try looking for sites that discuss KEGEL exercises. It's all over the net because of the issues with female incontinence. That increases the tone of the PC muscles.

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RE: Seeking pompoir information - 10/31/2006 7:02:14 AM

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This is one of those techniques that you just have to either teach yourself or attend a class, problem with high end Tantric classes is you seriously have to be wealthy to afford them. The following describes the concept. When I was younger I dated a very young 17 year old ballerina who had this down cold, it was absolutely amazing.

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Pompoir
Pompoir is the art of “milking” the lingam of your partner. When the PC muscles are in very good shape they have the ability to sort of ripple when they are squeezing. Because there are so many overlapping muscle groups in the pelvis area the now strong muscles can isolate themselves and the owner can operate them in isolation, too. As you get better at your practices, women, you’ll notice how affectively you can isolate those muscles.

This rippling affect also happens during an intense orgasm in a woman. The rippling causes a kind of milking action that starts at one end and moves along the vagina. This then translated to the action being felt by the penis, hence, the milking affect.

The Mare’s Trick
The Mare’s Trick is the ability to hold your lover’s penis inside of you and not let it go. This is best done in one of the positions like The Clasping Position or the Twinning Positions. The woman brings her legs tightly together while also tightening her vaginal muscles. If she is very good at it the blood won’t leak back out of her lover’s penis and he won’t get soft.