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toservez -> RE: heart broken? (10/30/2006 9:14:22 AM)
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I do not know your age and that to me is just one of the factors to offer any advice or opinion. The other thing I would want to know that might coincide with age is, were your parents just against this because it was different or did they have other reasons like maybe you were going to be making very big changes in your life like giving up a career, schooling or something else parents have big issues with.
If the only reason was your parents just not accepting different, then you have to decide what is best for you. If being with a couple makes you the happiest then pursue that, but be prepared to have a strained relationship with your family. Parents are human too. They are wise but also imperfect. In the end you must follow your own path, and hopefully with your parents support from the start or gained through time.
As far as the pain, time does heal most wounds and your happiness and destiny is within you and not others. Allow yourself to be mad and sad but do not let them ever be an excuse for bad decisions and self pity. Deal and get back on the bike. Your life is what you make of it and the older a person gets the less what others think will become less and less powerful.
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