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Owned1 -> What if? (10/30/2006 11:36:13 PM)
For those of us who live 24/7 with all the wonderful distractions, work, beasties, housework, bills and all the trappings of the world of reality if you knew you had 2 days to spend escaping from that reality how would you envision your 2 days/nights. I would love to hear from both sides of the collar, what would you do? It would be in your home, (its cheating to say off to a deserted island with toys and all the trappings). In the space you live now with the toys you have now. Just without the world of reality sneaking in and interferring in your 2 d/n of uninterrupted BDSM, D/s, M/s or whatever your kink is. I look forward to hearing from other kinky minds. Owned

Kalira -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 3:15:56 AM)
I am sorry, but I have no wish to 'escape' from my reality. I find it to be the most fulfilling existance I have had, and will ever live. There is nothing that could be done in 2 days that I can not do on a normal day. [:)]

RedSavageSlave -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 4:40:17 AM)
<laffin> I dont know if I should be really impressed with that answer or feel really sad.. but at the moment I am just flabbergasted <grins>

Kalira -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 4:42:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave <laffin> I dont know if I should be really impressed with that answer or feel really sad.. but at the moment I am just flabbergasted <grins> Why? It happens to be true. There is nothing that I would do differently in two days that I can not do normally. I actually ENJOY my life very much, the ups and the downs; and I see no reason to want to escape from it.

petcerina -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 4:43:30 AM)
i'll escape from reality. i could use a break from homework and worrying about how i'm going to get everything done. An empty house. A time when i can be everything i want to be freely and unbounded by society. i had 3 or 4 days of this, and it was absolutely wonderful. As to what all would go on, that's His decision, but i know that it would be fun.

RedSavageSlave -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 4:46:34 AM)
Oh hey.. it wasnt an attack on your answer.. trust me.. I am in awe that you feel that way.

ExtremeOwnerIL -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 5:53:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Owned1 For those of us who live 24/7 with all the wonderful distractions, work, beasties, housework, bills and all the trappings of the world of reality if you knew you had 2 days to spend escaping from that reality how would you envision your 2 days/nights. I would love to hear from both sides of the collar, what would you do? It would be in your home, (its cheating to say off to a deserted island with toys and all the trappings). In the space you live now with the toys you have now. Just without the world of reality sneaking in and interferring in your 2 d/n of uninterrupted BDSM, D/s, M/s or whatever your kink is. I look forward to hearing from other kinky minds. Owned Empty home? No kids? No 3 mo. old puppy wanting attention? No clients calling? "Sleep." - Picard/Locutus. Oh, and to throw kink into it, the girl will sleep next to me all bound up. (You have to understand how rare 2 days of uninterrupted downtime would be....) Regards, EO

gretchenS -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 6:20:25 AM)
I have to agree with ExtremeOwner. But in my case, I would be the girl bounded up with ropes to the bed... Sounds really nice!

thisishis -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 6:47:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Owned1 For those of us who live 24/7 with all the wonderful distractions, work, beasties, housework, bills and all the trappings of the world of reality if you knew you had 2 days to spend escaping from that reality how would you envision your 2 days/nights. I would love to hear from both sides of the collar, what would you do? It would be in your home, (its cheating to say off to a deserted island with toys and all the trappings). In the space you live now with the toys you have now. Just without the world of reality sneaking in and interferring in your 2 d/n of uninterrupted BDSM, D/s, M/s or whatever your kink is. I look forward to hearing from other kinky minds. Owned That is already reality on a regular basis for He and i. It's not a reality i feel the desire to, or any want of escaping. Our reality is a plus, not a negative in our lives. We enjoy 'alone time' every evening for several hours... and At least two weekends out of each month. The answer to what we would do: That's a pretty personal question to which i am not at liberty to provide intimate detail of, on a public forum. [&:] It varies, and we do anything and everything we can.

mstrjx -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 7:16:43 AM)
But, that IS my reality. I don't have the distractions. Sure, the odd bit of laundry and housework gets accomplished, and the bills get paid. I go to work, but I'm in my own headspace most of the time there. Other than that, I CAN and DO live my 24/7 lifestyle world. Maybe that's because outside infringements aren't permitted. And I believe that would be part of the problem in finding a suitable partner. Most other people can't envision being able to live that life all the time. They have their own distractions. Jeff

LaTigresse -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 7:39:07 AM)
I just cannot imagine what I would do with two days of uninterupted, whatever I want, at home.........

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 7:48:36 AM)
Isn't that called vacations and conventions? I make sure to do those. The last one we took we went to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in Cleveland. The one before that we spent with his friends in Florida and went to Universal Studios and stayed at the Hard Rock Hotel. No bills, no job, no alarm clocks, no phone calls. Just us having a blast together. There was some sex and play involved as well. I haven't been to an extended bdsm convention for a long time due to scheduling and money issues, but I spent the last Leather Retreat swimming in the pool, hanging by the fire, getting dressed up, having a few hot scenes indoors and outdoors and getting pampered.

MsKatHouston -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 7:53:30 AM)
I do get that every so often. I pretty much live those days very similarly to any other day. See, I get a lot of time to get in my play. What I don't get to do as often is some of the more nilla things I want to do like go out to a nice dinner, go see a play, get to a concert. Those are the things I would choose to do with uninterrupted time. Around the house, maybe there's be a bit more high protocol situations and a bit more "me" time.

daddysprop247 -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 9:19:19 AM)
escape? what is there to escape from? bills, housework, unmentionables, pets, jobs, none of these things take away from or are something apart from our M/s relationship. M/s is not a cloak which we can don or shed at will, it IS reality, dirty laundry and traffic jams included. no, life isn't always happy-happy joy-joy, it's not a constant vacation, but that is not my idea of a fulfilling existence anyway. so, i'm fine with my reality, and have no wish to leave it, even for just 48 hrs, thanks. :)

Owned1 -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 3:59:37 PM)
Thanks all for the answers. Let me just say they are interesting. Master and I rarely have uninterrupted time alone in the house. To achieve that more often than not we need to go away to be 100% overtly who we are to each other. Notice I said overtly. As we are M/s 24/7 however one does not kneel naked at the feet of thier owner with kids in the house. They just would not get it, never mind the squeek factor of seeing Mom naked. Play is also something that must be worked into the schedule of the rest of life. At the end of the day often we are tired from battling the world. Play is not as intense as it can and has been at other times. It is a treasure to have time with each other in our own home, with the toys and implements we have. Time to drag out the cross and dust it off finally <huge smile>. Being able to bring out all the kinky stuff and not have to ensure it is put away before morning, being able to make as much noise as He wants, being able to be shackled for the entire time while naked and still be able to serve Him without fear of other eyes. I have no idea what He has in mind, I am sure it is creative and deliciously evil. I simply offered the question to see what others would do with the same advantage. Cheers Owned

Kalira -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 4:11:57 PM)
quote: As we are M/s 24/7 however one does not kneel naked at the feet of thier owner with kids in the house. They just would not get it, never mind the squeek factor of seeing Mom naked. This, I am sorry, but I kind of take offense at it. I raised 4 children...4...in a household that was M/s. You do not need to be naked 24/7 to be a slave.

Owned1 -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 4:49:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kalira quote: As we are M/s 24/7 however one does not kneel naked at the feet of thier owner with kids in the house. They just would not get it, never mind the squeek factor of seeing Mom naked. This, I am sorry, but I kind of take offense at it. I raised 4 children...4...in a household that was M/s. You do not need to be naked 24/7 to be a slave. I have never in any of the posts said you need to be naked 24/7 to be a slave. I have raised a number of children as well and do live 24/7 M/s relationship There are things one would like to do that is not possible with beasties in da house. I am sorry if my thought to ponder offended you. I was simply asking for imput from others as to what thier dream weekend might be if in fact a weekend free of the trappings of the world would be a treat for them. If you have no desire to partake of this thought and discussion please feel free, however please do not read into what I have posed as a question. The fact remains Master and I will be alone in our home for 2 glorious days. This is a treat that does not happen often and we plan on exploiting it for all we can. I am rather excited at the thought of being able to be at his beckon call for 2 days without worrying about anything or anyone else. Perhaps it is a romatic notion, perhaps it is a fantasy, however I have faith that it will be enjoyable for both of us. Owned

Kalira -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 4:52:54 PM)
/raises an eyebrow, bows slightly, and smiles As you wish

Noah -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 7:45:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysprop247 escape? what is there to escape from? bills, housework, unmentionables, pets, jobs, none of these things take away from or are something apart from our M/s relationship. M/s is not a cloak which we can don or shed at will, it IS reality, dirty laundry and traffic jams included. no, life isn't always happy-happy joy-joy, it's not a constant vacation, but that is not my idea of a fulfilling existence anyway. so, i'm fine with my reality, and have no wish to leave it, even for just 48 hrs, thanks. :) She said "wondeful distractions." There is no evidence here that her life is less well integrated than yours. I've never seen anyone more clear on the fact that life is not a constant vacation so I can't imagine why you would take it upon yourself to say something so banal in response. I saw no indication that she idealizes happy-happy joy-joy. She was making conversation along the lines of: "What, to you, would be nice for a change?" What motivated your self-righteous lecture is completely unclear to me.

Noah -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 7:52:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kalira /raises an eyebrow, bows slightly, and smiles As you wish Oh please. /opens mouth, inserts finger deeply, and leaves the rest to your imagination.

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