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RE: Am I too young? - 11/2/2006 5:59:32 PM

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*cough cough* we shall not make mention of attention seeking...

What does it matter if he posts in more than one place looking for different opinions? There are people here who open multiple threads in the same forums about the same subjects. Sometimes, we can keep our snarky comments to ourselfs and just give some constructive opinions. Try it, it might grow on you

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PS your answer to how many people have looked at his profile is probably about as many as have checked yours out to see if you are as standoffish on your profile there as you seem to be on the forums.

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/2/2006 6:04:33 PM

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i would feel like i had to protect you....

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/2/2006 6:55:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaraVictore

European 20 years old citizens are always more erotically mature and refined than American ones.
They
- speak about sexual matters at a younger age ( I did it with documentaries at school before 10!). They sometimes confide to their closest family members about their growing sexuality; which make them more confident (In Paris, the most confident parent pays attention that the descendant is blossoming well in that field; knowing that a sexual trauma can last a life time. It is not only cute, it is part of caring!)
- experience it with minimum risk ( having condoms in the pocket is a normal thing and no teen parents here!)
- live in an environment where violence is not promoted and love is worshiped or at least, never punished; to say the things as they truly are.
I had to re-integrate that in my mind really quick, after living many years in California where I will not touch a 20 year old...
Reading about you, I could tell, you are not a naive novice. All my photos are being rejected too..It is a part time job to find the ugly one that will probably stick.
Good luck.
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Lara Victore, most Europeans would not consider that citizens of the UK share their sexual attitudes. Certainly not the French or Italians.

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/2/2006 8:10:40 PM

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When I was 28, I dated a 38 year old woman. When I was 30, I dated a 40 year old. Both of these womaen taught me a lot. They matured me and showed me what a women needs and expects.They were vanilla except for one, in the end due to my need to sub. the point is, older women are like a fine wine. Nothing taste better than a fine wine. Why don't you try an older pro to see how you feel about an older domme first.

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/2/2006 10:28:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

*cough cough* we shall not make mention of attention seeking...

What does it matter if he posts in more than one place looking for different opinions? There are people here who open multiple threads in the same forums about the same subjects. Sometimes, we can keep our snarky comments to ourselfs and just give some constructive opinions. Try it, it might grow on you

DV

PS your answer to how many people have looked at his profile is probably about as many as have checked yours out to see if you are as standoffish on your profile there as you seem to be on the forums.

cough cough lets ask the whole point off this thread when he could of just searched the mother site..

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/2/2006 10:41:25 PM

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( having condoms in the pocket is a normal thing and no teen parents here!)

No parents period. Europe's birth rate is dismal; about two-thirds of the USA.

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/3/2006 6:05:46 AM

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Most British men (I personally know) are indeed the opposite of what I said, as in every thing there is an exception. The ones (I personally met), have suppressed their sexuality to such incredible lengths that they will actively turn to ANY kink, that intrigues their mind. But the result IS the same as with the other Europeans: an advanced sexual or erotical perception...
By the way, a large 80% of the the submissives or slaves I treated in California until Mid-October, were from the UK, not only as a Dominatrix but also as a Therapist and sometimes both, no pun intended! I left that over because this is not my personal conquest diary but a personal answer to Miller or other Europeans who might face the same age challenge and probably an interesting fact to a reluctant reader. Guess what? My own slave loves the post, thinking about how he had difficulties being taken seriously by Me in the beginning because he is a decade younger...He said: "No, the internet is responsible...but I love it that you take the time to bring positive contribution to this! And that is what everybody is trying to do here...hopefully.
I will just stop this arena in construction here, even if Miller has already decentely thanked everybody and wish you the best.
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RE: Am I too young? - 11/3/2006 2:50:02 PM

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I turned 31 last week and am currently considering a 22 yr old. Glad to hear its not that uncommon.

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/3/2006 8:09:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: imtempting
Well done advertising another board.

Some advertising. Informed Consent is well known - if you google "BDSM UK" it is the first hit.

MillerLite, I agree with the comment that your hair makes you look years younger. If that is not what you are trying for, you might want to lose the bangs.

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/3/2006 8:15:06 PM

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Not at all Sam. Starting someone young has some major advantages. Fewer bad habits picked up from previous partners... more energy (usually) and eagerness to learn new things and occasionally they are willing to admit there is something they dont know.
Older men have their perks, but I always have prefered mine younger.

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/6/2006 2:58:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Not at all Sam. Starting someone young has some major advantages. Fewer bad habits picked up from previous partners... more energy (usually) and eagerness to learn new things and occasionally they are willing to admit there is something they dont know.
Older men have their perks, but I always have prefered mine younger.

DV

DV... I hadnt been looking at it like that, but your theory has been proved correct for sure :)

Said 22 yr old has bountiful energy and is like a sponge - soaked up everything that I said and acted on it. He didnt have to be told or checked about anything twice and was pro-active about all the right things. I can fully understand why you would prefer them to older men.

Oh to be 22 again myself ;-)

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/6/2006 3:19:01 PM

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I think whoever plays with this guy here in the US can expect to meet Chris Hansen in person.

Sorry OP, I'm feeling silly.

Edited to add "here in the US" as the OP is obviously in the UK and at present, there are no plans to export Chris Hansen.

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/7/2006 10:24:39 AM

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Im going to comment here... Since I was once a young male submissive.
When I was 25 I was owned by a 35 year old dominant, and it worked out really well for a long time.
Looking back on it, what I thought I wanted at 25 wasnt really what I wanted because I grew older, wiser and started to understand more what I wanted out of a D/s life... hence the 'journey'.
Neither of us regret the time we spent together.
In short... you're not "too young", you're just at the beginning of a journey, you may find 'the one' right away, you may end up seeing a number of Dominants, you may find that what you want now changes.. or that its absolutely what you want.
The only thing about being young.. you have more time to make mistakes, fine tune and enjoy the changes
in your life. The only reason someone would not want you is a perception that you're not "mature" enough.
Age is not an indicator of maturity.. Maturity is an indicator as to how far along the journey you are.
Hope this helps, good luck, and just enjoy it!

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RE: Am I too young? - 11/7/2006 10:54:40 AM

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My best friend and her husband married when he was 18 and she was 28. so it's not unusal.

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