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mons -> vain (11/2/2006 3:06:35 AM)
greetings this is to jewel85 who was saying how her smal frame and she was vain about it. when you are comfortable with yourself you have no need to show off no matter who you are one if the sexy woman living was marliyn monroe and she was a size 14. when you are proud of what you are it does not matter what size you have become when i was young i was a size 2 i hated it why because i have no breast no ass i was just plain skinny after i had my child i breast fed him and oh boy was i chesty i am proud of my size now i am a domme and this takes more then my body to control anyman i wish to but i do not brag or throw myself at others i am a quite control and know what i want and how to get it. remember this you may hate over weight people whcih is sad they may have problems such as a disease that makes them gain weight learn about these thing before you wasted the time judging other i am glad i am not over weight but i am not under wieght either i like my soft skin my soft body trust me you will be judge also for you thought on being so vain take care and have empthy for others

imtempting -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 3:40:39 AM)
see's this thread ending in the same way as the other vain thread..

gretchenS -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 6:56:11 AM)
I think she's not a member of the website anymore.

Ladyofthemanor -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 7:39:16 AM)
For me, my size is BBW, my Master likes me with hips and ass, yes i have "problem areas" don't we all...but i know after i drop this baby i am to start dieting and exercising to make me look good again. i will always bbw, but i know that how i feel about my body, helps me feel better about myself. slavelilly

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 7:50:29 AM)
This leads people often to thinking that if youa re showing off, it must be because you lack some security. I like showing off in my costumes- it's fun, it's exhibitionism, it's fun for the whole family. Showing off is not a horrible thing. I endorse it fully. We SHOULD be proud and happy to be out in a public space and enjoying the energy it provides. I have lots of personal experience in the DC scene and know firsthand that the majority of the women are very overweight AND that there are some people who are rude beyond belief and WILL try and cut people down for being younger and better looking than they are. It's so funny how (women especially) go on ando n about being PROUD of ourselves and not being doormats...and then the second someone actually makes a step and says "I am hot stuff and I don't like when non-hot stuff people are rude to me" that person gets shot down. Such back stabbers...

daddysprop247 -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 7:55:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross This leads people often to thinking that if youa re showing off, it must be because you lack some security. I like showing off in my costumes- it's fun, it's exhibitionism, it's fun for the whole family. Showing off is not a horrible thing. I endorse it fully. We SHOULD be proud and happy to be out in a public space and enjoying the energy it provides. I have lots of personal experience in the DC scene and know firsthand that the majority of the women are very overweight AND that there are some people who are rude beyond belief and WILL try and cut people down for being younger and better looking than they are. It's so funny how (women especially) go on ando n about being PROUD of ourselves and not being doormats...and then the second someone actually makes a step and says "I am hot stuff and I don't like when non-hot stuff people are rude to me" that person gets shot down. Such back stabbers... yep...and another reason why i've never been able to keep female friends.

juliaoceania -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 8:58:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross This leads people often to thinking that if youa re showing off, it must be because you lack some security. I like showing off in my costumes- it's fun, it's exhibitionism, it's fun for the whole family. Showing off is not a horrible thing. I endorse it fully. We SHOULD be proud and happy to be out in a public space and enjoying the energy it provides. I have lots of personal experience in the DC scene and know firsthand that the majority of the women are very overweight AND that there are some people who are rude beyond belief and WILL try and cut people down for being younger and better looking than they are. It's so funny how (women especially) go on ando n about being PROUD of ourselves and not being doormats...and then the second someone actually makes a step and says "I am hot stuff and I don't like when non-hot stuff people are rude to me" that person gets shot down. Such back stabbers... That happens everywhere to people. It has happened to me when I was younger, it is just a thing that women do to each other, and they do it in other cultures than this one. The thing is that this jewel person posted that she thought fat people were disgusting. That is her right to believe that, but people that are fat have the right to call her anything they would like and be disgusted by her in their turn. I thought she was a little bit pot calling the kettle black to be honest. Whining about being judged and then judging other people... but that was just my opinion. If this happens to me in the scene because I am not a BBW , well I do not think I would care. I do what I do to please me and mine, no one else. I certainly would not be disgusted by others around me.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 9:20:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania The thing is that this jewel person posted that she thought fat people were disgusting. That is her right to believe that, but people that are fat have the right to call her anything they would like and be disgusted by her in their turn. I thought she was a little bit pot calling the kettle black to be honest. Whining about being judged and then judging other people... but that was just my opinion. If this happens to me in the scene because I am not a BBW , well I do not think I would care. I do what I do to please me and mine, no one else. I certainly would not be disgusted by others around me. I think there's a difference between judging someone and then publically stating that judgement. I might think someone is the rudest, most disgusting thing I've ever known- but you'd never know it because of my cordial and sweet manner towards them. Someone has the right to consider me ugly- but it's still horrendous of them to SAY it to me in a public place. I don't know for sure if Jewel stated her beliefs publically to any particular person, but that doesn't excuse the rude behavior on the parts of others. As I said in my first reply to her- if she really IS a nice person with a good personality, then she'll soon be done with the rudeness and find a good circle of friends in the area.

Ava82 -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 9:22:33 AM)
A lot of women can regard other women as "competition". We study our mates, looking to see if they are checking her out. We can feel threatened. So we put people down and act bitchy. I love other women. I never get tired of new female friends. So even if I feel threatened by someone-I still try to make friends, hoping that even if my partner wanted to stray, she would not go along for the sake of our friendship.

juliaoceania -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 10:36:50 AM)
quote: think there's a difference between judging someone and then publically stating that judgement. I might think someone is the rudest, most disgusting thing I've ever known- but you'd never know it because of my cordial and sweet manner towards them. Someone has the right to consider me ugly- but it's still horrendous of them to SAY it to me in a public place. I don't know for sure if Jewel stated her beliefs publically to any particular person, but that doesn't excuse the rude behavior on the parts of others. As I said in my first reply to her- if she really IS a nice person with a good personality, then she'll soon be done with the rudeness and find a good circle of friends in the area. I absolutely agree with you. I have been on the receiving end of bitchy and catty behavior and it is not very fun. I do not think I have ever been verbally attacked because of my dress, or accused of thinking I was better than others. There have been women that after they got to know me found out I was just as vulnerable and insecure about my looks as they were theirs and had assumed things about me that were not true. Women can be each other's own worse enemies. I am really not a threat to anyone...lol. But I will say that there are certain women that get much pleasure out of believing they are hot shit compared to others. This behavior screams out, "I am hotter than you" instead of "I am hot". The behavior has a totally different energy to it. I believe personally that the person that has to compare themselves to others for "hotness" is deeply insecure, perhaps more so than the people they compare themselves to

shadevarr -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 2:12:26 PM)
It is that superiority complex that originally attracted me to BBWs in the first place, then I learned about everything else they have to love. It is ok to feel good about your looks, it is another to degrade someone because they aren't as good looking as you.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 7:38:15 PM)
IMO, my harshest judge is in the mirror, whatever anyone else has to say about me is mild to what I put myself through....[8D]...Tempting

imtempting -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 10:40:06 PM)
I agree with ladyalbatross. It is also the rude people that normally speak first. Eg. Alot of movies have the bitchy pretty gals teasing the ugly gal who ends up becoming the school hottie. Well in this case its the obese people who tease the skinny people who end up either getting very defensive ( i.e bitchy ) or depressed and not return or become depressed and binge eat to be like them..

Arpig -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 10:47:33 PM)
You know, reading through this, I am so very glad I am a man right now (scrathes belly and walks past the mirror without even glancing at it)

juliaoceania -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 10:56:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting I agree with ladyalbatross. It is also the rude people that normally speak first. Eg. Alot of movies have the bitchy pretty gals teasing the ugly gal who ends up becoming the school hottie. Well in this case its the obese people who tease the skinny people who end up either getting very defensive ( i.e bitchy ) or depressed and not return or become depressed and binge eat to be like them.. I would ask you what you know about the dynamics of female friendships and behavior in regard to weight loss and gain? Have you ever been a woman? Have you ever binge eaten? I do not think that women being catty has anything to do with unhealthy relationships with food. I think you are basically making crap up in your head to bash fat women.. for what reason I have no clue, but seeng you are making all these wild assumptions about why women eat too much and how other fat women are to blame for this, I have to wonder where you get your information?

Arpig -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 11:05:20 PM)
Oh come on julia, he states quite clearly where he gets his info: quote: Alot of movies And with an unimpeachable source like that, the rest of us will just have to overlook our actual experiences[;)]

juliaoceania -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 11:11:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig Oh come on julia, he states quite clearly where he gets his info: quote: Alot of movies And with an unimpeachable source like that, the rest of us will just have to overlook our actual experiences[;)] Who am I to argue with Hollywood? Everyone knows the male producers that make movies know more about being a woman then I ever will[:D]

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 11:22:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig You know, reading through this, I am so very glad I am a man right now (scrathes belly and walks past the mirror without even glancing at it) LOL, You men have it too easy I tell yah! [:'(] M

Mikal -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 11:33:47 PM)
One of my mottos (I have a few of them [:D]) is: If you got it, flaunt it. If you don't got it, flaunt it anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and varies from person to person. Also, fat (or lack thereof) doesn't make a person "hot". Their attitude does. And humid weather. [8D]

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: vain (11/2/2006 11:37:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mikal Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and varies from person to person. Also, fat (or lack thereof) doesn't make a person "hot". Their attitude does. And humid weather. [8D] I agree. In new england, I'm praying for some warm/humid weather these days, and not looking forward to the freezing cold and gas bills. M

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