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but I've got snow that's staying put *sobs*

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: imtempting

I agree with ladyalbatross.

It is also the rude people that normally speak first. Eg. Alot of movies have the bitchy pretty gals teasing the ugly gal who ends up becoming the school hottie. Well in this case its the obese people who tease the skinny people who end up either getting very defensive ( i.e bitchy ) or depressed and not return or become depressed and binge eat to be like them..

I would ask you what you know about the dynamics of female friendships and behavior in regard to weight loss and gain? Have you ever been a woman? Have you ever binge eaten? I do not think that women being catty has anything to do with unhealthy relationships with food.

I think you are basically making crap up in your head to bash fat women.. for what reason I have no clue, but seeng you are making all these wild assumptions about why women eat too much and how other fat women are to blame for this, I have to wonder where you get your information?

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ORIGINAL: Arpig
Still got grass up here...nya-nya

Sorry folks, its a Canadian thing

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That’s right I know nothing. I just like to tease the obese people. I'm guessing by you and others thoughts I am someone who has never been teased and look hot. (I have not said im pretty, others have).

Well let’s say I was teased though most of primary school and allot of high school. Over speech impediment. So try going to school for over 12 years getting someone teasing you every 2nd day.

Then also try being very skinny on top of it and not being able to fight back. Also getting teased about being skinny, being called anorexic by everyone. I went to sort of like counselling but not. Where you talk about weight etc etc. That’s where I got all this information from. Once a month for twelve years you do learn something...

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I cannot for the life of me figure out why someone who had been ridiculed would turn around and do it to others... but that is your thing, and I am very doubtful I can change your mind about your belief structure... so Im done trying. If you like who you are, good for you.

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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That’s right I know nothing. I just like to tease the obese people. I'm guessing by you and others thoughts I am someone who has never been teased and look hot. (I have not said im pretty, others have).

Well let’s say I was teased though most of primary school and allot of high school. Over speech impediment. So try going to school for over 12 years getting someone teasing you every 2nd day.

Then also try being very skinny on top of it and not being able to fight back. Also getting teased about being skinny, being called anorexic by everyone. I went to sort of like counselling but not. Where you talk about weight etc etc. That’s where I got all this information from. Once a month for twelve years you do learn something...

Being a girl is different than being a boy, I do not know many girls that are teased by other girls about being skinny in this country, not saying it does not happen, but what I am saying is that I am pretty darn sure it does not happen as much as obese girls being teased. I would also say that you are in another country (unless you are misrepresenting on your profile) , and are a different gender... so no you do not know what it is to be a young American woman who is skinny or fat. Men are picked on for being skinny more than women are

I am sorry you were teased, so was I because I had crooked teeth and my family was poor. I have a list of other things that I was picked on about, but those were the two top things. I think it is our submissive nature that made us the target, not our physical defects, but that is another thread.

I cannot for the life of me figure out why someone who had been ridiculed would turn around and do it to others... but that is your thing, and I am very doubtful I can change your mind about your belief structure... so Im done trying. If you like who you are, good for you.

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ORIGINAL: demistress

A few months back, I was hosting a party, and this new young girl was brought into the mix.  It was 3 guys, 3 girls, and we had all been with each other, except the new girl.  She was a hot thin young thing, gorgeous, sweet.  She was also very naive.  The long and the short of it is, after she saw the dungeon, and got comfortable, she asked if we could dress up for the boys.  We were like hell yea, lets all do it!  So the three of us girls went upstairs, and started getting dressed up.  I put on my favorite domme outfit, my best girlfriend put on her cute white sexy outfit, and we fished out a school girl outfit for the new chick.  The whole time we were all having a great time laughing, and such.  We were praising and appreciating her legs and ass, and she was complimenting our racks, and she suddenly got this puzzled look on her face.  I asked her what was wrong.  She replied "I've never had women be nice to me when dressing up for our men before, they're always putting me down for having small breasts, and bony shoulders".  My g/f and I looked at each other, then looked at her and said "yeah, well all you'll get here is appreciation for what you bring to the table, as long as you're happy and willing to show it off for everyone".  She grinned, we grinned, and we all went downstairs to "unveil" the new girl LOL.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

It's so funny how (women especially) go on ando n about being PROUD of ourselves and not being doormats...and then the second someone actually makes a step and says "I am hot stuff and I don't like when non-hot stuff people are rude to me" that person gets shot down.  Such back stabbers...

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I have said what al the health professionals are saying. [Obesity is] due to laziness for the majority. That is not teasing, that is stateing facts.