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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 12:59:31 PM

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Finally,she found, a Man that says what He means and Does what He says.....

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 2:10:24 PM

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The second I laid eyes upon him.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 3:11:13 PM

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I don't know about The One, but with the last one, I knew when he showed up at the hotel room with his fly open. I can still remember the look on his face when he relized it. It was only the second time we met, but in that moment I knew he was perfect. :)

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 3:11:53 PM

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I don't know about The One, but with the last one, I knew when he showed up at the hotel room with his fly open. I can still remember the look on his face when he relized it. It was only the second time we met, but in that moment I knew he was perfect. :)

LMAO that is just priceless

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 3:18:09 PM

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Oh gypsiegrl tou sweet little thing...

I'm a man and I know that he DIDN'T not know his fly was undone lmao

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 6:05:22 PM

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Aileen68....

I love you - marry me! lol

Ummm... No.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 9:58:34 PM

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That's taking "Number One" a bit too literally, sweetheart.

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He pissed on me?

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/4/2006 5:44:00 AM

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That's taking "Number One" a bit too literally, sweetheart.

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He pissed on me?

Yeah well I'm a literal type of gal.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/7/2006 2:13:41 AM

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I couldn't tell you if I knew...all I know is he is...I feel it all the time...when he holds me...or when we make love and he's looking directly into my eyes...or when we are laughing so hard we almost pee our pants...

but I will say that when I first saw him...something happened to me. when he put his arms around me I was home...

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/7/2006 3:50:06 AM

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The first time i realised Sir was the one for me, we were talking on the phone the same day we had actually started talking online, and we were discussing sexual fantasies, and it moved onto rape fantasies, i said that i had rape fantasies, and he came out with, 'oh yeah id rape you... omg that sounded so bad didnt it?' I just lay on the lounge peeing myself with laughter. I felt so comfortable with him, able to open up about all the weird stuff in my head, and he matches me. We didnt actually meet for over a year, when we did, and he stayed for a week, every night when we made love we had candles lit, then the last night, i forgot to light the candles, i said that i should have lit them so we could see each others face. he told me he didnt need candles to see my face it was engraved on his heart. i love my less then perfect Sir.
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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/7/2006 6:01:26 AM

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when u start miss the other party present and u hoping to see her n him always ................n u can see what difference on him/hers ....following heart bit faster ...and when had a conversation between you both u feel blusher .... cant move ur eye on her /his ...............

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/7/2006 6:37:51 AM

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He had me at Hello c***

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/7/2006 9:44:50 AM

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He lit candles, put on "Have you ever really loved a woman" and slowed danced with me in his bedroom. I felt like I was three feet off the ground.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/7/2006 11:02:00 AM

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I don't know if there was any particular moment, there were lots of moments when something kinda slotted into place and fitted, I recognised something in him .....3 and a half years down the track, those moments are still happening.....

Sharing one moment....

We were standing on a hill overlooking a valley, Master was talking to a small group of people about meditation and connecting with nature, it wasn't actually what he was talking about ....but the place where it was coming from inside him....it made me smile inside and it met with something inside me....soI guess in that moment, I wasnt seeing him as "The one" but that "we were one".....something like that.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/8/2006 8:57:35 PM

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I actually knew before I met him ... it was a Strange Sixth Sense thing. When we first met I thought ... well, maybe ... BUT I felt/sensed ... this is Him. A year later ... we are still going strong.

I believe it's very difficult for most people to quiet themselves enough to listen accurately to their intuition. I lucked out - I just happened to be at a point where that was happening (versus trying to make what I wanted happen/seeing things that I wished were there. Or on the flip side, denying possibilities because of prerequisites.)

I think the best way to decide if something is right is to determine:

Is there a nagging feeling? Is the nagging feeling because you're conditioned to want something else, Or because what you truely need is missing?
Is there a sense of euphoria? Is is because you want this to happen? Or because it's right for you?

I'm under the impression now that when it's right ... there's no extreme emotion (good or bad) ... it's calm and positive (overall).

Edited to add: The moment I realized he likes holding hands as much as I do

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/11/2006 6:10:58 PM

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Master and i met online, and on discussion W/we made it clear what W/we wanted before W/we even decided to go any further or that W/we were "the One".
if W/we weren't prepared to commit to both our ideals then W/we didnt see it worthwile continueing...
it was then His commitment, which matched mine, that let me know He was the right One for me.
there was no bullshite, just honnesty from the get go.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/11/2006 7:28:35 PM

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I thought I knew but wasn't sure...I still doubted myself...until we made eye contact. The very second our eyes met, I was his. And then he spent the rest of the night claiming his property.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/11/2006 7:42:48 PM

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I had certain feelings right from the beginning, even when He was only a mentor to me. I knew He was and would be a very special person in my life. I didn't know just how special He would become till the first time i knelt in front of Him and felt such a sense of relief. Like my heart and mind knew i had found my place.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/11/2006 7:44:11 PM

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Like my heart and mind knew i had found my place.

You said it perfectly. I felt like I had finally found home.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/11/2006 7:58:12 PM

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Master and I met on collarme.com and then after hours of chatting both online and on the phone we met up the next day in the city. From the phone calls we knew we had a lot in common both in a BDSM sense and in a normal vanilla sense and from phone calls alone I knew that he could possible be the one. When we met in person the first thing he said to was your late (I wasn't) ... he was testing to see what sort of response he would get, if I would get angry or what instead I laughed and we started debating if I was or wasn't late right down to calling the talking clock (I wasn't but we decided to go by his watch) That meeting was a vannila get to know you kind of meeting and we just clicked. I knew from the moment that he said your late that he could be the one, I knew two days later that he was the one when I had gone back to his place while a storm raged outside (I am terrified of storms) I was kneeling and he just gently stroked me and held me when ever there was a loud thunder clap. As the months have gone on I have fallen in love with him and him with me. On the 20th of this month we celbrate our first anniversery and we are still going strong.

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