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Littlepita -> RE: when is Spanking not (11/3/2006 4:53:49 PM)

OK, now I want a spanking......or paddling............or beating....... just turn my ass red!!!




gypsygrl -> RE: when is Spanking not (11/3/2006 5:06:06 PM)

If the issue of spanking were raised in a scene negotion, I would assume they were talking about open handed swats on the butt, with or without a glove and would most likely assent. 

If the issue of beating were raised in a scene negotiation, I'd assume that they were talking about taking me in the back alley to kick me in the gut a few times then steal my purse and would quietly find the nearest exit.




TemptingNviceSub -> RE: when is Spanking not (11/3/2006 6:42:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

As usual this is from another post. My question is When is spanking actualy a spanking? Useing a hand or a paddle is my ideal of a Spanking. Useing anything else is a beating.
...It is what you say it is...Tempting




MagiksSlave -> RE: when is Spanking not (11/4/2006 12:08:49 AM)

If i wana call being strung up by my toes and tickled a spanking (and I dont) why would that be any skin off your nose Sir??

Magik's slave




Lordandmaster -> RE: when is Spanking not (11/4/2006 12:13:05 AM)

Well, it might be skin off your toes.




IndigoMouse -> RE: when is Spanking not (11/4/2006 11:57:33 AM)

we use spanking with an open hand, beating with a belt, caning with a crop...





LadyHugs -> RE: when is Spanking not (11/4/2006 12:16:31 PM)

Dear Dnomyar, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
In my mind's eye and personal experiences and or observations; spanking has been done with the hand, to which there are different strokes styles with the hand.  From skip strokes to wet leather gloved hand, the manipulation of the fingers and the suppleness of hand, palm and wrist to rigid; offers approximately 12 sensations.
 
The only experience, observation and historical references towards spanking with an object in the person's hand, was limited to a slipper's sole, a hair brush and or a flat sided ruler.  This reference, was made in the A. Sutherland Society, which patterened their society under the English Governess style of domination.  And, the period was around the Victorian era to the 1950's period.  It should be further mentioned that Governess was different from a Nanny.  But, both instilled 'discipline' and 'manners' to their charges.
 
As discipline/punishment was dispensed with in caning; it was usually a cane made from Birch (wood).  The term "To be Birched" was to say to be caned.
 
[Note: Taming the Household Beast by Miss Autumn Rose Taylor, autographed and penned to me, is now in possession of the Leather Archives and presented to Vi Johnson in July 2005, along with a photograph of an English disciplinary cane held by a distant relative, circa 1896Louis N. Greening Photograph Studio, Phil. PA.]

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs




kiltedBehemoth -> RE: when is Spanking not (3/7/2007 7:11:11 AM)

. . . .      a Spanking umm. maybe I,m a purist cheeks/thighs/breasts/face even pudendum. You need bare skin to bare skin . . even using gloves is cheating . . how do you properly judge the force used otherwise . . and feel the trembling of the flesh under hand?
Using an instrument is flogging, being "slippered" caning etc. though generally I would use spanking to "warm" them up . . .if the cheeks are not rosie then they will not feel anything harder properly! 
Plus I see no differentiation between spank "play" or punishment . .it,s still spanking wether they get release or not.




ExSteelAgain -> RE: when is Spanking not (3/7/2007 10:51:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

And the quest for perfect terminology goes on.......


Ha, I like that. It fits so many threads. Definitions, protocols and labeling are being done by this bespectacled BDSM librarian somewhere in the hinterland who tells you to hush when you walk in. Folks, there ain't any secrets. Use your brain, treat people right, expect good treatment and stay away from bad things.




daddysprop247 -> RE: when is Spanking not (3/7/2007 11:17:28 AM)

to me a spanking means a series of open-handed strikes by hand to someone's bottom. anything else is well....something else. :)




StellaByStarlite -> RE: when is Spanking not (3/7/2007 12:22:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

And the quest for perfect terminology goes on.......


LOL! Darn right. =)

My owner calls it all one thing... "A beatin' "  When he tells me to get ready for a beatin', I honestly don't know what I'm going to have striking my rosy red booty. =) It puts a real element of surprise to things, heheh

Cheers,
Stella




hereyesruponyou -> RE: when is Spanking not (3/7/2007 12:28:52 PM)

So is using a hairbrush....Brushing???  How about using a sandal? Sandaling?  Have been asked to SPANK someone with both......  I think spanking is in the eye of the spanker and spankee (as opposed to spankies, which are what cheerleaders wear under their skirts)......then again boys can spank their monkeys.....

Beating does sound a bit more back alley and abusive to me..... I'll stick with biting if that's ok




scottjk -> RE: when is Spanking not (3/7/2007 12:58:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

And the quest for perfect terminology goes on.......


Ha, I like that. It fits so many threads. Definitions, protocols and labeling are being done by this bespectacled BDSM librarian somewhere in the hinterland who tells you to hush when you walk in. Folks, there ain't any secrets. Use your brain, treat people right, expect good treatment and stay away from bad things.


Hmmm, perhaps we could set up a wikipedia site for BDSM? A section could involve terminology.





kiltedBehemoth -> RE: when is Spanking not (3/7/2007 11:27:52 PM)

Thanks hereyesruponyou . ."brushing" and "sandaling" . . .like it! . . .

you have given me one or two interesting ideas! . . .toodles

. . (.now where the hell did i put those flip-flops)




grlneedstolearn -> RE: when is Spanking not (3/8/2007 1:08:30 AM)

i tend to define it anything that hits my rear and leaves red marks. Rather it be his hand, a paddle, crop, cane, whip, etc




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