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dcnovice -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/10/2006 7:10:42 PM)

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some ladies like me; have a slight displeasure in being addressed as "Mistress" due to the more modern ties to being the 'other woman' who causes a rift in a husband/wife relationship.  Just as Madam would be a distasteful title, due to the prostitutional link. 


"One wonders why professionally useful female titles always seem to pick up dirty connotations."

-- Judith Martin (aka Miss Manners)
Common Courtesy




dcnovice -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/10/2006 7:19:50 PM)

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've achieved complete mastery over my kitty.


You may be the first person in human history to have pulled that off!




LadyHugs -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/10/2006 7:29:12 PM)

Dear dcnovice, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Seemingly, through civilization and history, there are those who will make class divisions.  Sometimes, the best explainations can be through history and religion.  Sometimes, the economical sector created class division.
 
It is society, civilization, religion and laws made by humans which twist things into shapes beyond their original intent.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs




Morrigel -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/10/2006 7:58:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Another
Why would a self proclaimed Domme answer in a section called, "Ask a Master" ?  Isn't this a section for MEN and slaves/subs?


Probably for the same reason that a self-proclaimed Master would answer or participate in a section called "Ask a Mistress", which is a section for WOMEN and slave/subs.

Because she wants to, and she is free to do as she chooses.  Not every woman is a "kajira".  Get used to it. 

--M 




BORAT -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/10/2006 7:59:56 PM)

What is mean this word kajira?




mnottertail -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/10/2006 8:24:12 PM)

Number 4 prostitute in all of Gor.




kc692 -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/10/2006 8:58:04 PM)

RFL, the last two comments are too funny!!!!! You almost made me lose this puter too Ron, by making me sputter on this screen.  Ya know, the last place you made the suggestions about how to get a new computer were wiped when the thread dissapeared, I hate LAM didn't get to see it, I never got to see a comment from him on it!! I have had some very kind people offer from here to help me get the laptop up and running again. If I lose this one too right now, I wouldn't be able to read the threads!!




BootBlackBlast -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/11/2006 5:06:42 AM)

As a born female, female identified bisexual switch, I have been called by many titles. When topping to my primary partner I am Sir and refer to her as little girl, mostly because she is 20 years my elder and Daddy didn't feel right, we liked Goddess but that is my term when submitting to her and she calls me her little bootblackk. The Old Guard Leather gay boys call me by my nickname Blast or Daddy. To my little sissy boy sub, I am Lady Blast or Ma'am. Mistress has the connotation of being dirty or the "other woman" and I don't really like that. Madame was just too old and fuddy duddy. We actually go through scenes or lay in bed together saying different ones to see which ones stick and these are the ones that did. When my sissy boy sub becomes my collared slave he will call me Master.

But as far as women posting the the "Ask a Master" must one be GOREAN to post on the GOREAN board?




RedSavageSlave -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/11/2006 5:26:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BootBlackBlast

But as far as women posting the the "Ask a Master" must one be GOREAN to post on the GOREAN board?


No... but it is highly recommended LOL




mnottertail -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/11/2006 6:30:43 AM)

Ja, some of my best shit has been disappearing lately, and even a post that I posted in all seriousness that had a couple women writhing in squirting orgasms...........

Tough crowd out here lately.

Ron




ImpGrrl -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/11/2006 12:35:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Nigousan
Well, some want to become men, as they feel that they were "wrongfully" birthed as a female.
They usually are classified as "Transvestites", as they cross-dress and do all the necessary things it'd take to be a man (without the plumbing).


Just a correction - "Transvestites" are those who dress as the opposite sex because it gives them some sort of thrill - sexual or otherwise.  "Transgender" are those who identify with/as and may or may not want to actually *become* the "opposite" sex, and "Transsexual" are those who identify as and *definitely* want to become the "opposite" sex, whether or not they have the surgeries necessary to make it physically so.

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So most of these women, feel they are men, and classify themselves as such.
Hence why they'd call themselves a Master or Daddy.


Not necessarily.  There is a difference, in gender-aware communities, between "Male/Female" and "Masculine/Feminine".  Male/Female is the sex, and is largely informed by physical things - chromosomes, primary and secondary sex characteristics, etc.    Masculine/Feminine is the gender/gender expression, and is about social things - identity, behaviors, etc.





ImpGrrl -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/11/2006 12:51:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: orfunboi

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ORIGINAL: Nigousan

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ORIGINAL: Archer

Now just as an exercise in stretching the idea to it's limits. (I love doing this) lets see for the forums we will need a few more catagories.

Ask the Male Dominant
Ask the Female Dominant
Ask the Master
Ask the Mistress
Ask the male slave
Ask the female slave
Ask the male submissive
Ask the female submissive
Ask the Gorean Master
Ask the Gorean Mistress
Ask the Leather Master
Ask the Leather Mistress
Tell the gorean slave, (LOL had to make the one jab all in good fun)

The message overall is if we split them all out into their seperate sections some folks would be really happy that they could then just gather the information most directly related to their view. But if you look at reality, how much information and how many ideas have already crossed the boundries to be used by those in other styles/ formats? Tons of it. I know many a Leather Master who read the Gorean books back when they first came out and found things, ideas etc, that they have canabalized and redressed as Leather. Funny thing is I have always wondered at the fact that so many Leather customs of the Old Guard were reflected in the Gorean books to begin with. Which came first the ishan or the egg.


You forgot the male and female switches and the men and women looking for rough sex ;)

---

As for the topic on hand:

If we feel the need to contribute our opinions, thoughts, and stories to a thread, we'll post there.
I don't need someone telling me that I can't post here because I happen to have a vagina.
So what?
If I have something to add, I'll add it.


Yea and boi's....everyone is always forgetting bout da bois...


Well then you'd have to include the grrls....




dcnovice -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/11/2006 6:37:38 PM)

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Ask the Male Dominant
Ask the Female Dominant
Ask the Master
Ask the Mistress
Ask the male slave
Ask the female slave
Ask the male submissive
Ask the female submissive
Ask the Gorean Master
Ask the Gorean Mistress
Ask the Leather Master
Ask the Leather Mistress
Tell the gorean slave, (LOL had to make the one jab all in good fun)


Of course, you'd need to divide each of these categories into five: straight, gay male, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered.

And don't forget the switches!

[sm=biggrin.gif]




Lordandmaster -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/11/2006 8:14:56 PM)

So you mean my sister is kajira.  I'm understand.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Number 4 prostitute in all of Gor.




xBullx -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/12/2006 7:23:08 AM)

Greetings again,

To those that sincerely answered with constructive answers, thanks. To those that are way to self absorbed to look beyond petty bickering, thanks as well, I now have a better idea on who to take serious. I can't speak for the context of OP's initial intent. I will say I thought she meant why would a Female answer a question that another individual directed at a Man. I didn't however realize the different ways that the term master was used in other communities. Several did take the time to point that out though, again, thanks. It helped clarify some things for me. As for the insults that I have received throughout this thread, if you intended to hurt my feelings, sorry to disappoint you. I find your attacts on my character laughable and I assure you that if you stood face to face with me your attitude would be much more refined. But, judging by your behavior in this thread, I doubt you will have any idea what I am even talking about. You can however, takes this thought with you to bed this evening." When you are confronted with a challange presented by another person, in that challange you find yourself with a feeling of superiority and you wish to spew fical matter in their direction, imagiine this. With this person you find both yourself and this person naked, locked in a room, no weapons, no tools, no laws. You can be all the silly little cookie monsters and sub coddlers you want, make fun of what you will, but you are being judged the same as you sit and judge. Your credibility is equally at stake. I have not responded to any posts until now do to the fact I have been away we shall say. I have no idea why the Gorean woman has not, but I would assume it's do to the way many of these responses were directed to childish banter versus intelligent discourse. Though there are some outstanding individual responses within.

I wish most of you well, others I wish a true Master, you need it, (is it gender free enough)

Bull




caitlyn -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/12/2006 7:54:57 AM)

I respond the treads, not to sections. If there is a thread I want to respond to, I don't care if it's in the "Ask a Yellow Dinosaur" section.




kc692 -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/12/2006 11:13:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: xBullx

Greetings again,

To those that sincerely answered with constructive answers, thanks. To those that are way to self absorbed to look beyond petty bickering, thanks as well, I now have a better idea on who to take serious. I can't speak for the context of OP's initial intent. I will say I thought she meant why would a Female answer a question that another individual directed at a Man. I didn't however realize the different ways that the term master was used in other communities. Several did take the time to point that out though, again, thanks. It helped clarify some things for me. As for the insults that I have received throughout this thread, if you intended to hurt my feelings, sorry to disappoint you. I find your attacts on my character laughable and I assure you that if you stood face to face with me your attitude would be much more refined. But, judging by your behavior in this thread, I doubt you will have any idea what I am even talking about. You can however, takes this thought with you to bed this evening." When you are confronted with a challange presented by another person, in that challange you find yourself with a feeling of superiority and you wish to spew fical matter in their direction, imagiine this. With this person you find both yourself and this person naked, locked in a room, no weapons, no tools, no laws. You can be all the silly little cookie monsters and sub coddlers you want, make fun of what you will, but you are being judged the same as you sit and judge. Your credibility is equally at stake. I have not responded to any posts until now do to the fact I have been away we shall say. I have no idea why the Gorean woman has not, but I would assume it's do to the way many of these responses were directed to childish banter versus intelligent discourse. Though there are some outstanding individual responses within.

I wish most of you well, others I wish a true Master, you need it, (is it gender free enough)

Bull


The question was asked of the OP, and respectfully so, why she did not wonder the same thing about males answering in the ask a mistress column.  She has not responded.  One would think that would be a rational question, in light of the OP's actual question.  Another has been asked why she did not post her question in the ask a mistress column, rather than in this supposed male forum inviting answers from females, since a lot of the same female dominants also post in that column.   That was not answered.  One would hope that an enquiring mind would want the whole scope of the question, instead of just targeting the females.  Indeed, that may be why the responses were what they were.




mnottertail -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/12/2006 11:58:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

So you mean my sister is kajira.  I'm understand.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Number 4 prostitute in all of Gor.



Yes, yes.........this is very so........many number 4 prostitututes in all of Gor, not so many number 1 I think, this is for viewing with two of your own eyes, if you should display your buttocks to them in their own marketplace........we have this problem in my country.





Lordandmaster -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/12/2006 12:02:47 PM)

Your sister is No. 4 prostitute too?




mnottertail -> RE: Ask a Master...isn't that a man? (11/12/2006 12:16:08 PM)

Yes, yes, in my country many sisters are number 4, I am at least brother to 3 of them




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