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oscagne -> Hi from the UK (11/5/2006 10:26:18 AM)
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Hi there,
Not particularly new to collarme.com, but first time i've taken a look around the forums. Hope to get more "involved" over time.
Well, I guess you're reading this to possibly find out more about me, so here goes (you have been warned!).
In basic terms then I'm male, 32yrs old, single, submissive male sometimes transvestite with a very slight switchy side.
What am I looking for? Friendship, Fun, Relationship - and in that order....
Friendship: You can never have too many friends I feel, and the more the merrier.
Fun: Hey, if the friendship turns into something with an occasional BDSM slant, then brilliant... (but occasional BDSM slant, i mean some kind of "play" every so often, be in it private or at a club, or whatever).
Relationship: If i ever find the right person, and the click is there, and things develop, then even better, but i won't be any poorer for the previous items on this list.
I'll be friends with any person - male, female, tv, ts, sub, dom, switch, gay, lesbian, bi, monogamous, polyamourous, married, single, dating, white skinned, black skinned, brown skeined, purple with green spots skinned, young or old (and any combination of the above). So long as you are polite, trustworthy, honest and good mannered.
I can't stand dishonesty, and bad manners and impoliteness, but trust is very important to me. Earn mine and it'll be reciprocated in bucket loads, and if nothing else, you'll earn a good friend.
If things go beyond friendship into the fun or relationship category then primarily I'd be looking for dominant females, couples (where at least one is Dom), or tv's. I'd prefer a long term relationship, but am equally happy with what i would describe as an "extended friendship" - our primary interaction would be as friends with a play/bdsm/sexual (take your choice, or all three if you wish) side thrown in for good measure. I am not looking for a one night stand though.
I will not be party to someone playing behind their own partner's back. Either it's out in the open and everyone is happy to operate within the rules that get set, or it's a no go, and if you are part of a couple, then interaction at some level between all parties is essential - none of this "my wife knows and lets me play." business.
OK - that's the boring crap out the way. Let's see - I'm sub male single, tv, and bisexual/bi-curious. I've been in various relationships in the past with Dominant Females, some sexual, some strictly non-sexual - depending on the agreements in place. I like to dress up for parties, but am equally at home just dressing normally.
I have organised over the years a variety of munches, most recently the Leamington Spa munch which are now a regular fixture on the calendar.
Feel free to check out the stuff i have written on my URL - some is fiction some is non-fiction and after that, if you have any questions, let me know.
So what have i to offer a prospective partner/friend/Dominant? An open heart, a good friend, an good listener. I would like to believe that friends would describe me as honourable, loyal, reliable, trustworth and good natured (amongst many other things).
Professionally, I'm a IT Support Consultant - and looking to start getting back out and about after being away from the "scene" for a while. Away from work, i relax either with a good film, a book, meeting up with friends around the country, or just chatting on line with friends (though a good single malt or good food is also another ideal way to unwind i find).
I've not clicked on many of the "interest" settings - as I wonder if that prevents people from messaging rather then aid in it. I have some hard limits - scat, watersports, etc, a lot of the rest - well, lets put it this way - i know what i like, but i am also not scared of testing new waters with people that i implicity trust.
Want to know more - send me a message and ask :)
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