damia -> RE: Abrasion: What is it? (11/5/2006 6:45:58 PM)
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i think i'm definitely getting a good idea of what abrasion play is, and i'm realizing that it is one of the things that i actually have quite a bit of experience in, and that i really enjoy. i just never heard the term before. i highly enjoy scratching, deep scratching especially. Scratchy rope, too. And i have a brush that's made for dogs that has metal bristles, and does much the same thing (probably) as a bbq brush or the such. And i think abrasive play is really good for me emotionally, because in the past i have si'd, and most of the time i did it with my nails, so allowing someone else to do something that gives the same feeling, but is a lot safer for me (doesn't cause the permanent scarring that i now have all over my arms and on my legs a little), does help. When i was with my former Master, he would use nails, hard bristles, and vampire gloves on me, and i never si'd when i was with Him, but when our relationship ended, i returned to it...can this kind of thing be a fetish? It makes me feel better about myself, and sometimes i just feel that i really -need- it, and will do it to myself because it feels good for me, but it's not always so much sexual as just a relaxation...fetishes are sexual, no? i thank all for their commentary so far, and think i'm really understanding what abrasion is now. :) damia the Kat
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