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MistressInNYC -> RE: Professional Dommes (2/3/2005 9:27:07 AM)
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panthergoddess,
Since I live in NYC, it's legit.
Make sure your state allows you to practice this activity to take tribute.
You sould be fine to be a pro as you have experience doing this (I mean, in terms of skills).
So, just this is my two cents;
1 & 2. A: Clients - they bring their own fantasies to you. You will have to accomodate their needs.
It's a challenge. You do for their wish at the same time you CONTROL them to introduce your LIKINGS/your way of doing it.
Some clients who used to a paid session, are manipulative enough to CONTROL YOU by taking advantage of "client right".
They paid to get a service they asked for. Some of them are not really submissives/slaves although they claim to be.
Funny enough, some of them are not even sure what they initially asked for that they even liked. In the course of session, you have to be flexible to change or lead them to their satisfaction without losing your control.
3: Check out any dungeon if there is in GA (where you live, right?).
I recommend to start working there first before going on your own.
You will learn how to operate. It is because of the above reason. People come for a paid session are not always "real" sub/slave mind set. They are also in the course of discovery that you cannot take anything for granted.
They always say they know about this and that and they like this and that, so you take it for granted.
Then later they complained it wasn't what they wanted, etc.
When we (at our dungeon) have a new client, we have "consultation" to have them fill out BDSM check list regarding their knowledge, their health concerns, the degree of pain endurance, and other remarks.
Then we even recommend which type of mistress would be good for a certain type of client.
I'm a sensual type - never be a sadistic one (well, as a pro I have to be sometimes, but just personally I'm not ).
So, my clients are novice to regular ones who preffer my style as well as come for my speciality.
Needless to say, but, Know your speciality, know yourself (sensual/sadistic etc), know your mind capacity how much you could accept this as a business......
Hope this will help.......
A pro Mistress in NYC
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