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ORIGINAL: TheLadyIsaTramp
no, I'm asking if not deriving much, if any, pleasure from nipple stimulation is normal
I'm also asking if the fact that I can't really feel much is normal.
it doesn't SEEM to be.....
As others have noted, in my experience it truly seems to be a case of different strokes for different folks. You may find that while your nipples are not particularly sensitive, other parts of your breasts may be. For many women, the underside of the breast is often quite responsive to touch and oral sensation. Or there my be some other part of your body that is particularly sensitive for you as well, such as your any number of places on your neck, feet, back of the knees or various other places on your body, the list of which would be far too long for me to post.
Some of the most gratifying moments that I can recall in my life have occurred while giving a woman a massage. I have learned to give both therapeutic as well as sensual massages (quite often a comblination of the two is what women I have served wish to have), and have more than once helped a woman discover some area of her body that was particularly sensitive and arousing for her that really pushed her buttons which she did not previously know was a hot spot for her.
If you can find a partner that will spend the time to massage and carefully explore all of you, I think that may help you a great deal to discover what other areas you find sensual and pleasing to be touched, carressed or kissed, etc. Just being massaged to begin with can help you relax and become more comfortable; helping you to be open for the exploration of what is sensual to you. Following that or combining it with a more erotic touch, kisses, etc., may open doors for you that you have never previously discovered. Its mostly a matter of allowing yourself to feel comfortable with your partner and not having a lot of hang-ups about your body in order for this type of exploration to be successful.
Since the sensitivity of nipples was the original subject, I'll mention that a few months ago I discovered that my nipples apparently are more sensitive than I had previously thought. While with a Domme that was new to me, she was so rough with mine the first time I was with her that I couldn't even hardly bear the sensation of my shirt touching them for the 3 days that followed, despite applying Aloe Vera lotion and Hydrocortizone cream! Normally, I greatly enjoy all kinds of general stimulation, but she knew how to squeeze and pinch in such a ruthless manner that I was gritting my teeth and nearly ready to use a safe-word in no time at all! I would have gladly traded my nipples for yours during the few days I spent with her as I can't say my nipples experienced hardly anything pleasurable at all.  As the saying goes, there's a flip side to every coin!
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