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subinktown -> collars and subspace (11/7/2006 9:41:49 AM)

I am trying to find some good solid information on WIITWD, specifically subspace and collars that a curious, openminded, nilla friend can understand.  I spent some time at castlerealm the other day, but didn't have enough time to really search.  It's been so long since I've been active in Ds BDSM that I've forgotten all the good sites.  I'll keep searching, but in the meanwhile, I was hoping someone here could point me in the right direction.

Thanks for any help [:)]



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: collars and subspace (11/7/2006 9:51:44 AM)

Finding good, solid information on something as ethereal as "subspace" and the concept of "collars" is a pretty daunting task.

On subspace:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_622770/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#622894
Crazy First Subspace

http://www.collarchat.com/m_549476/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#549596
blocked out scene or inaccurate memory?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_521560/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#521654
A question about "subspace"

http://www.collarchat.com/m_514967/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#515095
Different views of subspace and subdrop

http://www.collarchat.com/m_238766/mpage_2/key_subspace/tm.htm#280229
How quick do you go into subspace?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_440912/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#441045
Was this subspace?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_537506/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#537508
Subspace ??

What is SUBSPACE?

Subspace...?

Subspace

Subspace can you control it?

Subspace?

Not talking subspace...or sub drop...so what is it?

Subspace or just fantasy land?

Subspace safe?

Subspace or subdrop anyone?

Subspace? (2)

A thing called subspace


On collars:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_561711/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#561725
what is the significance of the collar?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_498653/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#498670
The Coveted and Legendary Collar

http://www.collarchat.com/m_531609/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#531610
Collaring vs Wearing a collar

http://www.collarchat.com/m_547321/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#547475
The meaning of a collar

http://www.collarchat.com/m_485613/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#485797
Please share with me (what being collared means to you)

http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=427111&mpage=1&key=collaring&#427257
being collared

http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=410988&mpage=1&key=collaring&#411019
public collar

http://www.collarchat.com/m_291301/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#291301
Collar vs Wedding Ring

http://www.collarchat.com/m_287566/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#287566
Another Question Regarding the Collar

http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=323687&mpage=1&key=collaring&#323702
collars (2)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_287140/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#287140
Collar

http://www.collarchat.com/m_264867/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#264867
Sub Thoughts on collars

http://www.collarchat.com/m_248345/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#248345
collar before love

http://www.collarchat.com/m_247668/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#247668
ring or collar, what's the difference?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_219135/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#219135
What does a collar mean?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_190240/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#190240
collar or what else?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_187244/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#187244
Accepting a collar

http://www.collarchat.com/m_184946/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#184946
Timeframe for a Collar?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_177155/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#177155
collar (2)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_165733/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#165733
collars

http://www.collarchat.com/m_151638/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#151638
Collar Ceremony

http://www.collarchat.com/m_150934/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#150934
Losing the Collar

http://www.collarchat.com/m_132702/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#132702
From chat to collar

http://www.collarchat.com/m_124898/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#124898
Wearing training collar in public

http://www.collarchat.com/m_81449/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#81449
What are the collar types/levels please?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_80281/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#80281
When is the right time to collar?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_70392/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#70392
Collars and collaring

http://www.collarchat.com/m_61337/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#61337
Collar conundrum?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_59686/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#59686
Color of collars?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_55592/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#55592
Collars when?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_27368/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#27368
Kind of a collar question?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_11451/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#11451
Collaring a submissive?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_428/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#428
What is your definition of a training collar?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_402/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#402
Multiple collars or single collar?



mistoferin -> RE: collars and subspace (11/7/2006 9:54:04 AM)

Well LMAO....that oughta keep ya busy for about the next year or so!!!!!!



crouchingtigress -> RE: collars and subspace (11/7/2006 10:15:27 AM)

what does she want to know?



akisha -> RE: collars and subspace (11/7/2006 10:43:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: subinktown

I am trying to find some good solid information on WIITWD, specifically subspace and collars that a curious, openminded, nilla friend can understand.  I spent some time at castlerealm the other day, but didn't have enough time to really search.  It's been so long since I've been active in Ds BDSM that I've forgotten all the good sites.  I'll keep searching, but in the meanwhile, I was hoping someone here could point me in the right direction.

Thanks for any help [:)]



I'm not sure how helpful this is but.....

Last weekend my little sister popped over unannounced while Sir was up. She came in and I was in collar. Later she called and asked what it was and what it meant.

I explained that when He is visiting I am to be in collar, unless someone (like my parents) is over that it would bother. I explained that my collar is a symbol of the control i have given up freely to Him.( Added to the fact that he likes me in it *S* ) That he is in control.
She asked what he was in control of, was he in control of everything or just in the bedroom. I explain that he was in control of everything.

Once she realized that it was concensual and that he was not a domineering ogre, she seemed to accept it for what it was. She may not completely understand what it means but she realizes that if she has questions i'll answer openly and honestly and that i am in no danger.

I've found with dealing with nilla friends and family the more simple and straight forward the answer the better.



subinktown -> RE: collars and subspace (11/7/2006 6:38:24 PM)

thanks for the help.  i'm sure i'll find something on one of those links if/when i get time to sort.




MasterRobert1 -> RE: collars and subspace (11/8/2006 4:08:26 AM)

Here's an excellent link on subspace.

http://www.hotlanta.com/SirReal/BDSMScience.htm



SirMichealspeach -> RE: collars and subspace (11/8/2006 4:31:45 AM)

 
MasterRobert1:
I really ejoyed reading that link..thank You for that.
I have put it in bookmarks for Master when He gets up.
Excellent

Sir Micheals peach



subinktown -> RE: collars and subspace (11/8/2006 11:43:48 AM)

Thank you for that link, MasterRobert1.  Very consice and informative.  I'll pass it along to my friend.



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