Sinergy
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ORIGINAL: windchymes If they 'really really loved' me, they wouldn't ask me to So, it's entirely fair that a "loved one" should be expected to indulge your kinks, while you insist that they sweep theirs under the carpet. That is not what I wrote. The general approach I take is I will not demand that somebody else do something I am unwilling to do myself. If our kinks do not align, we probably are not a good match. quote:
For instance........I HATE going down on women.......despise it like Jesus despises sin......but I do it (well, despite my reluctance) because I know that women enjoy it, and I want to make them happy, because I am, arguably, a super-awesome person. Now, how fair would it sound if I said to a girlfriend, "If you love me, you should never expect me to eat your pussy during intercourse, because I detest the taste and smell of snatch." I'd sound like an asshole. You and I differ here. I love going down on women :) Sinergy
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