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Dnomyar -> Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 9:32:44 AM)
What is it about a person that makes them sexually attractive to you?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 9:42:57 AM)
First it's their overall look and attitude. The neater and more put together their appearance, the better. Shirt tucked in, clean shoes, brushed and trimmed hair, shoe color matches belt color, clean and modern style glasses, shaved, the whole package. The more formal, the better. I'm a total metrosexual slut. Adding: And not very overweight, and not a smoker. Light eyes with dark hair is always a killer combo for me. Attitude of bemused observation is very good for my attraction. And usually 40+ and -60 in age. Younger than 40 and I might notice a spark of attraction or consider someone really cute, but I won't feel a sexual desire towards them for the most part.

toservez -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 9:43:27 AM)
Confidence and passion in all things in their life. Throw in good hygeine, clean cut, an attempt of living healthy and a great smile and results are yummy!

Dnomyar -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 9:52:56 AM)
Off the subject for a second. I deal with numbers all day [8\|] and got to looking at this board. I took a number of post and looked at the number of people who responded to them.Then the number of people who looked at them. Only 6.3% of the people who look at these post respond to them. [:-] Thats a shame.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 9:55:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Off the subject for a second. I deal with numbers all day and got to looking at this board. I took a number of post and looked at the number of people who responded to them.Then the number of people who looked at them. Only 6.3% of the people who look at these post respond to them. Thats a shame. That's about normal. Web forums follow patterns, this is one of them.

mnottertail -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 9:55:43 AM)
Buddy, your being a wunderkind with numbers doesn't quite do it for me, it might help if you had some big tits......... FYI, Ron (I am not gonna tell you what I find attractive cause it would ruin my rep out here.)

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 10:03:30 AM)
Tall (between 5 10-6 feet +), athletic,broad shoulders, long dark hair, or very short blonde hair, or red hair of any length. I also like hair which isn't a natural colour-blue,purple, blue/black etc. Clean, neat, tidy, smelling nice. A brain and a sense of humour. Piercings and/tattos are good as well.

TreSwank -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 10:06:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar What is it about a person that makes them sexually attractive to you? Usually, it's when I know a person would also have sex with ME.........then the level of attraction shoots up to the ceiling. If not, I just learn to ignore the person.

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 10:07:40 AM)
Lol.

RiotGirl -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 10:16:19 AM)
Tall, bigger then me by much, dark hair, light eyes, muscular, jawline, shoulderline, personality. Personality = who they are, what they stand for, are they easy going, open minded, how much intelligence do they have.. ect ect ect ect. but saying all of that - i vary. I've dated blondes and brunettes.. i've dated short guys, guys with no hair.. i've dated really fucking skinny guys.. i've dated guys where their personlity did not fit my precise bill. (but obviously some parts did) Generally i appraise the overall package. Just because they dont fit the bill in one area doesnt mean they dont make up for it in another area. Sometimes their personality is just so damn attractive to me that i could careless what they look like. Like there are a few Doms (and even Domme's) on this site that i havent a clue what they look like - but put me in the same room and i'd prolly flirt like a mad hatter with them. Generally speaking there has to be something attractive about them for it to go physical. It can be just purely the mind. i need to be attracted to them mentally for it become sexually. Sexual appeal is pretty much the last thing that forms for me. Edited because i am too long winded

shaylaSC -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 10:25:17 AM)
A man at least 10 years my senior that knows what he wants and how to go about getting it. A good uniform helps..lol

agirl -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 10:28:38 AM)
Nothing attracts me sexually to someone looks-wise. I don't feel anything remotely sexual when I am around men, even if I find them attractive aesthetically. I only feel sexually attracted to someone when some kind of closeness has developed. agirl

kittensmailbox -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 10:38:37 AM)
LOVES a man in a suite... Love them tall, deep voices... For a woman, i love them strong and a lil mean... with class...

Fawne -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 10:38:47 AM)
Men with self confidence, a quiet dignity, a sense that they can lead and take charge. Compassion. Masculine, rugged good looks, neat, clean, good posture and a silly sense of humor.

Dnomyar -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 10:41:01 AM)
Halloween you want a russian atheleth

daddysprop247 -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 10:52:28 AM)
hmmm, sexually attractive....must be older than me by at least 15 years...confidence and self-assuredness just to the point of arrogance...charisma...obvious intelligence...taller than me by at least 4 inches...not skinny and not obese...physically strong...assertive and even aggressive...just an overwhelming air of dominance and power. quietly intimidating. the kind of man who carries himself with grace and class, yet who you can also easily imagine giving you a mighty slap across the face for getting out of line. a gentleman with balls. yep, that's it. ;)

ExSteelAgain -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 11:08:19 AM)
What I notice about these type threads is that many people talk about the "given" to me. Appearance, hygiene, teeth (lol), and so on. Okay, give me one with all the above and then we can start to see how smart and sensitive she is.

LaTigresse -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 11:09:46 AM)
At first I thought this was a really difficult question to answer given the range of people that have tripped my trigger. So I started to look at what they all had in common. Self confidence without arrogance Intelligence with common sense A really good sense of humour that is even able to be self depreciating An interest in the world, open mind A certain earthiness mixed with class self aware without being vain Romantic because I forget to be Good hygiene but not afraid to have fun getting dirty They find me sexually attractive but more importantly want to just be with me and enjoy my company without the sex. I know that might seem to be an odd one to add but I think about it this way. I like knowing I am turning someone on but even more so I like to know that they would want to be with me even if it wasn't going to get to sex. To me, that is very attractive.

darchChylde -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 11:33:32 AM)
well first let me say that i have no actual type (this means that the entire description is an ideal, a fantasy... and i don't know how happy i'd be if i were to meet someone that fits the whole thing... one of the worst things you can do with a fantasy is to fulfill it), each woman must be judged on an individual basis... but yes, i have an ideal, this is the woman who stars in most of my mastubatory fantasies: red hair, long and wavy, not to curly, at least down to the waist, but i love it bound up just so i can watch it fall... about 5 to 5 foot 4 and 125-160lbs... this is to say, i don't really want thin pale skin, plenty of freckles to kiss, count, categorize, and name... no tan lines because there's no tan... green eyes behind cat's eye type glasses she has to be dominant in bed and in a relationship... i'm not a push over and she would have to earn that dominance, but that's what i like she should have a very strong belief in how she believes the world (at large and her immediate surroundings) should be and take some steps to making it so (she doesn't have to agree with me, either... rather hope she doesn't... i love a good passionnate debate) she has to be willing to try stuff that she may not be comfortable with at first, willing to try new things, and at least a little kinky she has to have a sense of humor and a kind spirit she should either dress goth or punk, but be happy going out in just anything... i really don't need a fashionista... i don't want false modesty beyond what i think of her, she has to be able to look into the mirror and tell herself, with conviction, that she is beautiful... i don't really want cocky or arrogant, but she has to have confidence and beliefe in herself in all that she is... she has to love herself; because without that, i know that she could never truly love me there may be more... but this is all i an think of right now

diz -> RE: Sexually attractive (11/8/2006 11:50:20 AM)
a pulse helps [:D] [:D] [:D]

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