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Another newbie in the fold-Dom - 11/9/2006 5:45:50 AM

roadhogg

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Hi to everyone, i found this site yesterday after a referral from someone in a Dom/sub chatroom on another site.
Technically i'm a vanilla because i've never tried a real Dom/sub relationship, though from what i understand it may be exactly what i seek for long term happiness.
I'm looking for someone to care about, not someone to hurt. If a woman wants me to be in control she's telling me she trusts me to look after her, and should be treated with more respect than normal, not less.I'm happy to play games, with belts, canes and whips etc, but may need some encouragement to use them in any more than a gentle manner, because i don't like pain myself.
I don't expect to find anyone online, because the women have so much choice, and i don't do one night stands because i've tried a few in years past and they've left me feeling cheap and dirty, or that i've done something i shouldn't have, cos my heart wasn't in it.
In view of the above, i'm here just to chat and have a laugh, until maybe one day in the real world, or possibly cyberworld, i may find someone who i think is worth having a relationship with, and who feels the same way about me.
You never know, the scouts are not out but my eyes are open.
Greetings to A/all, and i wish everyone success in finding their own version of happiness.

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RE: Another newbie in the fold-Dom - 11/9/2006 5:53:20 AM

SweetSarijane

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Welcome to CM!! You might look up real time groups in your area and go to munches and demos and classes if you can. It's a great way to meet, learn and make friends.

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RE: Another newbie in the fold-Dom - 11/9/2006 10:23:45 PM

NanaimoNeophyte

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Welcome roadhogg - what a great post! Thank you for sharing and good luck! :D

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RE: Another newbie in the fold-Dom - 11/10/2006 11:50:43 AM

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